cool_xanders

@cool_xanders (121)

Indonesia • Age 49

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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American Idol auditions

Dask1221 @Dask1221 (160) • United States 7 Feb 07

Why is it that when someone goes in to audition before the American Idol judges, and they suck, they get all pissed off when they don't get that golden ticket for Hollywood. If you suck, you suck! It's that simple. But no,...

american idol

people who suck

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cool_xanders I asume that they belive that they can. They worth the golden ticket. And some people tried or worked really hard for the audition so they were deeply hurt when they were rejected.

8 Feb 07

what do u like most about your spouse?

sechsey @sechsey (1831) • Canada 25 Jan 07

I read soemwhere in mylot about what annoys you the most about your partner so now, what do u like best about them? IS it something special they do all the time? Is it how affectionate they are?what i like best about my husband is...

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cool_xanders I like my spouse for being my part of my live. For arguing me, get angry with me... That make me feel needed I like my spouse for giving our baby. I like every thing about her...

25 Jan 07

Why do you think Britney Spears has had so many life problems as an adult?

findcutegj @findcutegj (1466) • India 24 Jan 07

Britney Spears was a popular child star and singer. Something happened when she tried to make the transition to an adult, and she's been making a number of life mistakes--bad choices in men, partying too much, etc, even though she...

brit

britney

britney spears as adult

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cool_xanders I assume that Britney isnn't ready to be famous, and I see her lost her childhood for over exploration. Sehe wasn't that ready for being public figure and wasn't wise enough to spend what she has, since she spend it to make her feel comfort.

25 Jan 07

Often Commits Mistake

Frederick Espiritu @simplfred (20633) • Philippines 20 Nov 23

I think it was because of Aging. My accuracy about work was faded from almost perfect to around 70 percent accuracy or even less. I think my mind is damage already often committing mistakes like I can interchange positions of...

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cool_xanders I think it was because of Aging. My accuracy about work was faded from almost perfect to around 70 percent accuracy or even less. I think my mind is damage already often committing mistakes like I can interchange positions of things. 20 years ago my mind was...

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Catholicism: A Cult or A Blessing?

candygurl24 @candygurl24 (1879) • Canada 25 Jan 07

Ok, controversial yes, but we're here to ask questions and recieve opinions so I'm going to ask for yours. I have lost faith rather quickly as I am supposed to be a catholic, but cannot find it in myself to believe in anything...

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cool_xanders When I weary, feeling so sad, than I know that I lost my faith in Him. I once stop 'talking' to Him for quite a long while. But later on I realize that this is only a test, on me for what I have done with my life. I've been stuborn, put my self so...

25 Jan 07

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Saying I love you

Penguinsangel @Penguinsangel (3498) • United States 25 Jan 07

How often do you say I love you to those around you? Do you say I love you at the end of ever phone call? Do you say I love you each night before bed? Do you say I love you before leaving for your day? Do you think you say I...

feelings

i love you

loving

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cool_xanders I'm not romantic person, so I seldom says that I love my spouse... But I try to act more to show how much I love her

25 Jan 07

Has anyone ever seen UFOs?

marguicha @marguicha (230538) • Chile 3 Jun 22

I have. Mind you, I don´t know that they are green little people from Mars or ETs. I just saw once a flying object that was totally unknown to me. It was something with lights that circled and the most interesting thing was...

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cool_xanders I have. Mind you, I don´t know that they are green little people from Mars or ETs. I just saw once a flying object that was totally unknown to me. It was something with lights that circled and the most interesting thing was that it moved in circles at an...

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ive had enough of mylot!.

Mylot member @patrice7 (1191) • United States 23 Jan 07

well yesterday i was gonna post a lot more responses but then my brain was shouting "IVE HAD ENOUGH OF MYLOT".. for that day. i got to around 40-50 posts.. but still i pushed myself and found out that my brain isnt cooperating.. i...

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cool_xanders I feel enough after 20 post.... I just cannot take more than that

23 Jan 07

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Have you ever walked into a room and forgotten why you went there?

patootie @patootie (3592) 23 Jan 07

Today I went into my kitchen at least 3-4 times and then had no idea why I had gone in there .. and I can blame the weather for that ! Hallo, you are thinking, she's gone bonkers hehe ... not really you see the weather does...

coffee

fibro

forgetting

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cool_xanders I've also have that simmilar experience, and even sometimes I forgot what am I about to spoke to someone, even when I've called for them to speak. It just so ridiculous

23 Jan 07

Meals - 4/22/22

LindaOH @LindaOHio (223863) • United States 23 Apr 22

Today will be a decent day as long as it doesn't rain. Nothing special planned for this weekend. Ended up not going out last week to get my haircut or booster shot. My shoulder was hurting too much; but it's better today. Have...

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cool_xanders Today will be a decent day as long as it doesn't rain. Nothing special planned for this weekend. Ended up not going out last week to get my haircut or booster shot. My shoulder was hurting too much; but it's better today. Have a good weekend! Breakfast -...

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Are you afraid of getting old?

patootie @patootie (3592) 23 Jan 07

We are all getting older .. nothing we can do about it .. but are you prepared for old age .. have you made plans where to live or what kind of living accomodation you will eventually end up in? I am slightly past middle age .....

disabled

life

old

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cool_xanders Agree...I'm also not that affraid on being old, but I'm affraid that I won't have a desent life for me and my family in our future

23 Jan 07

Why do girls cry when relationship ends?

bench73 @bench73 (28) • Philippines 22 Jan 07

Why do girls cry when relationship ends? i admit i cried the last time i fall in loved..the guys are the first one to made their courtship to us which means we are the one to be love first? nah.... guys am i right? ^^ But the sad...

why do girls cry

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cool_xanders Women are more sensitive than men. And every little thing caoul bring tears on their eyes. Much women also more posessif than men, so they will fell lose more than men will do.

23 Jan 07

Is the age of chivalry dead and gone?

BittyBiddy @BittyBiddy (2903) • Ireland 23 Jan 07

Today I took my daughter to swimming lessons. There were chairs for the parents to sit on, but not enough. I had to stand. There was one guy there and he was sitting in front of me. He saw me but didn't offer me the seat....

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cool_xanders I believe not all them would act like persons you have deal with... I believe there still chivarly in this world.

23 Jan 07

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anyone knows about Norway?

nice @nicegolden (441) • Shenzhen, China 12 Oct 21

little data concerned can search in China,film,novel,you name it.wonder what's life the people have there.reportedly the crime rate appears high,hard to buy it

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cool_xanders little data concerned can search in China,film,novel,you name it.wonder what's life the people have there.reportedly the crime rate appears high,hard to buy it

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How do you handle Triangle Relationship?

cashnono @cashnono (1135) • Hong Kong 22 Jan 07

I am not in such situation so far, but I think it will not be long before I am put into such trouble! I love my girlfriend very much, but another girl is showing her adoration to me! She is hot and also a little bit pretty! I...

love

relationship

triangle

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cool_xanders You cannot maintained triangle relationship. It will give you so much troble, you have to double your energy to do so, and if you get caught, then you may loose everything. Be faith with your recent girlfriend. And about your preety friend... remember...

23 Jan 07

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Society-Can people change? Why is it so hard for some...

mzbubblie @mzbubblie (3839) • United States 22 Jan 07

You know, this goes with a topic I posted about interracial dating. How people are so stuck on "THE WAY THINGS USE TO BE"...Now a days there are so many things that has changed, people, technology, beliefs, relationships just to...

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cool_xanders Basically people are feeling comfort for what they already have. They find that it is a waste of time, and frightening to faces something new. They affraid that if they cannot change than they will be replaced.

23 Jan 07

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Your Favorite Teacher

blogyourself @blogyourself (1577) • United States 22 Jan 07

My favorite teacher in school was my 10th grade English teacher. It was kind of funny because pretty much the rest of the school hated her. She made us work really hard and had previously been a college teacher. She started...

favorite teacher

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cool_xanders I have one, she is was my lecturon at my Institute. I just love him, and in some other way she also response my feeling, once she proclaim in front of the class thet she likes me (which make me end up full with 'huuu' shouts). She was very lovely and...

23 Jan 07

Do you always express your true feelings when responding to discussions?

freesoul @freesoul (3021) • Egypt 22 Jan 07

Or you just make things up? or maybe you write things as what you would want it to be? I'm not talking about people who answer as many discussions as possible just for the money and don't care about what they actually write.....

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cool_xanders I try to give the best advise I can give..., also I never answer something I didn't understand or having the some trouble myself

23 Jan 07

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Puppy Cut

Toni @toniganzon (80808) • Philippines 7 Oct 21

Yuki is now home with her new haircut. Junar sent me this photo to let me know she was done and that she’s ready to be picked up. So of course i drove there immediately to get my baby. When Junar brought her out of the grooming...

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cool_xanders Yuki is now home with her new haircut. Junar sent me this photo to let me know she was done and that she’s ready to be picked up. So of course i drove there immediately to get my baby. When Junar brought her out of the grooming station, she immediately came...

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My Friend Said I'm Lazy Because I don't have a real job...

blogyourself @blogyourself (1577) • United States 22 Jan 07

Over the last year every time I start to get a job it seems like something comes up. Most of the time my husband's job requires us to move, then it doesn't happen. I've looked for jobs and considered taking them...but it never...

lazy

online job

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cool_xanders What is the definition of real job? For me to earn money by doing something right is a real Job. Acting for exmple, we were paid to pretend to be someone else. Is it a real job? If standert 5 days work, 8hours a day is real job, than there will be no...

22 Jan 07

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