bopujo906

@bopujo906 (8)

United States • Age 46

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Changing federal deduction for pay checks

sedel1027 @sedel1027 (17846) • Cupertino, California 16 Jan 08

My hubby got a job making a lot more, so I told him to take all the deductions and I would lower mine. OMG I was so shocked at the amount of money that was taken out of my check (I went from 4 deductions to 1). We don't want to...

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bopujo906 Absolutely. I claim single and 1, if I claimed married and 0 I would make $20 more a week. Less back in taxes though. If you're a good saver, claim what you need, to even yourself out in the tax department at the end of the year and stick it in a savings...

16 Jan 08

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Do you share a checking/savings account?

amaleigh73 @amaleigh73 (499) • United States 16 Jan 08

I've been hearing about married couples that have separate bank accounts and whatever they make go into their own account. They consider it "their" money? I'm not sure what I think about that. My husband and I share our accounts....

bank

bank accounts

money

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bopujo906 Seriously, this apparently works well for other people, to not share accoutns, however I feel it lends to a bit of distrust. I understand the whole been married before thing, but if you're not ready for the life commitment don't do it again. My husband and I...

16 Jan 08

Life

pawpaw419 @pawpaw419 (47) • United States 15 Jan 08

That's Life. You ever hear those words? That's Life. Yuo know, like when something bad happens in your life and someone says "That's Life". I have a story about lifes difficulties and how it relates to me. My Wife and I were...

life

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bopujo906 The bigger you are the harder you fall. Let us all remember our humble beginnings, and if we didn't have humble beginnings, perhaps we should imagine them. We are not well off by any means, but we have come far in life, we would be devastated if one of us lost...

15 Jan 08

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I was hurt!

2btrueinu @2btrueinu (700) • Philippines 15 Jan 08

I felt so sad today, I think I want to cry. I had a fight with my husband about little things, misunderstanding let say, yesterday he was working in his fishpond project so he need to take off a few soil from that area and...

emotions

misunderstanding

relationship

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bopujo906 Let's be realistic. You are grown people. If my husband started in on me like that, I would laugh at him. As he would me. I would look at him and say" Are you in a bad mood or something?" And he would spout a little more about why he was in a bad mood. And...

15 Jan 08

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adhd

mag_keizer2007 @mag_keizer2007 (1282) • Canada 13 Jan 08

How old were your children when they were diagnosed with ADHD or ADD. My daughter is 2 and a half and she is very busy...active...spirited. Which ever you call it she exhausts me. My nephew is ADHD and my husband was as well. I...

adhd

children

parenting

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bopujo906 I knowing my daughter ran a risk for adhd, recognized the signs immediately. 2 year olds can be pretty crazy. My daughter's first sign was the fact that she stopped taking a nap when she was one year old. The next was that she would only fall asleep if I could...

15 Jan 08

Am I wrong for this..............

neelygal @neelygal (1022) • Bahamas 14 Jan 08

I am ready to scream.those of you who respond to my discussions know that I am having a hard time with my six month old baby girl who is very naggy right now.Well today she has not had a nap at all and screamed most of the day.I...

baby blues

screaming babies

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bopujo906 I just want to add that it's also okay to set your baby in her crib and walk away for 10 minutes. I have had to do this a few times. I remember her crying into hysterics, sometimes she would fall asleep, others I would feel a little refreshed after 10 minutes...

15 Jan 08