bournecaindelta

@bournecaindelta (2477)

India • Age 38

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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HELP! I need some new music!

maezee @maezee (41987) • United States 12 Aug 12

I am in a rut. I need to find some new music and bands and songs to listen to. I am getting somewhat sick of my *favorite* bands and favorite songs just because I listen to them over and over again. I tend to listen to music ALL...

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bournecaindelta Bryan Adams (Rock) - jolly & energizing music Nickelback (Rock) - Thought evoking music with nice songs and lyrics Theory of a Deadman (Rock) - Strong songs with some really good lyrics Three Doors Down (Rock) - Overall awesome songs. There are the...

12 Aug 12

Importance of giving a Child an Allowance.

Jshean20 @Jshean20 (14347) • Canada 12 Aug 12

Based on your experience, how important do you think it is to provide a child with an allowance? Growing up, I never recieved an allowance but I was always bought anything I wanted ( within reason of course). Looking back I can...

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bournecaindelta I never got allowance myself. And I didn't need any growing up. We didn't have computers back then and didn't need any money to buy new releases. My parents took me out regularly to watch movies and shopping to buy clothes etc for me and my siblings. I usually...

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Wise words for people

chookie1971 @chookie1971 (2271) • Australia 12 Aug 12

Only recently I have commented on a friends status on facebook. She was a bit upset and lost trust in a friend. Of course when it comes to facebook, alot of people give there advise and wisedom. I am proud of what I said and...

advise

wisedom

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bournecaindelta Nothing specific. I have found people post a lot of stupid stuff on FB. It's become a public sympathy fishing place where everybody posts something or the other to make others like them. I usually respond to posts which mean something to me, posts which give...

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it's not me it's just how i see the world

luntian_grace @luntian_grace (1373) • Philippines 27 Jul 12

everywhere standards are erected to tell you what is and what is not. most people would tell us to buy this because it's good for us. and don't buy this because it will kill you. certain people form organization to set these...

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bournecaindelta I think it would depend a lot on what you are talking about. If you talk about the road laws, then obviously some time and research has been put into it to study the human psychology and understand how humans function and certain laws like speed limit and...

12 Aug 12

your single coz you sucks

luntian_grace @luntian_grace (1373) • Philippines 4 Aug 12

in any relationship there are no experts. sometimes we fall for the wrong reason and sometimes we fall out of love. things just don't always add up to. we want to make things work but it's not always like that. it's like saying it...

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bournecaindelta She obviously is not the caring kind, but i think the boy friend expects her to call him or something so that he feels that she cares. There have been some times in my life when I didn't feel like calling my girlfriend. It's just a phase for me which lasts...

12 Aug 12

how to be friendly with your ex lover who hurt you so much?

asliah @asliah (11137) • Philippines 12 Aug 12

greetings to all of you guys, i have a question not only to myself but to all of you too, have you ever be friendly to your ex lover/partner who really hurt you so much in the past?how will you accept the friendship of your ex...

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bournecaindelta No need to if you ask me. If someone has the indifference to hurt me then I feel that they do not deserve any place in my life. Neither as a friend, nor as a memory. Life should be lived looking ahead and learned from the past. bourne :)

12 Aug 12

What's wrong with fixed marriage?

Daisy_22 @Daisy_22 (1229) • Philippines 12 Aug 12

It's been a Chinese tradition to have their sons and daughter planned to be a couple in the future even they are still young.However there are some instances that it will not push trough.In my case I will never allow fixed...

marriage

relationship

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bournecaindelta It all depends on how the parents see it as well. If they expect you to blindly marry someone they have give their word to then it's plain stupidity. I have noticed that a lot of arranged marriages in India work out well because the couples are given enough to...

12 Aug 12

Update on the stealing lunches episode

winterose @winterose (39887) • Canada 15 Nov 11

Recap My friend has been working in a very bad place. He was sent there by the workmens compensation board (CSST), It was a two month assignment. He was really looking forward to working there. Then things started happening....

bad places to work

fights at work

stolen lunches

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bournecaindelta Well that's how it goes. Sometimes we just have to be good and good will surely happen to us. It's a good thing that everybody stuck with your friend when the police came or else I guess he would have been in big trouble. I guess that young rascal was...

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make-up can indeed improve one’s look

rebel_woman06 @SIMPLYD (90717) • Philippines 14 Nov 11

Yes, simplicity is beauty. But if one is so natural, she still has a chance to look gorgeous. Take for example, my office mate. Without make-up, she is so plain looking. But when she was asked to participate in the program ,...

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bournecaindelta There is a difference between having a make up to look good and making up just to impress others. Most of the times people do it for the latter while actually the impress that they make fades as fast as their make up fades in rain. What you said is right....

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Conserving energy......lights out!

jillhill @jillhill (37353) • United States 15 Nov 11

I try to conserve energy as much as possible. I don't use alot of lights when I am home. I shut off those that are unnecessary. Last night I went to lock my back door and looking out at my neighbors houses, they were all lit up...

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bournecaindelta The world is going to be in big trouble soon because we are spending all our energy resources while practically not much progress is being made on other fronts to harness energy like that of wind or nuclear. Energy is a very vital part of human life right now....

15 Nov 11

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when was the last one you have?

luntian_grace @luntian_grace (1373) • Philippines 13 Nov 11

ok we all know that hamburgers can give you lots, no tons of fats. and those who are on strict diet won't even dare to lay their eyes on it. i am not in strict diet though but still the last bite that i have for hamburgers was at...

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bournecaindelta I had a burger last week and it was not so yummy. It was a veggie burger but I guess the next time I go out I will surely try a chicken or something else. I usually do not eat burgers a lot because they spoil my appetite and I do not feel hungry for hours...

14 Nov 11

What disappoints you in your relationship?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30181) • Philippines 14 Nov 11

For mylotters, both men and women, what would make you feel disappointed with your girlfriend/wife or Husband/BF? I meant, you are together, and then you suddenly realize that the GF you knew was someone who is not quite what...

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bournecaindelta One thing that would disappoint me in my relationship would be if my other half would not understand what I was going through. I would hate it if they came home and spoiled the happy mood cribbing about how work was or how the shoes are lying in the wrong...

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I have sleep problem . I'm insomniac !

myrnz626 @myrnz626 (112) • Philippines 14 Nov 11

I have insomnia and sleep trouble nowadays. I have difficulty to fall sleep on the right time. My time has been rescheduled. I am not sleeping the whole night until the morning. I am awake most of the night , lying in bed...

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bournecaindelta I do not think you are insomniac. Infact I think you have just had a change in your sleeping habits. One thing I would suggest is forgetting about morning chores before you go to bed in then night. Sleep lightly and do not worry about morning. You can drink a...

14 Nov 11

Looking for new TV shows to watch

mrsbentley27 @mrsbentley27 (662) • United States 14 Nov 11

Does anyone know of any tv series that are similar to shows like Charmed, Smallville, Pretty little liars, gossip girl, secret life of american teenager, etc. Here lately I watch more TV series that I do anything else. I have...

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bournecaindelta I watch TV shows when I can watch them but there are two shows that I watch pretty regularly. One is Burn Notice on USA Networks and the other is House MD on Fox network. Both of the shows are my favs and I love watching them. I just have to get a new TV to...

14 Nov 11

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your best writing site so far

CrimsonSpork @Manasha (2917) • Pondicherry, India 14 Nov 11

I have been writing articles in many of the sites and the payment is always fluctuating. However, as a freelancer writer I can able to earn more when compared to to her online sites. Some sites are not fetching me a good amount...

writing

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bournecaindelta I used to write a lot before and got paid too in hundred of dollars but since I started school again I am not having enough time to write enough to get paid enough. I am trying to set aside a part of my day's time to earn some money by writing but as you know...

14 Nov 11

Which countries would you like to visit?

maximax8 @maximax8 (31042) • United Kingdom 14 Nov 11

The earth is very large and it has lots of different countries to visit. It is easier to visit countries next to your home country and it is expensive to visit far away countries. I live in England which is part of the United...

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bournecaindelta I have always wanted to go to the Egypt and explore the pyramids. I have always wanted to be lost in the forests of Amazon and be found with a new tribe of aborigines. I have always wanted to swim off the coast of Ecuador near the Galapagos Islands. I have...

14 Nov 11

In excess of $ 2000 a month!!

Pushhyarag2000 @Pushhyarag2000 (1416) • India 14 Nov 11

Well, that's the kind of money I have to make from freelancing for me to quit my day job. Will I ever make it? But then, I'm an eternal optimist. I will not give up so easily. Why do I want to do that? Simple: I want to be my...

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bournecaindelta Oops.. That should be 20 hours a week.

14 Nov 11

In excess of $ 2000 a month!!

Pushhyarag2000 @Pushhyarag2000 (1416) • India 14 Nov 11

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bournecaindelta I know how daunting that can be. I have been there but yeah things always dont go as planned now do they. Awesome guys.. Your thoughts have been so wonderful. Right now I am a student working in the campus. But US law restrictions state that I cannot work...

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