fan2009

@fan2009 (121)

China • Age 43

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Responses (54)

fan2009's Responses

The thing you hate most about being a girl/woman?

justdroppingby @justdroppingby (296) • Philippines 9 Mar 10

Before anyone flames or me or calls me a troll, this is NOT female-bashing or intended to encourage it in any way. It's just that there's already been much discussion about the good things about being a woman, and this time around...

girl

woman

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fan2009 i am happy to be myself.but the most boring thing is that someone flatter you.especially your boss.i really dont know how to deal with this situation

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Which are your top three possessions?

maximax8 @maximax8 (31053) • United Kingdom 29 May 09

I love my laptop most of all and I have had it for about eighteen months so far. I use it to go on the Internet, email friends and for photography purposes. My digital camera is my second favorite possession of mine. I love the...

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fan2009 I think my favourite top possessions are my life,my work and my friends.first health is the most important for us.Having a strong body is the first present from my parents.My work is so important to support my family.In order to live a happy life we must work...

29 May 09

Being happy is a state of mind?

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 28 May 09

I was wondering how many of you members here truly believe that being happy is a state of mind. In other words do you try hard to achieve happiness through materialistic ways or just by being spiritual and counting your...

maintaining happiness

mind

people

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fan2009 yes,there is such a thing as perfect happiness in man himself,that is satisfaction.Happiness lie in himself.It is in needing nothing from outside himself.In wanting nothing he lacks nothing.He feels happy all the time.If one is always fighting for something he...

29 May 09

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can money buy love????hmmmm

jlovetin @jlovetin (150) • Philippines 27 May 09

nowadays on my opinion people are just being practical now...usually women(please don't get offended,,no intention to offend anyone :)) more are becoming practical now in terms of love...they will choose someone who can give them...

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fan2009 yes,nowadays some practical girls choose their marriage based on money.or even for money they will be sexal partners with rich people(companion to the rich).Rich people bring good fortune for them,famous car,expensive house and everything they like.These...

28 May 09

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Do you believe in ghost?

clorissa123 @clorissa123 (4926) • United States 25 May 09

People told me story sometimes, more like their first - hand experience. That is regarding to spirit, or ghost. People has the ability to see it, and they got frightened. For me, I won't say that I don't totally believe it. But I...

ghost

science

spirit

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fan2009 spirit or ghost are the imaginary of the living.when people die,they leave only the memory to the world.Human beings are super animals.when they leave the world they are like animals.So I don't believe in ghost.

25 May 09

try this personality test!

jhoanne1215 @jhoanne1215 (290) • Philippines 25 May 09

make a wish before reading the test! first test: put the following animals in order of your preference.. cow, tiger, sheep, horse, pig, second test: write one word that describes on the following: Dog, cat, rat, coffee,...

personality test

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fan2009 sheep,horse,cow,tiger,pig. crasy yellow orange red white green

25 May 09

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Are you health and fittness freak?

dhawanbm @dhawanbm (3705) • India 17 May 09

Health is one of the major issues and everybody wants to be fit and fine. so in order to remain fit n fine in excellent health what do you do, like health saloons or health guide following fitness schedule or gym, what else?

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fan2009 Heath is the first thing for everybody.If we are healthy we can do everything.If we are struggling for life we cannot keep body and soul together,let alone work.To keep healthy I often do morning exercises and take schedule fitness trainings everyday.Chinese...

17 May 09

how many are you in the family?

cainam @cainam (493) • Philippines 11 May 09

i've got my parents, a brother, my grand mother and my 5 dogs. we're 10 in all under one roof.

fam members

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fan2009 I have four in my family,my husband,my son and my daughter.We have no pet in my family.We live happily together.

11 May 09

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What is the purpose of you live?

fanxiangqian @fanxiangqian (185) • China 8 May 09

For most of us,we live is not only just for ourselves.most of the case,the purpose we live for others.for example,as a student,sometimes,they learn for their parents and teachers;and as a husbend,they live for their lover;as a...

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fan2009 We are social in this world.No one is an island.So we have family,relatives friends,co-workers etc. We work for life and make life easier for everyone in the world.New way of life is a good example.We struggle for life not only to live a happy life but also to...

9 May 09

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To live or just try to survive? Is life in those days so hard ?

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 9 May 09

All try to have a better life, try to survive, but how many try to live the life? Is this life a gift for us to teach us that life must to be lived to maximum? Or is just our duty to survive? We all try to care about...

life

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fan2009 It is easy to live.But it is not easy to live the life.If we only to live,life is meaningless.So we must try our best to make our life better.We all struggle to survive no matter how hard the situation is.Besides we work for life and make life easier and we...

9 May 09

were you ever quarrel with your teacher?

fwangaa @fwangaa (3057) • China 9 May 09

i never quarreled with my teacher. i was fear to teacher. and i am afraid i will be left school if i quarrel with teacher. i seldom talk with the teacher. i don't know why? are you also seldom talk with your teacher? why?

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fan2009 Teachers are friends.Teachers help you grow in the right way.So don't be afraid of talking with teachers.You are a shy pupil.you should try to overcome it and learn to be talktive in class.I often ask questions in class.Talking with your teacher may benifit...

9 May 09

an English question

dufresne @dufresne (137) • China 8 May 09

In the sentence "I could endure hunger. I had learned to live with hate. But to feel that there were feelings denied me, that the very breath of life itself was beyond my reach, that more than anything else hurt, wounded me.", I...

question

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fan2009 no,its conjunction,I think, as object of feel.

8 May 09

Life is challenge. Accept it

cudamani @cudamani (996) • India 7 May 09

It is often said that lkife is a challenge and one should accept it with whole mind. But it will be accepted as long as we get success at certain stages and areas. When a peron is confronted with failures at all times he finds it...

life

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fan2009 Life is indeed a challenge for everyone of us.We should try our best to accept it.We should make the best of every opportunity to realise our dreams.if not succeed,we didn't regret.At least we tried.If we didn't work hard,or tried our best we would regret...

8 May 09

sigh

fanxiangqian @fanxiangqian (185) • China 4 May 09

just today morning, our teacher who has only 32 years old pass away because cancer. last term,he teld us that he would had a baby,till now, the baby has only half year old, i fill very pitiful!in today world, we have so many...

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fan2009 I am sorry to hear that.So young a person left the world.I think your teacher must have degree in knowledge.He received education for so many years and didn't work so long.It's a pity that so learned a man lived so short a time.

8 May 09

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who is your genuine friend?

fanxiangqian @fanxiangqian (185) • China 4 May 09

i have so many friends,but when i have trouble,the friends always busy!perhaps they are busy indeed! however i fell very sad!~ so i want to ask you ,mylot friends,who is our genuine friends?

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fan2009 As the saying goes: A friend in need is a friend indeed.I think your friends were away from you when you in trouble,they are not indeed good friends.I have a lot of friends too.but only a few can be genuine frends.When i have something important to do,I often...

8 May 09

Pls give me your suggestion!

fanxiangqian @fanxiangqian (185) • China 4 May 09

I am a chinese student,next year,i will get my master's degree.perhaps you know that it is very different to find a good job in china now,so i want to go on my study till get my ph.D.however i feel the time is so long that i...

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fan2009 Yes, it is hard for chinese students to hunt for jobs now.And your major is particular.I think first you try some companies,if no success,go on yuor schooling. if you are employed by a good company and the pay is ok you can work first and then continue your...

8 May 09

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do you think birth order shapes one's personality?

Ritchelle @Ritchelle (3790) • Philippines 8 May 09

i am a graduate of psychology and way back then it was a yes, birth order can distinguish and even help shape one's personality. what's your take on this?

birth order

personality

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fan2009 I notice many brothers and sisters are alike in character .In one family, birth order sometimes can distingish them.First and third often alike and second and fourth are similar.No matter their appearances and their character,they are always the same.

8 May 09

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loved by someone !!!!!!!!!!!

bhaskar556 @bhaskar556 (328) • India 8 May 09

the feel is just amazing. i always felt loved n cared by my husband. we all r loved n cared by someone or the another. who is that special one in ur life ? plz share.

care

love

realtions

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fan2009 Yes,we are loved and cared by others.Maybe he is our parent,brother,sister,or other relitives,or our close friends,or other people we know,teachers,doctors,etc.first of all God.We come to the world and no one is an island.We should share and help each other.We...

8 May 09

Is it OK?

sona22 @sona22 (1430) • India 7 May 09

I am observing since long that in a ceremony,e.g., marriage or any other many foods are wasting. And the reason of wastage is the non-participation/ presence of the nvitee. If a host invites 250 guests the number of presence is...

irresponsible guest

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fan2009 Many people do so in front of so many people.It is a shame if your food is not enough.so people prefer to have more than needed food in order not to losing face.I think it is not their willigs to do so.but have to.I agree with you.people should inform their...

7 May 09

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the weather

jeanzhang @jeanzhang (76) • China 7 May 09

hello everyone in recent days ,the weather is gettint hotter and hotter,my mood also increasingly irritable.are you all like this?can you give me some suggestings? thank you have a nice day!!!

how is the weather

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fan2009 Keep your mind cool and think everything clearly.We are all affected by the weather but dont let it affect your work.The weather changes unexpectedly but we should keep calm and steady.We should not change with the weather,right?

7 May 09

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