flamenca

@flamenca (81)

Canada • Age 71

Joined myLot 19 years ago

Prana is Life

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do you want everyting is in order and in your control

xiaowen187 @xiaowen187 (426) • China 3 May 08

that's the life state i'm dreaming of ~~~i hope that i can arrange my life as freely as i like, i wish i can manage everything orderly and perfectly. there is few things that disturb my plan ,and i can finally achieve what i have...

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flamenca The biggest achievement you can have is to control you mind and refine your include spirit. Of course this takes ppracctice. The mind needs to become neutral, no unfeeling but to truly achive your goals develop the mind by allowing it to become calm and clear....

4 May 08

i benefie much from mylot

xiaowen187 @xiaowen187 (426) • China 4 May 08

i am going to take an oral test, so i come here to practice my english. not just for the pay for discussion. what about your participation? do you also benefit much from it,just like me

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flamenca Xiaowen, i benefit in many ways. First, sharing opinions regarding different subjects . We all understand and view experiences differently. We are here to understand others adn perhaps open ourselves to new ways of thinking.. no judgment. Also for...

4 May 08

what should i do if my close friend cheat me?

yangjiaju @yangjiaju (33) • China 3 May 08

we are the most close friend ever, we played together, and told eachother everything, but just a week ago, he said to me that he has a gf and he just want to stay with her. i know he didn't want stay with me. so i got away from...

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flamenca Yangjiaju, One thing I ould recommend you do first is not to feel bad about yourself, because you did nothing wrong and you offered him your friendship and shared yourself with him. It is natural to feel hurt and sad but let this not close your heart at...

4 May 08

flower in greenhouse

xiaowen187 @xiaowen187 (426) • China 3 May 08

at present, there is only one kid in most Chinese family. teh parents try to provise their kids with all the best conditons and protection they can afford and do almost everything for the kids. as a resule,the kids have never...

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flamenca When the day comes where we all can become the expression of our soul and emit a special fragrance particular to a special flower that we are.. the world will be a wonderful place to live . No wars, no hate, no fear, just people living in their heart. I...

3 May 08

The Newest Victims Of Foreclosures

pyewacket @pyewacket (43903) • United States 2 May 08

More and more one hears the dire news of how many people can no longer live in their "dream" home...they can't make their mortgage payments and the home goes under foreclosure, but what really ticks me no end are the latest...

foreclosure

foreclosures

foreclosures in

pets abandoned in foreclosures

pets left to starve

pets locked in closets to muffle sound

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flamenca These people who have lost their homes have been uprooted in fear, shame, despair, not knowing where they will eat, live etc. Pure survival mode. Thinking of another mouth to feed or even if the animal dies due to their not being able to feed it causes even...

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i believe the person who don't take care of their old parents are doing crime

xiaowen187 @xiaowen187 (426) • China 3 May 08

there is a family in my hometown,three sons and a daughter treat their old , helpless father bad.they all don't want to raise their old father, and all shrink the responsibility to take care of their father, then the old man has...

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flamenca xiaowen, Here in North America, unfortunately when people get old, they are put or put themselves in what is called Old Folks homes.This has become a sociatal problem.. These people are often over medicated, bored, with no laughter and no visites form...

3 May 08

Cats life span

n2kn2k @n2kn2k (24) • Malaysia 30 Apr 08

What is cats life span? Do they show any symptoms that their time has come?

cats

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flamenca I have sen some cats live up to 20 and more years.. Usually they sleep a lot at that time .My neighbor has tow cats, brother and sister, who are 16 years of age and one is still pretty active. Some cats die peacefully and some get sick. I have two cats tht are...

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Good afternoon weather after fie days...

Hazel Funcion @Zelmarq (12607) • Cebu City, Philippines 30 Apr 08

I have noticed that for the last days it rained every afternoon and it has limited me from doing what I like to do and going where I want to go and yesterday was the perfect afternoon to top it all. I was able to go smoothly and...

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flamenca I rather enjoy the rain. i am surrounded by tall pine trees and a river right nearby so all I hear is the rain tapping on the roof and the refresing sound of the rain as it falls through the trees. It allows me to stay in my bathrobe with a book or cook my...

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When you were a child what did you think the future would be like?

kiran1978 @kiran1978 (4134) • Australia 30 Apr 08

Did you think it would be like the cartoon show the Jetsons, I did, lol. In the Jetsons it was based on a cartoon that was set in the future, there transportation was flying cars (pretty cool). They pressed a button and...

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flamenca I remember the Jetsons!! ha ha ha. Well , when i was young or even in my twenties I thought that the future would be a lot better than it is now... But remember, it is the beginning of the Aquarian Age and Truth is supposed to be a top priority. Taking...

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best diet...

vanities @vanities (11395) • Davao, Philippines 30 Apr 08

i had read from the excerpts of mayo clinic that says"The best diet is one based on fruits and vegetables, whole grains, lean sources of protein and unsaturated fats. Add regular exercise and stress reduction techniques, and you...

best diets

fruits and vegetables

mayo clinic

works for you

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flamenca This is a great way of eating tht you mention. The stress level is what we all have to watch s you can eat well but if you remain constantly in stress mode , it will catch up to you as all of the stress chemicals will destroy your body little by little. We...

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he's dying and he wants me to stay away?

yellowhipon @yellowhipon (793) • Philippines 30 Apr 08

my boyfriend has this rare blood disease... i've tried to be strong for him and i've been supportive all throughout his ordeal. But now he wants to break up with me... He said he lost his lust for life. He doesnt want me to have...

death

love

relationships

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flamenca I would do the same as you.. My boyfriend had to have chemo and radio therapy for a tumor.. They had to stop as it was burning him inside.. so the tumor is still there and they wanted to remove his bladder and rectum!! His bladder is in perfect shape... so we...

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Do you really believe that there is a food shortage in the USA?

kaysue4 @kaysue4 (951) • United States 29 Apr 08

I have been wondering this over this past week. I know that there could be a lot of factors like the rising cost of fuel to run the farm equipment in the field, and the lack of the hard working bees, but is it...

food shortage

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flamenca Good question... One day it is in the headlines ( here in Canada) and the next day I wanted to read more about the subject and .. nothing!! So is it all fabricated?? Is the weather fabricated?? Is the wool being pulled over our eyes??. We are living in...

29 Apr 08

where do you get your pet's name?

jairgirl @jairgirl (2877) • United States 28 Apr 08

hello pet lovers, i love naming pets and two weeks ago i named our turtle as "brian" coz i like family guy LOL it seems that most of our dog's name comes from cartoon show or movie. i honestly like it that way coz it reminds me...

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flamenca We have two cats, Amy and Tiggy. Their father's name was Ghosty because when he was a kitten, he would just disappear in front of our eyes, plus he was a very pale gray, so the name stuck. He fathered the ones we have now. We had originally called Amy ,...

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to see a doctor is unaffordable

xiaowen187 @xiaowen187 (426) • China 29 Apr 08

nowadays, it seems to be unaffordable to see a doctor. some doctors are irresponsible for patients, finishing diagnosis in a couple of minutes, but very careful in giving inscriptions for expensive medicine. consequently, going to...

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flamenca Well , I can tell you a few hhorror stories. My husband went in for an operation for his bladder and just before the operation he had to sign a paper to agree with the operation and they wanted him to sign a paper saying he agreed to have his bladder out!!...

29 Apr 08

Concerned About Rising Food Costs? Now You Can Voice Your Opinons

pyewacket @pyewacket (43903) • United States 29 Apr 08

I belong to the Congress.org website and frequently get there email alerts. One of the alerts is about our growing concerns that I think all of us have about rising food costs. Well on this particular site you can actually voice...

need to voice opinion

rising food costs

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flamenca More and more people need to , as you say rattle and more.. How can there be a food shortage?? I think it is time we see beyond the obvious. What do you think?? Can it be aploy just to get rid of a certain amount of people on the planet.?? I think we...

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welcome to China

xiaowen187 @xiaowen187 (426) • China 29 Apr 08

as an ancient country,China has a rather long history that we all feel proud of. our ancestors have left us quite a lot of invaluabe legacies,like summer palace in beijing and the great wall. not to mention so many other ancient...

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flamenca My husband's son is living in China and loves it. He found a job on the Internet and got a job teaching English. He even got married there. Met a girl in a restaurant , and he could not even speak Chinese at the time. They now have a child. It is very family...

29 Apr 08

what is the best season to visit your hometown

xiaowen187 @xiaowen187 (426) • China 29 Apr 08

as to my hometown, i should say when the grasslang looks its best with rich grass and various flowers. the weather is just mild. in the evening, people can dance and sing around a camp fire. during the daytime, they may go...

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flamenca Oh boy , your hometown sounds like a lot of fun. Singing, dancing , horseback riding.. Here , where I live, the summer is best. We have two rivers crossing the town with waterfalls, so you can go and bask on a rock, read, or chat with friends . There is also...

29 Apr 08

do you think a university education equals a successful future

xiaowen187 @xiaowen187 (426) • China 29 Apr 08

i don't really think so. definitely a university education is one of the basic requirements for whether you could compete in the job market. without that, you can't even stand in the waiting line. but we should realize that the...

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flamenca There can be so many responses to this statement or question.. A lot of students going to university do not really know what they want to study. Rather, they do not know who they are. I think basic training to become confident, clear, should start way ahead of...

29 Apr 08

What is the first thing that you check out after logging in to mylot?

vinubaby123 @vinubaby123 (417) • India 29 Apr 08

Hi friends, Lets share what each one of us do first after logging in to mylot. usually, i will check my earnings and see whether i have any new messages from my friends. usually, i will be checking my e mail before logging...

first thing

mylot

screen

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flamenca I uusually check for the easy topics to respond to, then go on to other topics that require a bit more thought, reflection . I try to respond to at least between 5-10 topics a day. I would like to start more topics too . Flamenca

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How Do you deal with being blamed for something you did not do?

winterose @winterose (39887) • Canada 28 Apr 08

Today I had to write an email to a friend who is a member of my e-zine, some how or other she got deleted and she thinks I have terminated the friendship. I don't send out the e-zine a professional email host does called zinester...

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flamenca The best way always, for me this works, is to be the most neutral possible. Meaning not reacting, feeling guilty, nervous, ashamed... etc. This works best for me as people usually like dramas and if you are neutral, it means that you do not get involved in...

29 Apr 08

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