chikku

@chikku (671)

India • Age 50

Joined myLot 20 years ago

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What kind of advice do you give?

reinydawn @reinydawn (11642) • United States 16 Jan 07

I recently had a "friend" send me an e-mail asking me for some advice. He gave me a few vague phrases about his situation, mostly about his wife's negative attitude towards him. He then asked me to give him some insight as to...

advice

truth

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chikku i always tell people what i think will actually help them. i dont find any point in telling what they want to hear...

17 Jan 07

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Should we use the moon, or leave it be?

angelicEmu @angelicEmu (1311) 16 Jan 07

Recently, interest has been revived in the moon in the scientific community: there's talk of new experiments on the moon, drilling to discover whether there ever was life there, setting up a space-station up there, even hotels and...

moon

nature

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chikku i think that every change has its pros and cons..but that shouldn't stop anybody from trying to change and taking a risk..as that is what will lead us to growth and development..so i am definitely for this experimentation...

17 Jan 07

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do you like being alone?

gexi1987 @gexi1987 (329) • China 11 Jan 07

i have once consider myself as a person afraid of being alone.when friends or family is getting together,i alway have fun and the sense of security.but recently i feel myself prefer to be alone.i indefatigablly spend eight hours a...

people

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chikku i love people around me and i don;t like to be left alone. i don't think what you are doing is normal. you are alienating yourself from the society and people which is an abnormal behaviour.

12 Jan 07

I truly Love her a lot and want to marry her but there is only one problem......

roadromeo @roadromeo (376) • India 9 Jan 07

...she is older to me and the age difference between us is eight years, yes that's correct. Whoever we meet, they say that we are truly made for each other. We love each other a lot. Understand our relationship well and also gel...

marry

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chikku fisrt of all congrats for experiencing true love. I don;t think that the age difference should matter. But I think that you as a guy are too young to get hitched now. wait atleast for a couple of years and then see how it goes..

9 Jan 07

this is a warning!!!

BittyBiddy @BittyBiddy (2903) • Ireland 8 Jan 07

I've seen a couple of posters complaining about music that starts automatically on profiles and sites, so I'm just sending out a friendly warning to you all. Do NOT click on my profile if you don't want to hear my haunting...

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chikku thanks for the warning.

9 Jan 07

New MYLOT rule

leedug @leedug (920) • United States 8 Jan 07

Ok, well it has been in the guidelines for quite a while, but it something that I have just noticed. MYLOT states specifically that people are supposed to read all other replies on a discussion before replying to one. That way, it...

my lot

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chikku i try to read as much as i can in one go and the moment i fell that i cannot read anymore, i simply go ahead and post the response...

9 Jan 07

To co-sleep or not co-sleep?

AngEngland @AngEngland (320) • United States 6 Jan 07

Do you co-sleep with your baby/children? Why or why not? My friend and I were having this discussion on the phone earlier and it made me curious what you guys think. I sort of did and sort of didn't. I usually had trouble...

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chikku i have been co-sleeping with my baby from the day one. you may call it overprotectiveness but i just couldn't have her sleep in her cradle. And now i am so used to it that if i happen to get a chance to sleep without her, i don't get a comfortable position to...

7 Jan 07

Who have you seen in concert?

BittyBiddy @BittyBiddy (2903) • Ireland 6 Jan 07

Just wondering what pop/rock stars you've seen in concert and what were they like? Over the years some of the concerts I've been to include: Lionel Richie - Great concert but halfway through the concert he shouted "Hello...

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chikku i envy you for having attended somany of the concerts. till date i havent got a chance to do so. hope to get one soon in future..

7 Jan 07

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What does HTML stand for?

Winky B @WinkyB (43) • United States 24 May 06

You would think this is an easy question, but I can't seem to find the answer anywhere. Any help is appreciated!

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chikku Hyper Text Markup Language. It is used to code the internet websites.

7 Jan 07

How many are active....

wildguy2 @wildguy2 (1349) • Canada 7 Jan 07

Has anyone else noticed that of all the members Mylot shows, which is about 54000+ that a lot are not even active anymore, I just went through my friends and most of them haven't even logged in for weeks, are a lot of these...

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chikku first of all i like your avtar..now to the ques..i think people have move on to greener pastures and forgotten about myLot.

7 Jan 07

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Do you thank your mom for the food she cooks for you??

kingatul @kingatul (849) • India 1 Jan 07

I used to constantly ask my mom to make my facourite dishes for me and when she made them for me I never thanked her. But four years ago when I left home to join college,I was thinking that now who would make my favourite dishes...

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chikku when we were young my dad used to make us say thank you to mom for cooking for us whatever and whenever we wanted food. so am in a habit of thanking her all the time..

2 Jan 07

The wedding is off

BellasmamaTiff @BellasmamaTiff (2544) • United States 30 Dec 06

Well, we broke our engagement. We decided that we will see other people for awhile and then decide if we really love eachother the way we thought. I guess we both were starting to get cold feet. Do you think seeing other people...

engagement

relationship

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chikku i think its ok to back off if you are not sure about what you are doing..but seeing other people may not be a very good idea..because it can definitely result into some ugly situations..which you will regret later on

31 Dec 06

How Many "Saddam is Dead" or "Saddam is Terminated" Discussions Does myLot need?

uvbnskoold @uvbnskoold (499) • Canada 30 Dec 06

Okay, I'm sure I'm not the only one who's been a little ticked off... there's only "so" many ways one can spin this same topic before it becomes just a blatant attempt at hijacking someone elses topic... the original poster is now...

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chikku i am completely in agreement with you on this. not only is this cheating but also becomes very boring to see the same topic again and again..

31 Dec 06

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Before Christmas I was going to become a grandmother and now I'm not.

rakinitin @rakinitin (685) • Canada 30 Dec 06

On Christmas eve day, my daughter gave me wonderful news that I was going to be a grandmother. Yesturday she phoned to inform me that she lost the baby. I cried and asked her some questions but I don't know what to tell her to...

baby

miscarriage

pregnant

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chikku i am so sorry to hear that. i can understand to some extent what she must be going through as when i was 7 weeks pregnant, i also faced the risk of losing my baby..and believe me those two days were the worst days of my life. I felt as if life was being taken...

31 Dec 06

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Do you read all the answers when starting a discussion?

knowitallgurl @knowitallgurl (923) • United States 26 Dec 06

I find it hard following pages and pages of answers to one discussion, so therefore when I see a discussion that has so many pages I dont even answer it (Im talking about discussion that are not mine). What is the use of me...

read

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chikku for this reason only i try and answer as much as possible , the posts whcih have no reaponse.

27 Dec 06

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Do you still call your mom "momma" or "mommy"

working4theweekend @working4theweekend (2403) • United States 26 Dec 06

I do sometimes, usually when I'm on the phone, like "Hey, mommy, it's me" or "Okay, mommy, I love you, I'll call you next weekend". I don't think it's a big deal or babyish, my mom is my whole world and since I'm adopted she...

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chikku i love calling my mother as "mamma" and i still do that even after becoming a mom mylsef.

27 Dec 06

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Couples with a big difference of age, what do you think?

Cacharelle @Cacharelle (119) • Spain 26 Dec 06

Hi, my husband is 34 years older than me. We have been nearly 18 years together. I would like to know what you are thinking about couples like us. Would you prohibit your 17 year old daughter to love a man of 51 year old? Do you...

couple

life

love

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chikku am glad for you that you have find love for yourself. according to my thinking. its "each to his own".so best wishes and keep t up.

27 Dec 06

Even children

tinetine161992 @tinetine161992 (431) • Philippines 3 Oct 12

I've just heard on the news that even children can have cancer. It's so sad that even them can be positive in cancer. Even innocent angels can be affected by cancer. Cancer doesnt choose to who attack. So sad and hope their will...

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chikku I've just heard on the news that even children can have cancer. It's so sad that even them can be positive in cancer. Even innocent angels can be affected by cancer. Cancer doesnt choose to who attack. So sad and hope their will be medicine that totally cure...

3 Oct 12

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Are you addicted to Myspace?

AZmomof3boys @AZmomof3boys (94) • United States 26 Dec 06

I love myspace, would I say addicted. No, however I find that it is a wonderful tool to stay connected to my son's virtual world. A great way to keep in touch with friends and family on a daily basis that live thousands of miles...

addiction

friends

myspace

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chikku i did become a member of myspace but somehow i couldn't be a regular visitor there. so now i have stopped using it.

27 Dec 06

problems after having children..

xXmeganxX @xXmeganxX (4417) 27 Dec 06

hi, since ive had my daughter 18 months ago i still have a bit of weight left on me, i walk alot, do chores about 4 times a day and run up and down stairs and im not crazy although it sounds by running up the stairs :P, i would...

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chikku exercise is the key word. also if you can, try Yoga. it really helps. i delivered a girl through a c-section last year. was facing the same problem. i started yoga three weeks back and i can already see the difference.

27 Dec 06

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1 person