chinggay73

@chinggay73 (45)

Philippines • Age 52

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What would you do?

Jaimee31 @Jaimee31 (50) • Philippines 20 Jan 07

what if you found out that your loved is still talking and being sweet with the EX? and you found out that they still have plans for each other? would you leave the person you love or wait till she leaves you? this is my case as...

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chinggay73 I don't even let my hubby see his ex everytime she comes home from abroad cause I feel that she has designs on him, even if he doesn't intend to take her up on her plans. Make sure that they do have plans to get back together and confront your partner about...

20 Jan 07

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Daily Post 2

AmberLynn @ScribbledAdNauseum (104615) • United States 26 Apr 20

April 26th 12:37 PM EST What I watched Last night I rented and watched 1917 which I really enjoyed. The story grabs you from the very beginning, and you feel as if you are actually back in 1917 and dealing...

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chinggay73 April 26th 12:37 PM EST What I watched Last night I rented and watched 1917 which I really enjoyed. The story grabs you from the very beginning, and you feel as if you are actually back in 1917 and dealing with the war efforts. It is...

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Why is it that people cannot be platonically friendly?

infamousaunty @infamousaunty (241) • United States 13 Jan 07

I have many male friends. I have not slept with any of them and none of them, to my knowledge and I assume, cares to sleep with me. I have many female friends who feel that when they marry a man, the rest of his life is over...

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chinggay73 I've had close male friends since highschool. The problem with these friendships are that they sometimes fall for me, I don't fall for them and I tend to move away due to the awkwardness of the situation after they spill their guts out to me, or at least try...

19 Jan 07

Does your husband or significant other do any housework?

gypsylady28 @gypsylady28 (945) • United States 18 Jan 07

I can't seem to get my husband to help me much with any of the chores around the house. I'll ask him why he doesn't help, and he says he works all day, week, etc. I work also, although I only work a 32-36 hr. week. But I also...

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chinggay73 My husband helps me out a lot. I work nights, so when he's not busy during the day, he keeps the kids out of my hair so I can rest. He also helps me do the grocery shopping and he does most of the general cleaning duties ( I'm allergic to dust ).

19 Jan 07

Age just a number?

smints8985 @smints8985 (1594) • United States 17 Jan 07

Do you believe that age just a number? Or do you honestly think that maturity comes with age?

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chinggay73 I do not think maturity comes with age since a lot of people do not act their age. Some younger people can be pretty mature and some older people can be pretty childish. Maturity probably comes with experience and understanding.

19 Jan 07

Child Support

chippy49 @chippy49 (171) • United States 17 Jan 07

I am so sick and tired of women complaining about not getting child support. Does anyone ever think about the man, of course not, it is always me me me. I am married to a man who was married in the past, it did not work out...

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chinggay73 They did make the child together. The child would not have been created had it been only the woman or the man alone. I, however, agree with your stance about her asking for help with a child she herself does not help. They should BOTH work on supporting...

18 Jan 07

How long were you involved with your loved one before you got married?

contusion12878 @contusion12878 (669) • United States 17 Jan 07

I have been dating my girlfriend for four years now and we arent married. Everyone keeps asking what is taking so long. How much longer is it going to be. etc. I was just wondering how long any of you were with your loved ones...

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chinggay73 My hubby and I were together for four and a half years before we tied the knot. We, however, don't count our anniversary based on our marriage date but rather on our "couple" date, when we started as a couple. So, basically, we've been together for almost 15...

18 Jan 07

Am I Too Old To Meet A Man?

kumikosuzuki83 @kumikosuzuki83 (161) • Japan 18 Jan 07

Here in Japan, people say that women are like Christmas cakes - no good after the 25th! My grandparents have been giving me a lot of pressure to get married (or at least find a boyfriend!) recently. I don't think that I'm...

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chinggay73 If you get married because of pressure from your family, then you are doing it for the wrong reasons. Marriage is supposed to be a lifetime commitment with someone you believe you can grow old with and if you're not ready for it, then you're in for a rough...

18 Jan 07

Golf for rich people?

coffeechat @coffeechat (1961) • New Zealand 16 Jan 07

Is golf a game only for rich people?

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people

rich

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chinggay73 From where I'm from, it is. You have to be a member of or know a member of a golfing club here to play. Or you have to be connected to some top honcho of some company or be one yourself to do so. You have to have your own equipment too, which costs an arm and...

18 Jan 07

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Least work, most money

coffeechat @coffeechat (1961) • New Zealand 16 Jan 07

I am looking for the perfect job, where I work the least and earn the most money. All suggestions welcome!

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chinggay73 Aren't we all? Hehehe. I too wish to have the perfect job where I don't have to stray far from home and earn oodles of cash. I believe with the advent of internet based businesses, that is the way to go. Don't you think so gurl? Hehehe. ;)

18 Jan 07

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Should we get married?

coffeechat @coffeechat (1961) • New Zealand 17 Jan 07

We have two children and expecting a third, in a relationship that we have had for seven years. Like all relationships we have our ups and downs, beautiful moments, petty irritations and shared vision. Should we get married? What...

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chinggay73 Hmmmm...a topic on marriage. Well gurl, getting married is a big step, and unless you are 100% sure ( which most of us think we are, but aren't really ) that it is what you both want and aren't doing it "for the kids" or for propriety's sake. That you're both...

18 Jan 07

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The Goofy Scandal

certified_alice @certified_alice (1854) • Philippines 17 Jan 07

Ok here’s what happened: I’ve just heard it on a morning talkshow that Goofy pushed his fan, which is an actress here in the Philippines. According to the two actresses, which are Gladys Reyes and K Brosas they were in a trip on...

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chinggay73 Oh my! Looks like this should be clumped together with that news about Tigger hurting a fan in Disneyland or something like that. Hmmm...seems like Disney characters are getting overworked. Hehehe. But, since they are mascots in Disney, and are supposed to be...

18 Jan 07

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Why are people picky when choosing discussions to respond to?

Sawsen @Sawsen (793) • United States 12 Jan 07

Here's what I don't get here on mylot. Why are people so picky when choosing which discussions to respond to. I mean either way they get money, so they should want to respond to as many discussions as they get. But I see a lot of...

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chinggay73 I think that despite the temptation of getting more dough by responding to any discussion, I feel that a lot of us would rather respond to discussions which we feel we have something relevant to add to. Responding to a discussion you know nothing about just to...

13 Jan 07

And now for something completely different....

Penny Medlock @badpenny (739) • Lancaster, Texas 11 Jan 07

How many of you have entered the poetry contest? Did you all "win" I have "won" so many times. They send you a nice letter wanting you to buy the book your poem is going to be in. Is this a hoot or what?

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chinggay73 Hahaha...yeah. Happened to me a few times before. They sent me a letter saying they wanted to publish my poem in a coffee-table book of poetry and was giving me a chance to purchase it at a discount price since my poem was going to be in it. Hahaha. Aren't...

11 Jan 07

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What online game do you play?

Mattworld @Mattworld (183) • Philippines 10 Jan 07

I am a ragnarok and rose online addict and trying to play many other new games online. How about you, what online game are you crazy or at least fond of?

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chinggay73 I am definitely hooked on Rose Online. I tried playing RF too but quit when they went pay-to-play. The reason? I kinda like the Rose community better than the RF community...seems Rose players are friendlier...in a way. :)

11 Jan 07

It's pretty bad when.....

mamashane @mamashane (1140) • United States 8 Jan 07

Okay. Here's my latest dilema...I had a job interview today and I thought I'd spruce myself up a bit and try to look presentable. I put styling products in my hair, I curled it and poofed it up a bit and then I thought I'd put...

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chinggay73 Getting all spruced up can be pretty tedious at times, although in my line of work ( I'm a band singer...hehehe ) I have to wear make-up almost all the time. I have long hair too, so it also takes a bit of time to get it all into shape for a gig. That is why,...

9 Jan 07

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Rose Online 1st level jobs

BunGirl @BunGirl (2638) • United States 4 Jan 07

What is your favorite first job? (Soldier, Muse, Hawker or Dealer) I have a character for each and I think my favorite is Muse. Second would be Hawker.

rose online

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chinggay73 Hmmm...I have characters for each job...well, technically, not all are mine. Mine are a mage (2nd job), future cleric ( full support muse 1st job ) and a champ ( 2nd job ). I am currently enjoying my cleric-to-be...so, yes, a muse is a whole lot of fun. My...

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how do you make time to read?

tlmoore79 @tlmoore79 (99) • United States 2 Jan 07

I love to read but can hardly find the time. I literally have to lock myself in my bedroom just to get enough peace to concentrate

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chinggay73 I usually read while I eat. A few pages at every meal and also before going to bed. :)

4 Jan 07

which do you prefer: singing or dancing?

freddyjames @freddyjames (6) • Philippines 28 Dec 06

ever since in my childhood i wanted to sing. there are people who likes dancing than singing. like my girlfriend, she prefer that a boy could dance better. or maybe she just like it because she's a party goer. i don't know how to...

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chinggay73 I was enrolled in ballet class at an early age ( around 3 ) but ended up quitting because I wasn't into it. I started singing at the age of 4 and am now still at it. In fact, its how I earn a living. :)

3 Jan 07

wat is d most important thing in singin???????????

ANSH_2COOOL @ANSH_2COOOL (25) • India 24 Dec 06

you have to tell that what is d most important thing in singin for example expressions voice quality etc.............

singing

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chinggay73 Actually, aside from the right breathing technique, a lot of things go into singing. Vocal quality is one. Dynamics is also another ( how you render a song , like when you need to soften your voice or when you give the song impact, etc.).

3 Jan 07