bstao5

@bstao5 (33)

United States • Age 42

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Have you ever had a "natural" labor/delivery?

4cuteboys @4cuteboys (4099) • United States 7 May 07

So my first labor I had an epidural, the next one came too fast so I didnt get any epidural or meds, the third and fourth I had the epidural but the fourth time it wore off when I had to push so I felt it all (ouch!). This time I...

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bstao5 My first happend so fast that i didnt have time for any meds but my second I had an epiduaral and I was very grateful for it cause it lasted 11 hours.

8 May 07

Getting your 2 year old to eat.

mommey20032005 @mommey20032005 (264) • United States 6 May 07

My youngest has always been hard to feed, now it's even harder. She wont eat more then 5 bites, but she will drink so much. she drinks so much it makes her full, but if I take away her cup she will get upset and cry. She is not...

parenting

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bstao5 My nephew is that same way he is 2 but by looking at hin you would think he was 1 but the doctors said that it is normal too. He is healthy in every other aspect just try to get her to eat but dont force her make sure she gets lots of milk and maybe some of...

7 May 07

What the worst pain you've experienced?

MarkyB21 @MarkyB21 (1545) 6 May 07

I'm talking physical pain not emotional. So, what's the worst pain you've experienced and how would you describe it? One of the most painful things I've experienced was when I was stabbed - I'd heard previously that it...

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bstao5 The worst pain I have ever felt was giving birth to my first child it happend to quickly to recieve any pain meds so it was all natural and it felt like someone was sticking a big fork into my stomach and turning my intestines like spaggetti but it was worth...

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Do you have a place in your home just for spiritual practice?

Leca @lecanis (16647) • Murfreesboro, Tennessee 6 May 07

In the old days, rich people often had entire chapels built into their homes. Among some religious groups, home altars and shrines were the norm. I've only been to a couple of modern homes that have such things, and I was...

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bstao5 Well I fell wherever you kneel down and pray or sit on your bed or on the couch or wherever your place is to talk to God that is where your altar is. God looks at the heart of man not how elegant or fancy his place of worship may be just as long as you do...

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Is there Life after Marriage and Children?

gypsylady28 @gypsylady28 (945) • United States 6 May 07

It seems since I've become married and had children, their is no me anymore. Does that make sense to anyone? I'm either mom, wife, the better half, "John's Wife", "Jane's Mom", "Jack's Mom", etc. LOL it is like I don't even have...

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bstao5 I think that we all feel that way at sometime or another but just remeber that you are a mom and wife and that that is the new you. You have the most important role you keep the the family together. So dont feel like youve lost you. Even though they may not...

7 May 07

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Children... How many is a good number?

MrsWickham1 @MrsWickham1 (464) • United States 4 May 07

My husband and I decided that we only wanted one child. I do and I don't want another baby. I love my daughter and I would do anything for her, but I don't think I want anymore kids. All of our friends keep telling us we need to...

children

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bstao5 I think 3 is a well rounded number only because i have 3 i think it just depends on you and your situation and how you fell it should totally be your decision to have more kids or not to dont be pressured into it by anyone.

5 May 07

It's your guilty pleasure. Admit it, some of you like reality shows. Which ones?

Amber @AmbiePam (85484) • United States 4 May 07

To be fair, there was another discussion about this topic posted several weeks ago, but it had two responses, and I think with the higher ratings some of these shows have experienced over the last two weeks, it might have...

american idol

reality shows

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bstao5 I love Coyote Ungly for some reason I am addicted to it. I like to watch the bad girls club too mainly to make fun of them and laugh at how 2 faced they all are. Also american Idol, and I like I love New York too it was also funny because she is like making...

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Click, Click, Click..Do Any Of These Sites Really Make You Money?

wachit14 @wachit14 (3595) • United States 4 May 07

Okay, I'm not looking for referral links. What I want to know is do you really make any money from these click to read or paid to surf sites? Yes, I've made a few cents, but not much more than that. So I want to know if any of you...

money websites

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bstao5 So farnone of them have worked for me

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Strippers???

sheenac1983 @sheenac1983 (63) • Canada 4 May 07

Would you "allow" your significant other go to the strip club, even though you trust him/her wholeheartedley? I trust that my fiance won't do anything and I really don't have that much of a problem with him going, but does anyone...

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bstao5 Well that is a touchy subject I believe that if he respected you he wouldnt go because why put himself in an environment where it could happen even though you trust him he is human and if hes drinking and staring at half naked girls and his friends are all...

5 May 07

how are you as a parent??

akinad @akinad (446) • Philippines 5 May 07

to tell you honestly,i'm having a hard time dealing with my little girl..she's only one and 7mos. but she's getting the worst out of me!!especially when she screams and cries really hard that i end up confused and at the same time...

attitude

kids

parenting

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bstao5 The best thing to do is let her know that you are the parent and that has to be some rules and guidelines. When she throws things or throws a tantrum put her in time out for 2-3 minutes I have found that that hurts mine more than anything they to to sit still...

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have you ever disliked a person yet not know why.

winterose @winterose (39887) • Canada 4 May 07

There have been a few people that crossed my path that I just couldn't get close to them. I didn't know them really but I just didn't like them. As I got older I found out that I can read people, I can tell if someone is good...

disliking people

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bstao5 I know exactly what you mean like there is this one woman on this radio station that i have never even seen but just her voice hurts my ears i dont know why its just like scatching a chalkboard to me.

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Children under 2... Should they watch TV?

MrsWickham1 @MrsWickham1 (464) • United States 4 May 07

This has been a huge argument with me an other moms. My daughter will be one on the 24th and i will not lie she watches TV. I try to only do it when I have to take a test for school or I need to do my hair, but mostly she only...

babies watching tv

dora the explorer

kids watching tv

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bstao5 I agree as long as it is educational it is fine my daughter learned alot from those type of shows and she loves them.

5 May 07

2 time pregnant / stretch marks issue?

freakate @freakate (20) • United States 4 May 07

OK , So I am pregnant again ! yay ! My baby girl just turned 1 this last month. Yeah , go figure! So this is my question: Last pregnancy I used lotion in my belly to prevent stretch marks and it didnt work , cause I have them. So...

pregnancy

remedies

stretch marks

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bstao5 Well the Doctora all told me coco butter and my sis we were pregnant at the same time. Well I gained 30 pounds the recomended weight gain and my sis gained a whopping 50 pounds we both used the coco butter she has like 2 stretch marks and I have a whole...

5 May 07

Were you close to your sister growing up?

Monica @momoftwingirls (859) • United States 5 May 07

I was, we were 3.5 years apart and would always hang out together. We loved bowling, dancing, playing pool, watching movies together, going to concerts together..you name it, we did it. Do you still live close to each other?...

close to sister

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bstao5 I was my sister was alot olser than me like 15 years older so she spoiled me and now I am 25 and she is 40 but she is my bestest friend ever we have lost both of our parents one to a heartattack and one to cancer and if I hadnt had her to lean on I dont know...

5 May 07

Boy locked by Dad - As his Dad was taking Drugs........ What worse can it be.

kukkad @kukkad (511) • India 4 May 07

I just read this article on CNN and thought it could not go any bad in a case of drug abuse. This dad locked his son in a dog cage as the cruel dad was having drugs. It all came out while the parents had left their 2...

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bstao5 I agree that these parents do need to be brutally punished. I look at my 3 beautiful children and I wonder how can anyone ever hurt a child.

4 May 07

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Make instant money or Future Career? Do you think good to make instant money?

aliasad @aliasad (1567) • Pakistan 4 May 07

Well, I believe that "easy comes, easy goes" lol I want to have your rich opinion about the subject. I am working in an organization for last almost 7 years. I made a reasonable progress here with reasonable increment too....

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bstao5 Well I think that if you truly love your job then stay but if not and the money is good then go for it and take a risk it might be the best thing youve ever done. But i would also consider hours and things like that too because I believe that spending time...

4 May 07

It might be MY JOB...but why can't I get a little help around here?

kbkbooks @kbkbooks (7022) • Canada 3 May 07

Do you ever feel that as a woman you are totally taken for granted in your house? Everyone expects you to do the housework, the cooking, the shopping, etc. I do most of this and most of the time I don't complain, but just once in...

housekeeper

wife

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bstao5 Oh yes my husband and kids totally take advatage of all the things that i do for them. It;s like my hubby is worse than the kids though he leaves his clothes wherever he takes them off and his crap all over the house its like HELLO Did I Birth you too? NO!! I...

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