deviander

@deviander (20)

Canada • Age 34

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the advantages and disadvantages of having children

willy6 @willy6 (498) • Jamaica 16 Apr 09

Many people will be mad at having saying that there are disadvantages of having children. there are many advantages of having children, but I strongly believe that the good outweight the bad. It is a joy of bringing a new life...

nurture invested unconditional

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deviander Yes, you're right Overall, the advantages outweigh the disadvantages. But to the mother, there are a lot of pain that they have to go through. Most of the time this is unnoticed.

17 Apr 09

Do you still rate with the best response to your posts ?

torchablazed @torchablazed (3218) • Philippines 16 Apr 09

First, I would like to ask apologies to those who have responded to my post, I am not good with rating best responses and decided lately that I wouldnt give one but for a very rare instance of giving the BR to all responder, I...

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deviander I like giving and receiving best responses.

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I am getting married.

rockydam83 @rockydam83 (846) • Italy 16 Apr 09

Friends Finally i am getting married but my case is quite complicated. I have never seen the girl in real life only a picture. I am not interested in marriage right now but i really really love soo much my father and i can do...

my marraige

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deviander There is actually no right or wrong in this situation. On one hand, you're being (loyal?I don't know the word) to your father; on th eother, it's your freedom of choosing your partner for life. I suggest you go with your heart.

17 Apr 09

I am so excited but so nervous!!!

mummymo @mummymo (23706) 9 Apr 09

Okay I have finally gone and done it - I quit smoking just over 3 months ago now and am very proud of myself! I haven't slipped once not even a little puff nor have I gained weight, which is fantastic as I need to lose some as it...

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deviander Good job. I'm glad to hear it. I tell my dad to quit smoking and he bluffs. I really don't like second-hand smoke.

9 Apr 09

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farts can be deadly.. fart hater stabs man repetitively after man farts

moonlitmagikchild @moonlitmagikchild (22181) • United States 8 Apr 09

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/30116608/ LMAO ok i just wanna know how BAD was this fart? i mean was it so bad the food got funky or the guy got sick and couldnt eat anymore? it was a friend too so i mean jeeze!! i guess this guy...

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deviander I have to LOL at that. In this case, there are lots of deadly things. Coffee, fish...the list can go on.

9 Apr 09

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I've had enough of Ciao.com! They've just put a blanket over several countries!

inkyuboz @inkyuboz (1392) • Mandaluyong City, Philippines 8 Apr 09

Now everyone outside of U.S., Canada and U.K. are banned from entering the website. I've came to understand that this is their way of pushing out the plagiarisers and cheaters from the website... but seriously? Banning even the...

banned

ciao

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deviander North American Companies these days...you can't help it. I'm sure there is another reason behind it, the cheaters are jsut an excuse.

9 Apr 09

do you make your bed in the morning ???

abcnadz @abcnadz (457) • India 9 Apr 09

i get up in the morning and make my bed before i leave my room. i have heard that making your bed shows how disciplined you are. even though i make my bed, i am not a very disciplined person. i find my room to be extrememly untidy...

bed

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deviander I used to make my bed when I was living with my dad. Now, I just feel lazy. I leave it like that, come back in the evening, then go to sleep. I feel like I don't need to make my bed.

9 Apr 09

Is it fair to pay back in the same coin?

dpk262006 @dpk262006 (58673) • Delhi, India 8 Apr 09

Some of us are very particular in extending our wishes and greetings to our near and dear ones on their birthdays, their children’s birthdays and their marriage anniversaries etc. However, everyone does not reciprocate by wishing...

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deviander You're a very generous and nice person. I'm going to say that. But me personally, I would give greetings if I didn't receive something in the first year, but if this person NEVER sends out anything, then I won't bother giving anything either. It's not the...

9 Apr 09

will u buy a computer online?

babyorchid @babyorchid (1737) • China 9 Apr 09

me, a crazy online shopping girl,online shop ping really brings me lots convenient..getting things without walking outside..lol but all things i will buy are some items like cloths,bags, shoes,books. most time it wont cost me too...

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deviander I won't buy a computer online, simply because if there was to be a problem with it, the procedure that I need to go through would be very tiring for me.

9 Apr 09

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Do you believe in Religion?

Dugsmom @Dugsmom (279) • United States 8 Apr 09

I believe in God and I know I was created by Him. But religion, in my opinion, is a bunch of baloney! As a child, I'd go to church every Sunday, said my prayers and if I did anything wrong, go to confession where I'd be cleansed...

beliefs

god

religion

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deviander I believe in God, because I myself am god.

9 Apr 09

What is your view on this ? Why or why not ?

youetme @youetme (351) • China 9 Apr 09

Some people say that college students should take part-time jobs. Others worry that part-time jobs do them nore harm than good . I know people have different views on it . I am a teacher of a college So I care about it more than...

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deviander It depends on their financial status. Of course, it is good when you're getting hands-on experience and earning money at the same time, but if you don't really need the money, but the job is taking away time for you to study (thus lowering your marks in...

9 Apr 09

Unique wedding gift ideas anyone?

kevsgirlalways @kevsgirlalways (5883) • Malaysia 9 Apr 09

Hi all. I’ll be attending one of my best friend’s wedding next month and I am clueless as to what to get her as a wedding gift. I don’t want to be buying ‘common’ stuff..any suggestions what makes a practical yet special wedding...

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deviander I don't think you should be asking us this question. Because that person ( I don't know the gender...) is your best friend, you, not everyone here, should know his / her interest and know what the best wedding gift is. Think about what your best friend would...

9 Apr 09

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Penfriend and Online Friend

bhanusb @bhanusb (5709) • India 8 Apr 09

My one cousin had a penfriend in Germany.Their friendship turned into love.My brother migrated to Germany and married that lady.My brother died there and laid in rest that country.They had two children.I have mentioned this to...

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deviander In overall percentage, yes I agree with you. However, you can't deny the fact that there are online dating in today's society, and these relationships become marriage after time. I agree with how there are less thinking and emotions involved in cyberspace...

9 Apr 09

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OMG I thought this was a JOKE at first.

xfahctor @xfahctor (14118) • Lancaster, New Hampshire 7 Apr 09

Obama adminstration hires actor Kal Penn. http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20090407/ap_on_go_pr_wh/people_kal_penn [i] "The White House has hired actor Kal Penn as a liaison between President Barack Obama's administration and Asian...

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deviander Haha. Governments and their doings, huh? You would never expect what the officials of the government would do or some up with. Even more wilder things come up. This is just one of the minor ones. Believe me.

8 Apr 09

Diet Soda

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 8 Apr 09

Normally I drink Coca-Cola, but lately I've been thinking about making the switch to diet soda in order to save calories and sugar. So yesterday I bought myself a 2 liter of the calorie free Pepsi max. It's really good, it's...

diet soda

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deviander I personally HATE anything that's diet. They're tasteless to me. Yes, I drank diet soda before; diet Pepsi, diet Coke, diet Sprite, even diet something orange soda, which i forgot the name of the brand; diet ginger ale...the list can go on forever. When I...

8 Apr 09

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Should you avoid courting your friends?

00BleedingShadow00 @00BleedingShadow00 (784) • Philippines 8 Apr 09

Some of my friends said that it is a bad idea to court a friend. What if you have fallen so deeply in love with your friend and you cannot control your feelings anymore? Would you still stop yourself from courting that friend of...

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deviander Being close friends before dating actually helps the relationship, because then the relationship between you and your spouse would be more stable. You would both understand your partner more. So my answer is yes, you can "court" a friend.

8 Apr 09

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Do we really need to be in style like our co-workers to fit-in in a workplace?

iskayz @iskayz (5420) • Philippines 8 Apr 09

Hi everyone! In a working environment, does fitting-in in a work place have something to do with the way you dress? I mean should an employee be obliged or voluntary obliged herself to dress up the way her/his...

acceptance in a workplace

fitting in a work place

how we should dress for the office

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deviander This is simply a psychological problem. Fitting in any environment does not require you to dress the way they do, unless everyone in that environment wears the same uniforms. Of course, you have to be tidy and clean, not dirty and smelly. As long as you're...

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Lonely Country Road...

twoey68 @twoey68 (13627) • United States 7 Apr 09

If your out driving at night and your car breaks down on a lonely country road in the middle of the night, do you get out of the car and go try to find help or stay in the car and wait for first light? I don’t drive but for the...

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deviander Personally, I would do the exact same thing as you would do. However, this situation would be an example of how a cell phone can be useful. Calling 911 for help is a better idea than just waiting out the darkness for a long time. I really don't see why I would...

8 Apr 09