earthsong

@earthsong (589)

United States • Age 55

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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Can you stay in same house?Without talking with your partners or parents

fantabulus @fantabulus (4000) • India 24 Sep 11

Yesterday my friend was saying me she is not talking with her husband since last week. When I heard this, I shocked I cant live even for single day without talking with my husband. Even sometime he annoyed on me but in next moment...

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earthsong Sometimes, when a conflict is so terrible its just best not to talk. But I agree with you, I can't imagine not talking to my husband for days on end.

25 Sep 11

How Do You Get Your Daily Intake Of Water?

StephanieAnnC @StephanieAnnC (4274) • United States 24 Jul 11

You're supposed to drink 8 - 10 glasses of water. Approximately 8 ounces each. But for me, that is so hard.I just...don't like water! It's not the greatest tasting! I'm trying to drink more of it though because I know I need to....

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earthsong I never understood someone saying they didn't like water, I've always been a water drinker. I just keep a glass near me at all times. I'm a die-hard coffee drinker and I've made myself drink at lest one cup of water for every cup of coffee (or any other...

25 Jul 11

Is there room for fighting in love?

lilbabycatapillar @lilbabycatapillar (497) • United States 14 Jul 11

I don't have a lot of experience in romantic relationships. In fact, I am currently in my first ever, (and last! Till I die!) relationship that matters at all. I have to confess. I could never figure out what couples fight...

argument

fighting

lovers

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earthsong I am not being an overbearing adult, but you will learn so much more about yourself and relationships the older you get. With that being said, it is normal to argue in a relationship. And if yours is a long distance relationship it can be hard because there is...

14 Jul 11

If your child was a bully would you stick by them?

dloveli @dloveli (4366) • United States 8 Jul 11

There's been alot of talk in the news lately regarding a teen that hung herself because she was being bullied by several other kids. When the children were legally held accountable the parents of the victim didnt think that jail...

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earthsong This is why the kids don't think they did anything wrong. They were taught that it is everyone else's fault and what they do wrong itsn't as bad as it appears. I would stand by my child to a degree, but I would never make excuses for them. If they did...

8 Jul 11

How Justified A Friend You Are With So Many Friends In Your List?

theSids @thesids (22180) • Bhubaneswar, India 20 May 11

Hi Lotters Been a while I had any discussions and was feeling away from home... Hope this gets me back to my extended family A few days I was chatting with a friend lotter. She mentioned that my...

friend count

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earthsong I've been on the site over a year and am generally inactive and if I have 20 I'd be amazed. I can't quite understand why people judge themselves by the number of people on a list that they don't even know.

21 May 11

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Merried because of love or.........because of what?

investor211 @investor211 (474) • Mexico 16 Apr 11

i have seen many people getting merried because they said feel love each other, other merry because got pregnant.other because of money this last one is the most common, i have ask a few girls i know personally, this is the...

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earthsong Just because someone is poor doesn't mean they have no future. One should look to see if they have any ambition. With that said... I married my first husband out of responsibility. I was 20, a college student and working full-time. I ended up pregnant and my...

17 Apr 11

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What was that?

thatgirl13 @thatgirl13 (7294) • South Korea 16 Apr 11

Last night as I was sleeping I suddenly woke up because I felt really uncomfortable. I opened my eyes and try to move but I couldn't move at all. It was as if something was holding me or was on me so I couldn't move. I tried hard...

scary

sleep

strange

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earthsong I'm sure you've gotten a similar reply, but there is actually a name for what happened to you. I can't remember it right now, but it is a type of sleep paralysis. Its nothing to be worried about, as far as I know, but you might want to mention it to your...

17 Apr 11

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Shocking! - Tell Me How You Would Do It...

hardworkinggurl @hardworkinggurl (37062) • United States 2 Apr 11

I heard this on the radio and found it very interesting to say the least. There is this talk radio show that from time to time I like to hear in the background. This one really caught my attention to say the least: In a day...

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earthsong School loans are different from the average loan you and I would take out. They are payment deferred, generally not accruing interest during that time, have a very low interest rate and can be deferred for years and years. It is possible for a woman of 61 to...

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Have you ever found money in your pocket, bag, or some where else

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 5 Mar 11

and can never remember what you put it there for.Well, I have just opened up my handbag that i use to use and i have found £20 in a side pocket of the hand bag and in the bottom I also found another £5 in change.However i have not...

can not remember

hand bag

money

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earthsong Two years ago I bought a little holder for my flash drive, I used it for one quarter at school and never looked at it again. A few months aog I gave it to my daughter to use for school and when I opened it I found a $10 folded up in there. I definitely don't...

6 Mar 11

Deciding not to have children - not the honest way

TheRealDawn @dawnald (85137) • Shingle Springs, California 7 Jan 11

True story. I have a younger cousin who got married. She was pregnant, and very happy about it too. I'm not sure how this happened, ultrasound or what, but she was convinced it was a girl, and was happily planning girl things...

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earthsong I don't think its right to take someone's choice away from them. It wouldn't be right if your cousin had tried to force her husband to have most children, but it was equally wrong of him to just go get a vasectomy without at least telling her. I agree with...

8 Jan 11

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Are you good at wrapping gifts?

JenInTN @JenInTN (27514) • United States 26 Dec 10

I have got gifts before that were wrapped beautifully with curly ribbons and no seams..LOL..I am thinking..wow...the time it must have taken, because me...I am not so good at it. I have been wrapping birthday and Christmas...

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earthsong I used to be very picky about how gifts were wrapped, and my husband still is. But we learned long ago that with our kids it makes no sense to be picky about how pretty the packages are wrapped since all the do is tear the heck out of the paper and the...

27 Dec 10

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Cars: Necessity or Luxury. Why?

visavis @visavis (5934) • Philippines 22 Dec 10

In our life we want to make it better, eligant and easy, nobody wants a life full of struggle or sacrifices. So we are thinking a right way how to achieve such wants and dreams. There are many things needed to our...

car

dreams

wants

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earthsong Are you studying to be a teacher? LOL I think its a necessity, but the type of car you get could be the luxury. Most cars have a base model and then things like radios and air conditioning are extras. So you could make that necessity a luxury. Where I live...

23 Dec 10

Naming a poem...

ockiec @ockiec (7) • South Africa 28 Oct 10

I have always had a things for writing poetry. I love writing poems off the cuff, almost automatically... I don't change them when I am done. The thing is that I never seem to be able to give them titles that are relevant to the...

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earthsong I think only you can name your poetry. I also write poetry and if I title them its based on what I'm feeling at the time I'm writing it.

28 Oct 10

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