deborahkat

@deborahkat (519)

Brazil • Age 46

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Do you hate jewerly boxes?

wickedlove @wickedlove (326) • United States 15 Jan 10

I am starting to get really irrated at mine. I have had several, and they never do the job. I always get necklaces,bracelets, and even earrings all tangled all the time. I could keep it as organized as possible and it still gets...

jewerly box

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deborahkat Unfortunately right now I have no jewelry box but when I lived in the Netherlands some years ago I got one that I liked very much. I had to give it to a friend when I got back to Brazil because I had already too much weight to carry and this jewelry box was a...

17 Jan 10

Will you EAT UP all of your dish when invited as a guest?

leo1985 @leo1985 (164) • China 9 Sep 09

If someone invited you to have a meal in his home or in canteen/restaurant,it's on him/her. Will you eat up all of your dish? In china, if you met SOMEONE just several times and not familiar with each other already, it's better...

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deborahkat In my country (Brazil) we are not very formal people. I like to eat everything cause i was taught to do that. My mother when was a child passed for starvation so she taught me to give value to food. So I feel bad when I leave food on the plate.

9 Sep 09

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is it fair to judge people on their looks?

neo_matrix @neo_matrix (884) • India 9 Sep 09

i really am bogged up trying to explain my professional credibility to few of my seniors with fixed ideas about people's gender, age or their looks.i missed a important board meeting for that senior of mine felt i don't look...

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deborahkat I really know what you mean. I am judged even by my family cause i have 11 piercings on my body. I had 13 but unfortunately two got infected and I had to take them away. But it´s always like that. My family keeps saying (more my oldest brother) that it doesn´t...

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Your Sleeping Position

patofgold23 @patofgold23 (5069) • Philippines 9 Sep 09

Do you know that your sleeping position says something about your personality? Well, at least that's one study says so... But if you would try to look at it, and somehow look if it the meaning behind your sleeping position does...

sleep position

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deborahkat I sleep most on yerner position and yes it´s right about decisions. I am really cautious about making a decision cause once made I don´t change it. But about being suspicious it´s strange, people normally know everything about me, they all say I am...

9 Sep 09

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Should Having Kids Be Licensed?

Louc74 @Louc74 (620) 4 Sep 09

We're all horrified when we hear about cases of child abuse and neglect, and yet people who have children removed from their care are allowed to go on and have more and more little ones. I believe that having children is a...

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deborahkat I really don´t know if this is right or wrong. But I also get in depair with things like these. here in my country (Brazil, third world country) we see many stories of child abuse and the poor the family more children they have. Once I saw on tv a 3 year old...

5 Sep 09

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I don't Wish to start a CONTROVERSY...

bodhisatya @bodhisatya (2384) • India 5 Sep 09

It is said and believed that people who spend long hours socializing through the net are actually timid and introverts. They don't possess the courage and confidence to face the world in "Real". So they escape this deficiency by...

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deborahkat Normally I don´t like to argu in any way. I learnt from experience that most people don´t change their mind with a discussion. So i just give my opinion when I am asked for that. And some people don´t like to face the truth. About internet my best friends I...

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Are Gender Roles Really Necessary In Modern Society?

danishcanadian @danishcanadian (28954) • Canada 5 Sep 09

I manage the money, he cooks. She may go out to work all day, he may stay home with the kids. Two may split totally 50/50, another couple might embrace "traditional" gender roles. It all depends on the individuals. With the...

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deborahkat I was just talking about that the other day in an discussion here on mylot. That my mother wants me to help her at home and my two brothers don´t help with anything because i am a woman and they are men. So if they wash their dishes their d... will fall? I...

5 Sep 09

Would You Have A Computer Chip Planted in Your Brain?

Louc74 @Louc74 (620) 5 Sep 09

Computer scientists are saying that by 2035, BCI (Brain Computer Interface) will be rolled out, en masse, to the public. They're speaking about computer chips implanted into the brain to increase its capacity, to allow us to...

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deborahkat Technology is making people going crazy a bit. We are loosing humanity worrying too much with stuff like that. Imagine you have a chip in your brain and you are a product. With this kind of thing you can be found anywhere in the world and all sorts of things...

5 Sep 09

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do u believe in ghosts???

shhheila @shhheila (1845) • Philippines 28 Aug 09

i've heard stories that send me goosebumps while listening or reading stories about ghosts. but i've never encountered one, so i kinda dont believe it because for me to see is to believe... my friends told me they've seen ghosts...

ghosts

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deborahkat Well I don´t really know if I believe it or not. If this is something from our minds, our imaginations or if seeing a ghost is something real. Like they say i don´t beelieve in witches but that they exist they exist. So let me tell you my own personal ghost...

5 Sep 09

Do you take pictures of the dead during funeral?

neelianoscet @neelianoscet (9615) • Philippines 5 Sep 09

My mom do not like to keep the photos of dead person, whether a relatives or a beloved in photo album. She do not like to see their faces or keeping it makes her feel sad, scary and annoy. While, I am the complete opposite...

dead person photos

dead pictures

keeping dead photos

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deborahkat I don´t deal very good with death. I normally don´t go to funerals and try to keep the image of the person that died the way they were when they were alive. Of course going to funerals is a good way to face death and see the person is really gone. Maybe a...

5 Sep 09

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The Moon

AngryKittyMSV @AngryKittyMSV (4317) • United States 4 Sep 09

The moon has always been fascinating to me, I can stare at it for hours and not get bored. Tonight the moon outside is beautiful, full and bright, despite the clouds, and has a raionbow halo around it. I wish you all could see it!...

full moon

peaceful sight

poem

robert louis stevenson

the moon

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deborahkat The moon always full of mistery and beauty. Yes, I always prefered the moon then the sun. I am a night person so I love the nights. Sometimes when I discover the moon is full I get out of my house to the street to see it. It´s always so beautiful and magic....

5 Sep 09

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Do you check previous discussions before you start one of your own?

DCLehnsherr @DCLehnsherr (1037) 4 Sep 09

Hi mylot, I have been wondering about this : When I first joined I read the Do's and Don't of mylot and it is mentioned on that page that you should check previous discussions before starting new one's in...

checking

do you check previous discussions before you start

mylot

previous discussions

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deborahkat I didn´t start a big number of discussions here. Just when I really needed it to know other people´s opinions about some things to get a better idea. I normally also checked if that subject was discussed before. So yes, I do check previous discussions before...

4 Sep 09

Tensions of Having different religions with my partner.

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 4 Sep 09

My boyfriend and I have different religions, though it hasn't played a huge part on our relationship (in terms of stress), I'm quite starting to feel it right now. He's in another country just very recently. He's still...

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deborahkat In a friendship I did. A friend of mine is not really a religious person but he was in the past and still has that way of thinking about some things. He does lot of wrong things like using drugs and drinkin alcohol. but he loves to judge people and sometimes...

4 Sep 09

I can NOT believe this!!! Can You!!??!?!?

LilyoftheThorns @LilyoftheThorns (12918) • United States 4 Sep 09

So, this morning as I was trying to fall asleep I had my radio on, and my station started giving some news stories... A woman had her 2 year old daughter with her, and the baby was crying (big whoop right?)...well, this man...

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deborahkat He is sick, I mean really sick. If a baby child cries something is wrong and the baby is just giving a sign about that. No baby will cry if everything is ok. So it´s the case for him to be hit in the face also cause he is a monster.

4 Sep 09

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What are your expectations?

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 4 Sep 09

When you do something for someone, do you expect a return favor? How will you feel if one is not forthcoming? Do you feel the need to keep score with what you do for others and what they do for you? Can you give without expecting...

expectations in life

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deborahkat I try not to expect anything from anyone nowadays cause it´s just frustrating. i am the kind of friend that is always there for the others. Always... once a friend of mine asked if I never got tired of helping. Well, I just got. I passed for a difficult...

4 Sep 09

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Would you ask your kids to help out with the housework ?

grace118224 @grace118224 (1038) • China 4 Sep 09

I've noticed that now some parents in our country have begun to realize that they have let their children to learn to do some housework so that they can take care of themselves in the future. If my boy grows up at about 5 or 6...

homemaker

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deborahkat I tell you by experience do that. Cause here at home my mother didn´t tell men to do anything so even to wash the plate they ate in they don´t do. Not really because they don´t know but because they were not taught they should do so. Seems if they do it their...

4 Sep 09

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Are you contented with the performance of your computer right now?

mobhomeir @mobhomeir (7558) • Philippines 4 Sep 09

Of course, everyone of us here has computer, we can't do mylotting manually. But, are you satisfied with the performance of your unit? There are some of us, thought their computer is old in model but the are contented with the...

performance

satisfaction

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deborahkat No, no and no. for sure not. My computer needs to be formated, it´s completely full of archives right now but I can´t empty it cause the combo is broken and I don´t have a dvd recorder. I´ts getting slower and slower everyday and always showing new problems....

4 Sep 09

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What would you do in this situation?

phoenix1344 @phoenix1344 (698) • United States 3 Sep 09

Okay, it has happened to everyone! Your walking down the street and you, of course, pass someone walking the opposite way. Do you look them in the eye and smile and say high? Do you stare straight ahead as if they aren't there? Or...

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deborahkat I am a shy person, even to people I know i prefer to look down and if they say hi I answer for sure, but usually I am not the first one to smile and say hi. But sometimes I smile and if the person says hi i do reply.

4 Sep 09