@deborahkat on myLot

wickedlove @wickedlove (326) • United States 15 Jan 10

I am starting to get really irrated at mine. I have had several, and they never do the job. I always get necklaces,bracelets, and even earrings all tangled all the time. I could keep it as organized as possible and it still gets...

jewerly box

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deborahkat Unfortunately right now I have no jewelry box but when I lived in the Netherlands some years ago I got one that I liked very much. I had to give it to a friend when I got back to Brazil because I had already too much weight to carry and this jewelry box was a...

17 Jan 10

leo1985 @leo1985 (164) • China 9 Sep 09

If someone invited you to have a meal in his home or in canteen/restaurant,it's on him/her. Will you eat up all of your dish? In china, if you met SOMEONE just several times and not familiar with each other already, it's better...

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deborahkat In my country (Brazil) we are not very formal people. I like to eat everything cause i was taught to do that. My mother when was a child passed for starvation so she taught me to give value to food. So I feel bad when I leave food on the plate.

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neo_matrix @neo_matrix (884) • India 9 Sep 09

i really am bogged up trying to explain my professional credibility to few of my seniors with fixed ideas about people's gender, age or their looks.i missed a important board meeting for that senior of mine felt i don't look...

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deborahkat I really know what you mean. I am judged even by my family cause i have 11 piercings on my body. I had 13 but unfortunately two got infected and I had to take them away. But it´s always like that. My family keeps saying (more my oldest brother) that it doesn´t...

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patofgold23 @patofgold23 (5069) • Philippines 9 Sep 09

Do you know that your sleeping position says something about your personality? Well, at least that's one study says so... But if you would try to look at it, and somehow look if it the meaning behind your sleeping position does...

sleep position

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deborahkat I sleep most on yerner position and yes it´s right about decisions. I am really cautious about making a decision cause once made I don´t change it. But about being suspicious it´s strange, people normally know everything about me, they all say I am...

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danishcanadian @danishcanadian (28954) • Canada 9 Sep 09

This is something that's driving me absolutely nuts. I start to feel tired, I look at my clock, and i decide that if I actually want to get up in the morning, I'd better put the computer away, and go to sleep. Problem is, all the...

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deborahkat Doctors always say that. I wanted to know why I never was able to do that. When I was younger I had to pass 4 days awake to have one night of sleep. I am a night person, so deep sleep for me just during the day and this makes hell of my life cause it is not...

9 Sep 09

deborahkat @deborahkat (519) • Brazil 5 Sep 09

Well, we are in september and in some months the year will be over. It passed so fast, wow!!! I must say it was the most difficult year for me in my whole life. I had two jobs that didn´t pay me. 5 of my cats died of strange...

2009 life difficulties bad good people

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deborahkat Yes I agree with you. But it´s difficult to bring happyness to life when our own family does sabotage to us simply because they don´t agree with our point of view. They think i have to get a normal job while i have been working out to open my own business....

9 Sep 09

deborahkat @deborahkat (519) • Brazil 5 Sep 09

Well, we are in september and in some months the year will be over. It passed so fast, wow!!! I must say it was the most difficult year for me in my whole life. I had two jobs that didn´t pay me. 5 of my cats died of strange...

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deborahkat I understand you stephcjh. I also work 7 days a week with my blogs and even with all the work one of my blogs, the most successfull one got back to pr zero. And I am still not able to make enough money to be independent as I wish.

9 Sep 09

deborahkat @deborahkat (519) • Brazil 5 Sep 09

Well, we are in september and in some months the year will be over. It passed so fast, wow!!! I must say it was the most difficult year for me in my whole life. I had two jobs that didn´t pay me. 5 of my cats died of strange...

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deborahkat Oh sorry to hear about your health syankee. Hope you will get well soon.

9 Sep 09

Louc74 @Louc74 (620) 4 Sep 09

We're all horrified when we hear about cases of child abuse and neglect, and yet people who have children removed from their care are allowed to go on and have more and more little ones. I believe that having children is a...

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deborahkat I really don´t know if this is right or wrong. But I also get in depair with things like these. here in my country (Brazil, third world country) we see many stories of child abuse and the poor the family more children they have. Once I saw on tv a 3 year old...

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bodhisatya @bodhisatya (2384) • India 5 Sep 09

It is said and believed that people who spend long hours socializing through the net are actually timid and introverts. They don't possess the courage and confidence to face the world in "Real". So they escape this deficiency by...

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deborahkat Normally I don´t like to argu in any way. I learnt from experience that most people don´t change their mind with a discussion. So i just give my opinion when I am asked for that. And some people don´t like to face the truth. About internet my best friends I...

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danishcanadian @danishcanadian (28954) • Canada 5 Sep 09

I manage the money, he cooks. She may go out to work all day, he may stay home with the kids. Two may split totally 50/50, another couple might embrace "traditional" gender roles. It all depends on the individuals. With the...

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deborahkat I was just talking about that the other day in an discussion here on mylot. That my mother wants me to help her at home and my two brothers don´t help with anything because i am a woman and they are men. So if they wash their dishes their d... will fall? I...

5 Sep 09

Louc74 @Louc74 (620) 5 Sep 09

Computer scientists are saying that by 2035, BCI (Brain Computer Interface) will be rolled out, en masse, to the public. They're speaking about computer chips implanted into the brain to increase its capacity, to allow us to...

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deborahkat Technology is making people going crazy a bit. We are loosing humanity worrying too much with stuff like that. Imagine you have a chip in your brain and you are a product. With this kind of thing you can be found anywhere in the world and all sorts of things...

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shhheila @shhheila (1845) • Philippines 28 Aug 09

i've heard stories that send me goosebumps while listening or reading stories about ghosts. but i've never encountered one, so i kinda dont believe it because for me to see is to believe... my friends told me they've seen ghosts...

ghosts

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deborahkat Well I don´t really know if I believe it or not. If this is something from our minds, our imaginations or if seeing a ghost is something real. Like they say i don´t beelieve in witches but that they exist they exist. So let me tell you my own personal ghost...

5 Sep 09

neelianoscet @neelianoscet (9615) • Philippines 5 Sep 09

My mom do not like to keep the photos of dead person, whether a relatives or a beloved in photo album. She do not like to see their faces or keeping it makes her feel sad, scary and annoy. While, I am the complete opposite...

dead person photos

dead pictures

keeping dead photos

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deborahkat I don´t deal very good with death. I normally don´t go to funerals and try to keep the image of the person that died the way they were when they were alive. Of course going to funerals is a good way to face death and see the person is really gone. Maybe a...

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deborahkat @deborahkat (519) • Brazil 5 Sep 09

Well, we are in september and in some months the year will be over. It passed so fast, wow!!! I must say it was the most difficult year for me in my whole life. I had two jobs that didn´t pay me. 5 of my cats died of strange...

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AngryKittyMSV @AngryKittyMSV (4317) • United States 4 Sep 09

The moon has always been fascinating to me, I can stare at it for hours and not get bored. Tonight the moon outside is beautiful, full and bright, despite the clouds, and has a raionbow halo around it. I wish you all could see it!...

full moon

peaceful sight

poem

robert louis stevenson

the moon

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deborahkat The moon always full of mistery and beauty. Yes, I always prefered the moon then the sun. I am a night person so I love the nights. Sometimes when I discover the moon is full I get out of my house to the street to see it. It´s always so beautiful and magic....

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katerina @thea09 (18305) • Greece 4 Sep 09

I'm curious about this as I sometimes still need to translate the words in my head first. Yet other times I can have conversations in my second language whilst dreaming. So are you able to think in a second language or do you...

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deborahkat Living abroad helped me to achieve that. For about one year I lived in another country and if it wasn´t my second language I had no clue how it would be. After some time it was really difficult for me to speak my own language. I started to have a strange...

4 Sep 09

DCLehnsherr @DCLehnsherr (1037) 4 Sep 09

Hi mylot, I have been wondering about this : When I first joined I read the Do's and Don't of mylot and it is mentioned on that page that you should check previous discussions before starting new one's in...

checking

do you check previous discussions before you start

mylot

previous discussions

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deborahkat I didn´t start a big number of discussions here. Just when I really needed it to know other people´s opinions about some things to get a better idea. I normally also checked if that subject was discussed before. So yes, I do check previous discussions before...

4 Sep 09

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