cordacs99

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Canada • Age 66

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cordacs99 liked this • 11 Mar 08

JUDGMENTS--What is Your View of Them--How Have They Helped/Harmed You?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 25 Jun 07

Judgment is a tricky thing to pin down because people have many opinions about it and the reason I wanted it open for discussion. One thing I do know for sure is that people who judge others view things with a narrow lens. They...

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cordacs99 liked this • 11 Mar 08

how old would you be if you didn't know old you are?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 29 Jun 07

I hear a lot of people my age and older saying things like, "I am too old to be doing this or that." Other times they say they are too old to be wearing something they really like...because they think they are too old. Then there...

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cordacs99 liked this • 11 Mar 08

Adding music on Mylot site, How? What about copyright infringement?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 7 Mar 08

Greetings to all.. I have been away the past few days and I appreciate hearing from friends who miss chatting...thanks for letting me know that. I miss all of you too! Anyway, hope to be catching up to previous...

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cordacs99 liked this • 18 Feb 08

Ubuntu--A celebration of relationships..on Mylot and with everyone else!

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 17 Feb 08

I have been busy with a variety of work commitments and have not been able to participate on Mylot and I miss it. Two friends have abecome members here and they are finding what the rest of us know...this is an amazing place....

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cordacs99 liked this • 2 Feb 08

Why are we harder on ourselves...than we are on others?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 1 Feb 08

This is a topic that comes up a lot in our life coaching and seminars. People ask questions like these. Did somebody say something once that stuck in our brains and won't go away? Did we make some huge mistake..or 'fail' at...

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cordacs99 liked this • 30 Jan 08

Self-care/nurturing activities what are your male/female perspectives on this?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 24 Jan 08

As we have been sharing ideas on how guys/gals do and see things differently I could not help but wonder what your views are on the subject of self-care. By self-care I mean...soul satisfying 'breathing space' activities that we...

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cordacs99 liked this • 28 Jan 08

Is it possible to have more than one 'Best Friend"

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 19 Jun 07

As you can tell from my choice of topics the subject of friendship is on my mind. I wondered if any of you have wrestled with the label of 'best friend?' I never been able to wrap my head around that one and here are the reasons...

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cordacs99 liked this • 18 Nov 07

What did you do to push WAY...WAY beyond your comfort zone?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 20 Jun 07

This picture hangs on my office wall and is a constant reminder of what it took to break through my comfort zone and try something radically different. The opportunity presented itself while attending a Big Brother/Big Sister day...

beyond comfort zones

emotional safety

rock wall climbing

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Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy Wonderful to have you share the ways you have moved beyond comfort zones in the past. Also that you keep on pushing the envelope so you can grow and change. I respect that because it isn't easy to do initially. I think it would have been a very enriching...

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cordacs99 liked this • 18 Nov 07

What did you do to push WAY...WAY beyond your comfort zone?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 20 Jun 07

This picture hangs on my office wall and is a constant reminder of what it took to break through my comfort zone and try something radically different. The opportunity presented itself while attending a Big Brother/Big Sister day...

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liranlgo It was great reading what you wrote and that you did what you wanted to do. With me i did alote of things that are way way from my comfort zone. Lol. I know that after 14 of independent life and a good job, i decided i want to change my life and try some new...

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cordacs99 liked this • 18 Nov 07

What did you do to push WAY...WAY beyond your comfort zone?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 20 Jun 07

This picture hangs on my office wall and is a constant reminder of what it took to break through my comfort zone and try something radically different. The opportunity presented itself while attending a Big Brother/Big Sister day...

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Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy Hi again, Your comments to my site and others are real heartwarmers...and much appreciated. Your feedback about my 'pushing the boundaries' and everyday heros is certainly coming back at you...for all YOU are and and all that you do. Oops didn't mean to sound...

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cordacs99 liked this • 18 Nov 07

What did you do to push WAY...WAY beyond your comfort zone?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 20 Jun 07

This picture hangs on my office wall and is a constant reminder of what it took to break through my comfort zone and try something radically different. The opportunity presented itself while attending a Big Brother/Big Sister day...

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Leca Yes, like definitely attracts like! I've seen it happen in so many ways that I usually fail to be surprised, but that is really funny! Don't worry, I do pause and give myself a pat on the back once in a while. I have a lot to contend with really, between...

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cordacs99 liked this • 18 Nov 07

What did you do to push WAY...WAY beyond your comfort zone?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 20 Jun 07

This picture hangs on my office wall and is a constant reminder of what it took to break through my comfort zone and try something radically different. The opportunity presented itself while attending a Big Brother/Big Sister day...

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Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy Hi Lecanis,I appreciate hearing from you, especially because I was just on your site before reading your response and requested your acceptance to my friends list. Wow, talk about 'like attracts like!' Anyway what you do and are doing is a perfect example of...

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cordacs99 liked this • 18 Nov 07

What did you do to push WAY...WAY beyond your comfort zone?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 20 Jun 07

This picture hangs on my office wall and is a constant reminder of what it took to break through my comfort zone and try something radically different. The opportunity presented itself while attending a Big Brother/Big Sister day...

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Leca The first time I got a job working with the public was really what pushed my comfort zones. I have post-traumatic stress disorder, as well as a lot of social anxiety. When I was really young, I was so afraid of dealing with people I didn't know that I couldn't...

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cordacs99 liked this • 18 Nov 07

What did you do to push WAY...WAY beyond your comfort zone?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 20 Jun 07

This picture hangs on my office wall and is a constant reminder of what it took to break through my comfort zone and try something radically different. The opportunity presented itself while attending a Big Brother/Big Sister day...

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cordacs99 liked this • 12 Nov 07

When You Have Doubts What Do You Do About Them?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 12 Nov 07

I responded to a discussion today where the member was asking others what she should do. As I read some of the responses and her comments I felt like she had already answered her own question by saying that her gut was telling her...

doubt means dont for mewhat about you

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butterfly39 DOUBTS meaning you're not sure of what is the result of it...the fear of course. But sometimes we need to be strong and positive and at this point we really need God above all because he knows everything what is best for us... I miss you Raia...

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cordacs99 liked this • 12 Nov 07

When You Have Doubts What Do You Do About Them?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 12 Nov 07

I responded to a discussion today where the member was asking others what she should do. As I read some of the responses and her comments I felt like she had already answered her own question by saying that her gut was telling her...

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roniroxas hi riai, when doubt gets in the way i always observe and analyze at the same time. doubt is (for me) take a seat and think. yes like you pause, make adjusment if you have to or meet half way in some adjusments if any. dont just jump to conclusion if there is...

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cordacs99 liked this • 12 Nov 07

When You Have Doubts What Do You Do About Them?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 12 Nov 07

I responded to a discussion today where the member was asking others what she should do. As I read some of the responses and her comments I felt like she had already answered her own question by saying that her gut was telling her...

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raijin Whatever doubts I have, I always take time to think about it and hopefully I make a right decision. But if I see that I'd be in a Lose-Lose situation, then I'd better drop the idea and loosen the load. If I see good opportunities or possible things would...

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cordacs99 liked this • 12 Nov 07

When You Have Doubts What Do You Do About Them?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 12 Nov 07

I responded to a discussion today where the member was asking others what she should do. As I read some of the responses and her comments I felt like she had already answered her own question by saying that her gut was telling her...

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ssh123 If the doubts are pertaining to my job, I used to get it clarified from by Boss or senior colleagues. If the doubts are pertaining to raising children, my mother's sister is an expert and she has practical solution for all problems. If the doubts arise...

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cordacs99 liked this • 12 Nov 07

When You Have Doubts What Do You Do About Them?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 12 Nov 07

I responded to a discussion today where the member was asking others what she should do. As I read some of the responses and her comments I felt like she had already answered her own question by saying that her gut was telling her...

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ElusiveButterfly When in doubt, I take time to think about what I was going to do. How would it effect myself and others. I have had to do this several times in my life. Sometimes I moved forward, sometimes I decided to give up on the notion. Weighing the positive against the...

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cordacs99 liked this • 12 Nov 07

When You Have Doubts What Do You Do About Them?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 12 Nov 07

I responded to a discussion today where the member was asking others what she should do. As I read some of the responses and her comments I felt like she had already answered her own question by saying that her gut was telling her...

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Leca Doubt for me means that I have to work on the decision longer. If it's something that is time-limited, then obviously that means I'm not going to do it. If I don't know for sure that a course is right for me, I'd rather sit down and think for a while in the...

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