cuddilybeans

@cuddilybeans (27)

Canada • Age 48

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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Were you ever in an abusive relationship?

Rashu169 @Rashu169 (4391) • India 2 Feb 07

if not do you know anyone who is in a abusive relationsip???? why do u think abusive relationship is tolerated and lived with???

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cuddilybeans I am so sorry but I do not agree with that at all there is a difference between standing up for yourself and abusing someone........ I dont think everyone becomes and abuser

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Marriage after divorce?

winky73 @winky73 (1404) • United States 31 Jan 07

I have noticed that a lot of people say they don't want to ever get married again after a divorce.I myself am about to get a divorce and I have to say that I want to get married again.Just because it didn't work out on the first...

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cuddilybeans yes I MIGHT get married again if I could trust the person but I need to find the person first my last relaionship was a very bad one and yeah honestly I thought about marriage again but we did not get a chance to do it thank goodness....when the timing is...

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How many people here have been divorced or are divorced?

hockeygal4ever @hockeygal4ever (10021) • United States 13 Jan 07

I'm curious how many people on MyLot are divorced or have been divorced and perhaps remarried. I myself am HAPPILY divorced and have no ambitions to ever marry again!!!!

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cuddilybeans I am still married for now and waiting on the divorce to be finalized........if I find another man I might want to get remarried....it depends though.....ny husband and I have been seperated for almost 4 years and in that time I did have another relationship...

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ok I am having a very hard time

cuddilybeans @cuddilybeans (27) • Canada 1 Feb 07

feelings about adoption

adoption

family

feelings

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cuddilybeans today is my sons birthday and I gave him up for adoption.....I would like to know if any one else has been through this and what the easiest way to help me through this is...... I know time will heal all wounds but it has been almost 2 years and I am still...

1 Feb 07

ok I am having a very hard time

cuddilybeans @cuddilybeans (27) • Canada 1 Feb 07

feelings about adoption

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Giving a Baby up for Adoption-My story

princess07031980 @princess07031980 (5412) • United States 21 Jan 07

I am faced with a dilemma right now and I want some help and opinions. I found out that I am pregnant. I am 26, live on my own, have a job. But the harder part of my story is this...I was married once before and have 2 great...

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cuddilybeans No I have not recieved councilling I am thinking that it would be a good thing to do but I have so much going on in my life that I really am A) afraid to do councilling and B) no time

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Adoption: Can you? Could you? Did you? Would you?

amithist @amithist (72) • Davisburg, Michigan 14 Jan 07

When I was 20 the conception of my son was without my consent. I did not know that I was pregnant till i was 4 months. I was an undignoised and unmedicated at the time but even then knew I was not capable of caring for him. Hes a...

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cuddilybeans I gave my son up for adoption because he had special needs it was what was best for him..... I have maintained a relationship with him through out and I am still mommy to him he is 4 years old now and was adopted almost 2 years ago after I tried all other...

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Giving a Baby up for Adoption-My story

princess07031980 @princess07031980 (5412) • United States 21 Jan 07

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cuddilybeans well I can so relate to you...... I gave up my son who is now 4 because he was born with special needs and I could not provide for him the way he needed me too. he has a wonderful adoptive parents who care for him a great deal and I am glad that he now has...

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Pet names

smints8985 @smints8985 (1594) • United States 21 Jan 07

How do you and your partner address each other? Let's hear it from you guys and see who's got the most unique one! And also share the story behind the pet name if it's something unique.

pet names

term of endearment

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cuddilybeans well my pet name for my friend is hunni muffin because he is so sweet and yummy lol

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IF YOU SEEN YOUR FREIND'S MAN CHEATING ON HER, WOULD YOU TELL???

angelaakakiki @angelaakakiki (378) • United States 11 Nov 06

TO TELL OR NOT TO TELL THAT'S THE QUESTION ????

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cuddilybeans I would tell her for sure because I would hope that the favor would be returned in the future so yeah I am a strong believer in what comes around goes around

21 Jan 07

Is She Cheating?

coffeechat @coffeechat (1961) • New Zealand 21 Jan 07

In an article that I read, couples therapists report a 50% increase in female infidelity. Yet, as widespread as female infidelity has become, many unsuspecting husbands have no idea their wives are having an affair. Unsuspecting...

relationships

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cuddilybeans well I have cheated once before and ended up leaving my husband because of it...... I felt awful and will never do it again......he wanted me to stay as long as I promised never to do it again.....at that time I could not make that promise to him...... a few...

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How many relationships have u had?

rein2410 @rein2410 (809) • Australia 16 Jan 07

How was it? I had 3 relationships but we are still friends. All yours still friends?

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cuddilybeans I have had 3 serious relationships that lasted over a year....none of them I talk to any more .......I have had 2 casual relationships and still talk to both of them one of them is my best friend.......

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after the break up

myjewel @myjewel (268) • Philippines 21 Jan 07

have you ever felt that after the break up you really have more time to do other things you knew was impossible to do when you had a relationship? i just had a break up and realized i have more time to spend with my dogs, my...

relationships

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cuddilybeans yes I have been single now for 7 months and I am just discovering what life being single is like you have more time for a lot of things and I love it

21 Jan 07

Boyfriend cheating??????

Irishchick22 @Irishchick22 (270) • United States 20 Jan 07

Well i got on my bfs computer the other day and i discovered he had been talking to a girl who he was talking to before we meant and i'm not sure what to do about it, i'm upset and all he is saying is that it's not what i think...

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love

relationships

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cuddilybeans I would love to tell you that everything is going to be ok and to trust him but honestly I dont think I can...... I think that it might be possible for this girl to be his friend yes but for him to lie to you like that is not looking good in that...

21 Jan 07

Does love last forever?

magda_lena88 @magda_lena88 (179) • Romania 21 Jan 07

I love my boyfriend so much and he loves me too. But will our love last forever?? Or at least until one of us leaves this world. And how can we make it last forever? I know that we need love,trust and respect to make it work. Is...

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cuddilybeans I think that with lots of comunication openness and understanding that love can last untill the day you die......... you just have to be willing to keep it strong and have a good healthy relationship but yes some love will not last forever because it is...

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I beat you and cheated on you and it's your fault that I did it.

hassanchop @hassanchop (820) • United States 21 Jan 07

Don't you just HATE it when people do this? Nothing gets under my skin more than the ole "It's your fault that I abused you and played you" deal. Everytime I hear someone say "but you didn't meet my needs, you didn't do this, you...

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cuddilybeans I was abused in many different ways as a child and in my last relationship........ but what bothers me the most is that they lie you are totally right find your needs being met else where after you break up.... it was really bad the christmas of 2005 I almost...

21 Jan 07

What do you think?

bogdanel @bogdanel (1208) • Romania 21 Jan 07

Do you think can be 3 involved in a relation whip? Why not?

relationships

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cuddilybeans yes I do think that it is possible for 3 people to be involved in a relationship. I have not had it happen to me but my best friend has been in a relationship with 2 other people at the same time and it worked for her for a while so yes it is possible

21 Jan 07

Never Assume

ElusiveButterfly @ElusiveButterfly (45941) • United States 29 Jan 21

I heard the call come over the scanner that a woman who was out walking her dog had found an unresponsive male in a driveway. My gut told me that it was someone I knew. About an hour had passed when I got a message from my...

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cuddilybeans I heard the call come over the scanner that a woman who was out walking her dog had found an unresponsive male in a driveway. My gut told me that it was someone I knew. About an hour had passed when I got a message from my brother to let me know it was our...

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damn it, i'm caught

ghostbat @ghostbat (156) • Canada 20 Jan 07

My girlfriend caught me cheating on her with her best friend, okay i know its stupid but i did it. The way i see it is that it's not totally my fault, she was the one always busy with something else, even when we were about to...

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cuddilybeans I really think that if you both want to work things out that it is possible but you have to own up to your mistake and see what she wants to do about it but common buddy be a man and take responsibility for your BIG MISTAKE.

21 Jan 07

Pregnant teens, adoption, abortion or keep the baby?

blueskies @blueskies (1186) • United States 20 Jan 07

Please, no flame wars on this thread. I'm just genuinely interested to see what the general concensus seems to be on this topic. If your teenaged daughter were to become pregnant, would you encourage her to get an abortion,...

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cuddilybeans I would back my child no matter what but I would honestly try to discourage and abortion......... I just went through a miscarage and an adoption myself and I know that it is something that you have to live with for ever and I would be there to help her as...

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