faerielady

@faerielady (10)

United States • Age 44

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Do you have problems making/keeping friends?

faerielady @faerielady (10) • United States 25 May 09

3 years ago I got a divorce from my husband. Most of "our" friends were actually "his" friends, so I didn't try to "take" them from him, that's just not right. However, I still don't have any friends of my own, or actually I...

havingdifficultiesmakeingfriends

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faerielady It's just finding the real friends that is a bit difficult. I'm joining a local gardening chapter and hopefully I'll meet people there that have the same or similar interests. That way we can all get together and do fun stuff, even if it's just pulling...

26 May 09

Do you have problems making/keeping friends?

faerielady @faerielady (10) • United States 25 May 09

3 years ago I got a divorce from my husband. Most of "our" friends were actually "his" friends, so I didn't try to "take" them from him, that's just not right. However, I still don't have any friends of my own, or actually I...

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3 people

faerielady Almost all my friends are online. I have one local friend and our schedules are so different that it's difficult to get together and actually do anything. We both work days, but she's across town and in school herself, and her son is special needs so he...

26 May 09

Do you have problems making/keeping friends?

faerielady @faerielady (10) • United States 25 May 09

3 years ago I got a divorce from my husband. Most of "our" friends were actually "his" friends, so I didn't try to "take" them from him, that's just not right. However, I still don't have any friends of my own, or actually I...

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3 people

faerielady The problem that I've had is that as a single mom, I have responsibilities that other people/parents don't have. I take my kid pretty much everywhere with me, I can't do things that other people do if the activities aren't kid-friendly, and things of that...

26 May 09

Do you have problems making/keeping friends?

faerielady @faerielady (10) • United States 25 May 09

3 years ago I got a divorce from my husband. Most of "our" friends were actually "his" friends, so I didn't try to "take" them from him, that's just not right. However, I still don't have any friends of my own, or actually I...

29 responses •

3 people

faerielady This has been exactly my experience. It only works if *I* do all the work. I have to call them, I have to email them, I have to make all the plans. Then if they can't do it that day that's planned, I'm the one that has to adjust my schedule to theirs. While...

26 May 09