chayapathys

@chayapathys (2111)

India • Age 60

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Enjoying the Moment

Beaufly @Beaufly (991) • United States 30 Mar 11

I have recently started meditating on a small scale but I find it helps me to stay centered, calm and peaceful. More importantly, it keeps me focused in the present moment, which is all we have? How do you stay in the present or...

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chayapathys Rational thinking is the only difference between human beings and animal.Mind is the centre on which the entire universe rotates.If the mind is in your control the entire outer world cannot do anything with you.Know your mind and that is...

4 Apr 11

smiling is contageous......

chayapathys @chayapathys (2111) • India 4 Apr 11

Many people are serious in nature and by ourward appearance. But I have come across a very few people who appear to be smiling always.Smiling is nature's gift.When any one smiles at you you immediately reciprocate.Smiling shows...

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When hopes do not come true...?

chayapathys @chayapathys (2111) • India 9 Mar 11

We all live on hopes and we get terribly disappointed when they do not materialise.In this connection I vividly remember the poem written by famous nature poet Wordsworth who said.."If hopes are dupes fears may be liars".When we...

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chayapathys If you had been disappointed in your hopes it is likely that your worst fears will also not materialise. It is philosophical thought to encourge people to take things as they come with equanimity...

1 Apr 11

When hopes do not come true...?

chayapathys @chayapathys (2111) • India 9 Mar 11

We all live on hopes and we get terribly disappointed when they do not materialise.In this connection I vividly remember the poem written by famous nature poet Wordsworth who said.."If hopes are dupes fears may be liars".When we...

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chayapathys I wish you could have made gunnies record in match collection.what a tragedy.I pray that your will suceed to reach your goal in some other respect.All the best..

1 Apr 11

Enjoying the Moment

Beaufly @Beaufly (991) • United States 30 Mar 11

I have recently started meditating on a small scale but I find it helps me to stay centered, calm and peaceful. More importantly, it keeps me focused in the present moment, which is all we have? How do you stay in the present or...

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chayapathys Meditation is the only way to be happy and also make others around us happy.Budhism is completely based on meditation only. Even in Hinduism much importance is given to meditation. The saying is when your mind changes the world around you changes. There is...

31 Mar 11

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Do you know what you are doing...?

chayapathys @chayapathys (2111) • India 15 Mar 11

All of us do somthing or the other ..some times it may be good and sometimes it may be bad.No one does good always and similarly no one does bad always but we are aware that what we do is good or bad.Even a thief knows that he is...

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chayapathys As you say people know that when they do evil many know that they are doing evil.Still they do it for reasons best known to them.Time will certainly come when they realise that what they did was wrong and that they ought not to have done it but it may be too...

17 Mar 11

Do you know what you are doing...?

chayapathys @chayapathys (2111) • India 15 Mar 11

All of us do somthing or the other ..some times it may be good and sometimes it may be bad.No one does good always and similarly no one does bad always but we are aware that what we do is good or bad.Even a thief knows that he is...

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chayapathys I have studied in christian missionary schools and college.I always cherish the noble ideas tought during my student life.I always like noble things i find in any religion.Though I am a stauch Hindu I like goods things in other religions.after all religion is...

15 Mar 11

Do you feel grateful...?

chayapathys @chayapathys (2111) • India 14 Mar 11

When I deeply think over day to day living it occurs to me that we are living every minute of our life on the help and service rendered by many of the past and the present.For instance when you are taking your food on a table in...

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chayapathys What you say is correct and we are all grateful to them.Without their help and service we could not be here what we are and how we are.Yes there is difficlty in expressing our gratitude to them since they are invisible and not identifiable to help.May be we...

15 Mar 11

Do you know what you are doing...?

chayapathys @chayapathys (2111) • India 15 Mar 11

All of us do somthing or the other ..some times it may be good and sometimes it may be bad.No one does good always and similarly no one does bad always but we are aware that what we do is good or bad.Even a thief knows that he is...

3 responses

Do you feel grateful...?

chayapathys @chayapathys (2111) • India 14 Mar 11

When I deeply think over day to day living it occurs to me that we are living every minute of our life on the help and service rendered by many of the past and the present.For instance when you are taking your food on a table in...

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Do you smoke?

sexyice @sexyice (873) • Latvia 13 Mar 11

One cigarette reduces life by 5-7 min. Also, I smoked last 7 years, but for five months I NO smoke. I am very proud of the fact that I have abandoned. Actually felt better and my health has improved. It was not easy to quit, but...

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chayapathys Thank you for your advice not to smoke.No doubt smoking is injurious to health and that is what every cigerrete packet says. It is good not to smoke but it is also very difficult to give up smoking.You are great in giving up smoking.Congrats.I also smoked once...

13 Mar 11

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When hopes do not come true...?

chayapathys @chayapathys (2111) • India 9 Mar 11

We all live on hopes and we get terribly disappointed when they do not materialise.In this connection I vividly remember the poem written by famous nature poet Wordsworth who said.."If hopes are dupes fears may be liars".When we...

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chayapathys It is only words of wisdom to live happy life.These words teach people to be less pessimistic.The idea is very beautiful and if every one of us can understand the real and hidden message in these words we can life happy and peaceful life.These are all morals...

9 Mar 11

When hopes do not come true...?

chayapathys @chayapathys (2111) • India 9 Mar 11

We all live on hopes and we get terribly disappointed when they do not materialise.In this connection I vividly remember the poem written by famous nature poet Wordsworth who said.."If hopes are dupes fears may be liars".When we...

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chayapathys It is only moral lesson that the poet wanted to convey.It may not be true in all cases and at all times.what the poets means is that we should not get bogged down when our hopes do not materialise on the analogy that our worst fears also may not...

9 Mar 11

Bribing police men – is that helped you in getting away……..

CSHINE @SHAMRACK (8576) • India 9 Mar 11

I had bribed police few times, that was when I went wrong side, when my car got hit to the electric post, to get one of my friend’s case in favor of him and the last time I gave bride was when the investing policeman was not...

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chayapathys What You say is correct.Bribing police helps us to relieve mental tention and further troubles and nuisance.After all there is corruption in every walk of life.I can say there is no one who has not bribed for getting favours and also avoid disappointments.We...

9 Mar 11

When hopes do not come true...?

chayapathys @chayapathys (2111) • India 9 Mar 11

We all live on hopes and we get terribly disappointed when they do not materialise.In this connection I vividly remember the poem written by famous nature poet Wordsworth who said.."If hopes are dupes fears may be liars".When we...

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What is selfishness..?

chayapathys @chayapathys (2111) • India 8 Mar 11

Man is essentially selfish but when you consider what is selfishness it need not necessarily be confined to one individual.As long as an individual is single whether male or female selfishness is confined to the individual.But...

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chayapathys What I stated is easily than done.It is a very obscure thought.One has to think about this again and again.Given the present situation in the world and human nature what it is it is very and very diffcult to expand one's self as I suggested.Anyway we can make...

8 Mar 11

What is selfishness..?

chayapathys @chayapathys (2111) • India 8 Mar 11

Man is essentially selfish but when you consider what is selfishness it need not necessarily be confined to one individual.As long as an individual is single whether male or female selfishness is confined to the individual.But...

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chayapathys As you rightly say selfishness is subjective and it all depends upon the outlook of the individual.The narrower one becomes in his attitude towards others the more selfish one becomes.See Jusus Christ or Budha who embraced the entire humanity in their self...

8 Mar 11

Is Love Blind?

floranabolilan @floranabolilan (80) 28 Sep 10

When we are first in love, and during the first weeks or months or even years of our marriage, we must see our loved one as perfect, and we can tolerate no unpleasant feeling toward her or him. But as time pass by, unknowingly, if...

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chayapathys Yes love is blind.When you fall in love at first sight you are guided by the outward appearance and sweet talk.They are not the real nature of the person with whom you are going to live and share your happiness and sorrows.Outward looks are deceptive in many...

8 Mar 11