chengbeb

@chengbeb (285)

Philippines • Age 47

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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How many people live in your house?

lovemygirls2503 @lovemygirls2503 (431) • United States 5 Oct 08

Well to start off I have a really big family. There's me and six more girls. We all have kids except for two of us. The one is my step sister who is only 6. My adopted sister has 10 kids. My second oldest sister has 9. My third...

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chengbeb It's not really that crazy. In the Philippines, families are really close knit that even if we get married and have kids of our own we still tend to stay with our parents. In a different house though but near our relatives. In our compound that's just 3...

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my sister is pregnant worst we were not able to see him with a guy!!

iceberry_kaye @iceberry_kaye (199) • Philippines 2 Oct 08

we were all worried because my sister whose 20 is pregnant and the worst thing is we haven't seen him with a boyfriend.. she's a partly girl she loves going out with friends, but we did not expect that this would happend.. what...

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chengbeb She may not confide in you the way you would want her to but you could always show her or make her feel that you care. And that you are really there for her. With regard to your father there's no easy way out. He'll get mad, yes that's true and you can't stop...

3 Oct 08

Being a Working Mom

gracetreyes @gracetreyes (529) • Philippines 2 Oct 08

As a working mom, many hours of my life are spend working, not just 8 to 9 hours a day but even more. But I always make it a point that saturdays and sundays are for my family, or if not possible, I let my son hang with me...

mother at work

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chengbeb Of course! I'd be happy to be your friend!

3 Oct 08

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can you love your child if he are she was born handicappe?

annjilena @annjilena (5618) • United States 17 Sep 08

you are expecting a baby,but something happens doing delivery your baby, is born handicappe how would this affect you? this happen to me, i carried a baby for 9 months and he was born handicappe.

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chengbeb I understand where you're coming from the best you could at this point is ask your doctor what could have been the cause for your child coming out handicapped. But to be honest with you even if you knew you can't change anything. The best you could do now is...

17 Sep 08

YAHOOOOO I got my first dolar with mylot

Manojknair @Manojknair (603) • India 17 Sep 08

Hi friends , i am happy to inform that i earned 1 Dollar with Mylot inspite of my busy schedule. I think i need to push more hard to get my payout amount . thaks to all who replied and participated in my discussion. Have a nice...

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chengbeb I knew you'd ask that and I'm sorry I wasn't able to clarify my response. I stopped mylotting for a year due to some unavoidable circumstances. It has just been 2 weeks since I started mylotting again.

17 Sep 08

Confessing to your closest friend.

micahbrul @micahbrul (307) • Philippines 14 Sep 08

Are you going to tell to your closest friend about something that you know she'll get mad to? That you and the past with her were involved. Secrets that you've shared, a promised that will never be broke and just an instant...

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chengbeb You can't really tell if your gonna lose your friendship or not. It really depends on how she's gonna take it. It's hard to be honest...you might lose your friendship in the process. It's really up to you and how you're gonna take it if she decides that she...

17 Sep 08

How do you deal with a friend whom you trusted and yet is backstabbing you?

chengbeb @chengbeb (285) • Philippines 15 Sep 08

I have a guy friend who at the same time is also working in our family business. I really felt that we were close and I felt that I could confide in him about anything and he'd keep it to himself. However, lately I've been hearing...

cheat

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chengbeb I'm sorry to hear that. I guess not all friends are really true. I just hope we knew about it sooner. But then again, that's how we learn right.

15 Sep 08

How do you deal with a friend whom you trusted and yet is backstabbing you?

chengbeb @chengbeb (285) • Philippines 15 Sep 08

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chengbeb thanks for the response...I did confront him but I guess I was hoping that he'd treat me the way I treat him...with honesty and trust. I guess I'll just have to accept it and move on.

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Doesn't know what he wants...should he be given another chance?

chengbeb @chengbeb (285) • Philippines 13 Sep 08

I have a brother-in-law who is only 14 years old. He is very intelligent, self sufficient, however, he's undecided on what he wants in life. For 3 years now he has kept on repeating 1st year high school not because he's stupid or...

teenager

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chengbeb Thanks for commenting. In the Philippines, we only have 7 levels in elementary that would be from preparatory till Grade 6. My brother-in-law started school at the age of 4. I've tried everything just to know what's wrong. He's not being bullied in school,...

14 Sep 08

For Those Outside the U.S.

Marie Anne @Ldyjarhead (10233) • United States 13 Sep 08

I've often wondered this, and since we have so many members here that aren't for the U.S., what better place to ask than myLot? If you live outside of the U.S. and have another language as your first language, what is your...

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chengbeb Thank you for your compliment. I believe that before we learn any other language we should be well accustomed and well versed on our own language first. Our national hero Dr. Jose Rizal once said a person who doesn't know how to speak his native language is...

14 Sep 08

which type of friends do you have?

XoyyoX @XoyyoX (1055) • China 12 Sep 08

i'm doing some preparation on some oral topics (ESL), friendship in particular, and i surf the internet and find some interesting categories of friendship, say, pest friends, guest friends, best friends; or soulmates, pen pals,...

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chengbeb I have two! A childhood friend of mine and a best friend during high school years. I still invite them to any party that I have. Everyone is invited. I love friends coming over. I send them gifts, cards, flowers during special occassions and I love them...

13 Sep 08

a bottomless pit?

witchywillow @witchywillow (266) 12 Sep 08

Does you handbag contain so many things it is like a bottomless pit? Mine has so much in it - I just wondered if others out there do this as well? Currently in mine I have:- purse make-up bag mirror pain...

crystals

dispenser

handbag

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chengbeb If I'm not mistaken Oprah Winfrey did showcase this types of organizer during one of her shows. It's really helpful for us who can't decide on what to bring in our bags.

12 Sep 08

bf claims no longer w/ex but ex still keeps on sending messages...

chengbeb @chengbeb (285) • Philippines 21 Mar 07

My boyfriend's ex-girlfriend still sends him sms messages and still calls him by her terms of endearment (bhebe)...I've asked my boyfriend over and over again if they're still together or not...now he said that they're not a...

sms messages

girlfriend

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chengbeb I do agree with you in that aspect...however, I've already talked to my boyfriend and he says there's nothing going on between them. But the girl still keeps on texting and it's growing worst each day. Sigh, I give up on this girl.

27 Mar 07

a new owner of hamsters

chesssy @chesssy (203) • Philippines 12 Mar 07

i just got 2 hamsters today. please help me by giving me tips on how to take care of them because i am new to this. please refer me websites where i can purchase equipment for them.

hamsters

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chengbeb well, unfortunately when my hamster gave birth I was in the hosp so I wasn't able to keep track of how long she was pregnant, is the cage they're kept in have solid flooring or the flooring is also wires? basically for newborn you really don't need to do...

22 Mar 07

Girlfriend abused you, left you for another, wants to get back...accept or not?

chengbeb @chengbeb (285) • Philippines 21 Mar 07

My ex-girlfriend would beat me up when she's drunk...afterwards she left me for someone else and admitted that she just used me for my money...now she's back in town and wants to reconcile with me...asking for forgiveness and...

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chengbeb Let's think for a minute that I am. But let's say you did have great times and you've been through a lot together regardless of how much you were hurt in the process? Would you still consider that?

21 Mar 07