dassilavs

@dassilavs (47)

Germany • Age 53

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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Very stressed single mom. Can you help her?

gsgonzalez2007 @gsgonzalez2007 (1004) • Philippines 10 Jun 07

I shared this page to my friend who is experiencing deep depression and anxiety. Here is her own story: " I am a single mom to a wonderful 6 year old son. his father is not in the picture. I have been single since he left 7 years...

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dassilavs ...work-home-work - but hope you still spend enough time with your son. i can only imagine how you are feeling. but when you stay awake most nights feeling lonely and depressed -so it seemed that you are still having problem accepting your situation and seemed...

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How to gain weight?

sandeep_t @sandeep_t (428) • India 7 Jun 07

I know that this questions is ironical. You have see ppl asking how one can reduce weight. Am different. I'm thin and want to put on some weight. I eat reegularly and i take it in good quantity. I also started taking beers as some...

beers

weight

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dassilavs ...was like you before, my officemates were envying me coz i can EAT as MUCH as i like and still stay thin. i also dont like sweets, even now. now am a mom of two and have exactly the opposite problem - i can EAT as LITTLE as i like and still not losing...

7 Jun 07

If your child pulls the laptop down to the floor.......

nishdan01 @nishdan01 (3050) • Singapore 7 Jun 07

This afternoon my son(14 months) pulled down the laptop to the floor. He tooke the help of chair and pulled the laptop to the floor. I was in the kitchen and heard a lound sound ducc nnnn kkkk! I was shocked to see the laptop...

floor

laptop

pull

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dassilavs ...your son is real active and seems to be exploring the whole time - we have two daughters, 5&2 but they are not much different from boys coz they are also super active. but we have always taught them not to play with papa and mama´s things by pointing them...

7 Jun 07

how do you measure happiness?

angela2006 @angela2006 (1845) • China 7 Jun 07

for me,a warm house,a stable job,not too much money,some people I love and who love me,it is enough.how do you measure your happiness?do you feel you are happy?

happy happiness

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dassilavs always wanted my own family -now am a mom of two, staying home, married since six years and am very happy with my life. i think happiness is only possible when you commit your whole life to our living God -then He will give you the inner contentment which will...

7 Jun 07

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calling vs texting in a relationship

brand4less @brand4less (1061) • Indonesia 7 Jun 07

i've spoken with a lot of friends about this and most say that calling on the phone is more vital than texting (SMS).i guess it's more personal since there are persons voice and you can hear their reaction on something such as...

calling vs texting

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dassilavs ...am married but my husband and i still exchange text messages regularly. also when he is out of town on business i appreciate his text messages -he calls occasionally but i dont usually hold him long on the line especially when he is out of the country. i...

7 Jun 07

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Are there filipinos here who love to cook?

MisterPlus @MisterPlus (1915) • Philippines 7 Jun 07

The are so many famous filipino cooks . I s there anyone here in Mylot who's a filipino and love to cook?

cooking

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dassilavs ...am a filipina and i love to cook -but am no longer cooking that much lately coz my husband and i wanted to lose a little weight and our 5yo daughter is such a picky eater so am down to cooking what she likes. but whenever i cook for friends - they simply...

7 Jun 07

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Am I sick? Need your help.

mtoxales @mtoxales (373) • Canada 12 May 07

I have no control over my 5 year old son. He does not listen to me and does the complete opposite of what I ask of him. Sometimes when he wants to follow me, he just says okay but he shouts and adds silly mom or silly girl and it...

frustration

handling kids

losing patience

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dassilavs i don´t think a mother is a failure just because her child is misbehaving or is talking back. i certainly am not failing just because my 4yo daughter is listening but not really doing what i say and is using the same phrases or words when talking to me as if...

13 May 07

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How to stop my kid vomiting ?

rapolu_cs @rapolu_cs (1184) • India 12 May 07

My 2 1/2 yr old kid vomit the whole thing from inside when he coughs and it has became the habbit for him,the doctors say he should be given anti vomiting medicine before we feed him in case he stars coughing but i think always...

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dassilavs my 2 1/2yo also does it when she has a cough and i don´t think its possible to stop them from vomiting. when i am lucky i will be able to catch her before she does and still be able to bring her in the washbasin -but mostly, it comes unexpected and had to...

12 May 07

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wife so young

nesha23 @nesha23 (31) • United States 11 May 07

Iv'e been married for almost seven years and i got married when i was 18yrs old. When did you get married?

wife

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dassilavs my mother got married before she was 18 and is still married to my father ´til now. we were five children and she now has seven grandchildren. i got married when i was 27...six years ago and now have two daughters, ages 4&2. what i am trying to say is that it...

12 May 07

Running away after accident was Right or wrong?

Rohit20 @Rohit20 (327) • India 12 May 07

I went to market with one of my friends on his byke.He was riding and I was sitting behind him. While returning, some one shouted at the street side.Hearing that unknown shout,my friend looked back and ,within fraction of that...

unpleasent day

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dassilavs ...it was definitely wrong to run away after causing an accident especially that a child is involved in it. and i don´t think the people would hit or beat you for causing the accident. but as you mentioned that there are many people around and the mother seem...

12 May 07

Do you complain in restaurants? please read and be careful.

Abbypia @Abbyey (760) • Philippines 12 May 07

Whenever i dine out and i see something wrong with the order i made. I complain since i know im paying for it. However when i met someone who used to work for a pizza company she told me that after working there, she never did...

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dassilavs ...oh my! oh my! reading your story made me sick...but then again we are all humans. maybe the group of teenagers deserved such a serving. personally, am not really complaining much if not at all. i actually dont make a habit of eating in restaurants, so i hve...

12 May 07

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Would Adopt a Child??.......

babygurl850406 @babygurl850406 (1322) • United States 7 May 07

if you were not able to conceive one of your own? would you adopt a child anyways? What are your views on adoption? Do you think it would ever be a consideration to you to adopt a child?

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dassilavs ...we have two daughters but yes we do intend to adopt a boy. i have two cesarian births and would not like to risk a third. there are enough children in the world who needs a home and they do need love and affection like everybody else -after all it was not...

7 May 07

It might be MY JOB...but why can't I get a little help around here?

kbkbooks @kbkbooks (7022) • Canada 3 May 07

Do you ever feel that as a woman you are totally taken for granted in your house? Everyone expects you to do the housework, the cooking, the shopping, etc. I do most of this and most of the time I don't complain, but just once in...

housekeeper

wife

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dassilavs It is really very inconsiderate of your family not to help you with the household chores especially that you are having pains when you overdo with it. maybe you should remind them again and again that you can no longer do all the chores alone and that they...

4 May 07

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Unfair boss

samrat16 @samrat16 (2442) • India 14 Mar 07

You have probably heard the saying; Employees don't leave their job or company, they leave their boss. But you don't realise how true it is, till you have been at receiving end . Poor managers lead to poor morale and less...

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dassilavs ...have had changed jobs 3x before but only once because of an unfair boss. unfortunately, bad bosses, unfair bosses, bossy bosses really exists. and i always believe its never possible to ever try to change an adult individual. but sure is possible to try to...

3 May 07

What Song/s Of Bread Is/Are Your Favorite/s?

cytherea13 @cytherea13 (219) • Philippines 24 Apr 07

Here's a list of my favorite songs of the group Bread... ANTHOLOGY - Make It With You, Dismal Day, Anyway You Want Me, Look what You've Done, It Don't Matter To Me, If, Baby I'm A Want You, Everything I Own, Aubrey, Diary,...

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dassilavs I just love the group and their songs are simply super! i think everybody who is in love or who likes to fall in love and intends to stay in love can really relate to the meaning of their song...although, i love all their songs, i still have some favorites,...

30 Apr 07

What are the common problems between married couples?

samrat16 @samrat16 (2442) • India 28 Apr 07

My brother is getting married this december and his questions does irritate me a lot. He is asking what are the common reasons for fight between a couple. How can he avoid them. I am just teaching him that don't argue with your...

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dassilavs ...been married for a little over six years now. i don´t really like arguing ´coz i simply cannot become that loud to convey my point -i am not a loudspeaker and when one cannot be loud will almost always lose the battle. but in my experience -one need not be...

28 Apr 07

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i hate having a toothache, thats the worst pain i have to deal with,

ozzydee70 @ozzydee70 (465) • Germany 19 Apr 07

i always have a sleepless night if my tooth is aching. How about you my fellow mylotters what sickness you hate most??

health

toothache

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dassilavs ...i have a bad tooth -had it filled-up two years ago but must not be the right thing to do ´coz lately its aching again a little severe in the evening before sleeping -then i would say to myself i will make an appointment with the dentist tomorrow- then i...

27 Apr 07

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How should I react to my brother now ??

samrat16 @samrat16 (2442) • India 22 Apr 07

I have got something to share with you friends. I went to visit few temples with family this saturday and sunday. There was my cousin also with me. This guy is my uncles son that is my father's brother son. I have helped him a lot...

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dassilavs ...unfortunately there are people who seem to forget easily where they came from or what they were before or who have helped them along the way - when they seem to be on the path to success. such people will surely get a dose of their own medicine sometime -...

23 Apr 07

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Why do people spend so much time following the lives of celebrities ?

jamie622 @jamie622 (508) • India 21 Apr 07

Why are people so interested in the lives of celebrities ?Even if their dog sneezes it becomes a news .People are o crazy to know what they eat ? what they wear / Who do they spend night with ? What books they read ? What their...

celebrity fever

people crazy aqbout celebrities

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dassilavs Fortunately i am not one of them -people who are interested in the lives of the celebrities. i mean not that i dont like them - i do like many of them but i don´t simply spend time and money buying and reading magazines, etc. about their lives. i think it is...

21 Apr 07

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Honesty is the best policy? How far do you agree?

BRIJENDRA @BRIJENDRA (926) • India 14 Apr 07

Hello everyone,there is an old saying and proverb that honesty is the best policy.In our school days we used to write essay on this.But in this era,rarely we heard this from anyone mouth.Followers of this policy are said to be...

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dassilavs ...i may be a fool but i do still am living up to this policy. i find life easier when i can simply be honest with everything and with everyone. like in a relationship, i don´t need to pretend to be someone else - i am simply who i am and what i am. for most...

17 Apr 07