cindytao

@cindytao (38)

China • Age 40

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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President of the USA

hersheyskiss @hersheyskiss (761) • United States 30 Jan 08

Who do you think will make the better president?

president

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cindytao Sorry, I take little interest in politics.

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Meat, cheese and crackers anyone?

kykidd @kykidd (6812) • United States 30 Jan 08

Meat, cheese and crackers, that's what I am having for dinner tonight. I didn't feel like fixing anything and was in the mood for a snack. It turned out to be dinner as I have been snacking on it for the last 3 hours. Ever had...

life

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cindytao I usually make a dinner more heartier.As only in the evening I have enough time to prepare it .

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do you enjoy shopping?

marketing07 @marketing07 (6266) • South Korea 30 Jan 08

i love to go shopping...i fell relax to see many things at shopping centers...although i dont buy that much that is my way to relieve my stress..how about you?

shopping

shopping centers

stress

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cindytao Yes,I love shopping very much. Every time I go shopping, I always cannot resist to buy something I don't intend to buy before shopping. These colourful packages often appeal me.I see it's not a good habit.After my shopping, I find in fact that I don't need...

30 Jan 08

What Stress you out?

SheraD3 @SheraD3 (207) • United States 30 Jan 08

What's the biggest stress in your life right now?

life

stress

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cindytao Haven't enough money to pay the load I borrowed.

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Why females hasitate ??

hirals @hirals (1736) • India 12 Feb 07

Why females hasitate to propose male 1st ??

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cindytao Yes, I agree with you.

30 Jan 08

Whom are you most close to in your family?

cindytao @cindytao (38) • China 29 Jan 08

Whom are you most close to in your family?Father, mother, grandma,grandfa,or sisters? I'm most close to my brother who I think can understand me most.

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cindytao Seems both you and your mother are the best friends.

30 Jan 08

Whom are you most close to in your family?

cindytao @cindytao (38) • China 29 Jan 08

Whom are you most close to in your family?Father, mother, grandma,grandfa,or sisters? I'm most close to my brother who I think can understand me most.

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cindytao I see you are happyy enough to be petted by your sisters. Thanks for your input.Good day.

30 Jan 08

Whom are you most close to in your family?

cindytao @cindytao (38) • China 29 Jan 08

Whom are you most close to in your family?Father, mother, grandma,grandfa,or sisters? I'm most close to my brother who I think can understand me most.

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Your attitude for the domestic argument between your parents.

cindytao @cindytao (38) • China 29 Jan 08

Domestic argument is becoming more and more causal and frequent in the family between couples.This always exerts a great many of stress on their children. When they are quarelling, children sometimes don't know in which attitude...

family

parents

Why do battered women stay with their husband?

Thomas73 @Thomas73 (1467) • Switzerland 8 Feb 07

This really amazes me. I know several women -- one of them being very close to my heart -- who are abused physically and mentally, beaten, humiliated, treated like absolute dirt -- and this even in front of their children! -- by...

abusive partner

battered women

marital violence

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cindytao I agree that some women choosed to stay for the sake of their children.At this time, most women acted more rational than men,maybe this will largely influence their children, but at least this can keep a whole family.I just got this idea from my aunt.

29 Jan 08

do you have a phobia?

Mylot member @patrice7 (1191) • United States 12 Dec 07

according to the DSM-IV-TR phobia is a persistent, irrational fear of a specific object, activity or situation that rsults in a compelling desire to avoid it. it may be mild, moderate or severe. i personally have a phobia which...

earthworm

phobia

psychology

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cindytao Many people may feel a phobia to snakes, spiders, rabits and some creatures like this. For example, my mother fear snakes very much, everytime when she saw it, her skin will feel very uncomfortable and heart will strikly fiercely. And my brother who ever was...

29 Jan 08

Grandma

shewolf52002 @shewolf52002 (1214) • United States 20 Jan 08

I was wondering how many people miss their grand parents? My great granmother died when I was 14 and we were really close. But over the past few years I think I have begun to feel her loss even more deeply than I did as a teen....

death

grandma

missing

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cindytao The past recollections accumalated when I spend with my grandfather always remind me of him and good virtues about him. As when he died I'm already a adult and can have the ability to judge and think something with rationality.So the relationship between I and...

28 Jan 08

Are you (were you ) close to you grandma ?

weemam @weemam (13372) 19 Feb 07

My granny had 10 of a family and we used to go every weekend and the grown ups would play cards ( for matches lol ) well into the small hours , As I grew older I used to go stay overnight with her , we had some great fun and I...

loved her so much

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cindytao Yes, the condition is the same with me.I always think it's easier to chat with my grandma than my mom. My grandma is inclinded to accept to listen to me and answer my curious questions with great patience than my parents do.

28 Jan 08

I need some advices about smoothing grandmother's grief for missing grandfather?

cindytao @cindytao (38) • China 27 Jan 08

My grandparents spent almost 60 years together since they're married.There is a deep affection between them,both of them're accustomed to have each other in the life. But my grandfather died in lung disease a few months ago. My...

grandfather

grandmother

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cindytao Thanks for your kindness,god bless you too.

28 Jan 08

I need some advices about smoothing grandmother's grief for missing grandfather?

cindytao @cindytao (38) • China 27 Jan 08

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cindytao I don't feel this is a burden, in fact.I just need to show some concerns to her. And my grandfather also caressed me very much when he was alive, to ease her grief is not only in the sake of my grandmother but for my own release.Because I frequently dreamed my...

28 Jan 08

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