fortyzwife

@fortyzwife (84)

United States • Age 39

Joined myLot 17 years ago

I dont let the drama in my life hold me down, if anything I use it as motivation to succeed.

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Should men and women also be equal in a relationship when it comes to money?

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 15 Feb 07

People always say that in a relationship,money should not be a problem but I have this friend who's thinking of thinking of breaking up with her bf. Her problem or situation is that she feels that from the start of their...

equal

money

relationship

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fortyzwife Well im in a similar situation, only im married to the guy. LOL. But I feel like, if she loves him, and she can afford it, why not? Granted every relationship should be 50/50, and my husband is the saver in our relationship, but it makes me feel good to buy my...

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Backaches while pregnant...

ladymoonstone143 @ladymoonstone143 (1507) • United States 16 Feb 07

As am typing this, am sitting on a heating pad trying to get rid of this backache and the pain in my tailbone. I am just 4 months pregnant and I think it is too early to be having them. This is my second pregnancy but during my...

backaches

pregnant

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fortyzwife Well as a mother of 5 i can tell you this is completely normal. And with all pregnancy's, things vary. People have morning sickness the whole time with one pregnancy, and maybe only once or twice with another. Same as aches and pains. Some of my pregnancy's...

16 Feb 07

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Do You Freecycle Your Old Goods??

ukchriss @ukchriss (2097) 11 Feb 07

The Freecycle Network is made up of many individual groups across the globe. So if you are Spring Cleaning - Clearing out your attic or shed, Don't Just Chuck Things Out - Freecycle Them! Freecycle is part of a global...

freecycle

give away

old goods

the freecycle network

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fortyzwife I am a FREECYCLER! They are great. Philly's area is

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Where else I can get extra money that affiliate with e-gold ?

Neo_Knights @Neo_Knights (1882) • Indonesia 29 Jan 07

I'm very dissapointed with PayPal for not eccept any payment to Indonesian acount, so I have to go with e-gold. But I found very hard to find any money making business affiliated with e-gold. Can you help me ?

extra money

making extra money

paypal

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fortyzwife Have you tried sign-profit? You place their banner in your signatures on different forums and the more you post the more you earn. I have the banner in my signature on one forum, that i am the admin on, so i post alot, and i make about .50 in egold every 2...

12 Feb 07

I need advice

Macthedj @Macthedj (630) 11 Feb 07

My partner and myself have a another couple who are good friends of ours. He works away most of the time so his girlfriend of 15 years is left to her own devices. I have recently found out that she has been having an affair. Now I...

cheating

relationships

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fortyzwife Well, it really isnt your business or your place to say anything to him. And its her responsability as a woman and HIS woman to come clean. So i would suggest telling her that if she has made her decision, that its not fair to keep him hanging on for nothing....

11 Feb 07

Have you made any real friends on myspace?

imalwayshope @imalwayshope (50) • United States 28 Jan 07

Myspace friends lists can be very long , there are even generators ,trains ,etc. to make them longer. Let us compare notes and see if people are really making friends on myspace .

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fortyzwife Myspace is great. I have found friends fomr KINDERGARTEN on there that since contacting them via myspace, we have reconnected. I have caught up with many childhood friends, keep in contact with distant family, and have even made friends just from regular...

28 Jan 07

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Are Your MyLot Friends Your Friends? Do You Delete or Turn Off for A Bit?

kitchenwitchoftupper @kitchenwitchoftupper (2290) • United States 27 Jan 07

Recently a friend that I thought had a very good connection with me deleted me from her/his friendship list. It really bothers me because I don't know what happened. I don't know what I did or did not do; but I would love to...

relationships

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fortyzwife Well im new with the whole friends thing, but i usually just add people i know, so i would be hurt. But if it was someone i didnt know, i wouldnt care.

27 Jan 07

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Fighting for Allah or God?

redyellowblackdog @redyellowblackdog (10629) • United States 27 Jan 07

The following was said in an earlier posting by someone. "If God called me up to fight for him I do not see why not, he is God." The problem I have with this is, "Who speaks for (Allah)/ God?". Surely, if (Allah) / God...

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fortyzwife I think that the whole situation is stupid. But people believe that God speaks to them, and tells them to do crazy things. I believe they are all crazy hearing voices and need medication. If GOD wanted a war, whoever your god is, he can wipe out with rain, he...

27 Jan 07

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Does anybody watch "The Wire" on HBO??

angeliamj @angeliamj (632) • United States 5 Nov 06

Hubby and I do and we love it!! We try not to miss and episode, but if we do we're lucky because we have HBO on demand also, so it's free for us to catch whatever we miss on HBO. : ) Ahhh, technology!!

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fortyzwife Its my favorite. Im on Wire withdrawel right now.

27 Jan 07

Any one from Philly going to remain a loyal fan of A.I.

misste78 @misste78 (539) • United States 24 Dec 06

I know some people are mad about the Iverson trade. Well are you loyal to the Sixers or A.I.

fans

loyalty

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fortyzwife Well im a philly gal, so ill still support my team, but I was more of an AI fan than anything. The man is fine and can play some ball. But i will always root for the sixers.

27 Jan 07

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Anybody from Philadelphia Pa.?

WAHSIS @WAHSIS (216) • United States 30 Nov 06

Philly folks

philly

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fortyzwife Me! Me! Im from philly!! Born and raised! 33rd and Cecil B is where im at right now.

27 Jan 07

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as parents do you consider an girl and boy equal?

nw_r_nwr20 @nw_r_nwr20 (114) • India 27 Jan 07

as we all know that in india most of the parents prefer boys and today also they consider girls as a curse in their life? what about you as a parents?

partiality

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fortyzwife I treat my children the same, it doesnt matter who is what. Now my daughter is my only daughter and i have 4 sons, so I tend to spoil her a bit more. But not because she is A girl but because she is the ONLY girl.

27 Jan 07

one of the prisoners i work with has just confessed to raping a 12 week old baby

ESKARENA1 @ESKARENA1 (18261) 8 Dec 06

one of the prisoners i work with has just confessed to raping a 12 week old baby, WHAT CAN WE POSSIBLY DO WITH SOMEONE WHO IS CLEARLY SO SICK

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fortyzwife Thats sick. Its not a mental problem, its a sickness. What could possess any man to rape a 3 month old? I read he said that SHE PROVOKED HIM!!! How does a 3 month old provoke a grown man!! As a mother of a 3 month old, I cant even process this topic. Im sick...

27 Jan 07

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Do you think child support should be a prerequisite for visitation rights?

everybodylovesleah @everybodylovesleah (244) • United States 15 Jan 07

Do you think someone should have the right to see their children if they are not paying child support? Why or why not?

child support

children

parenting

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fortyzwife I think it depends on the situation. My mother wouldnt let me see my father because he never paid child support, and when i was 16 i met him on my own, and well, she was doing me a favor by not letting me see her. He owes over 10000 dollars in child support...

27 Jan 07

Child support payments?

dreamingmyth @dreamingmyth (594) • United States 26 Jan 07

im just curious to see how many other single parents struggle to get their child support payments! see in june 05 my ex lost his job so of course he couldnt pay his child support.. i tried to work with him as much as i could, but...

child support

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fortyzwife If you go to your local domestic relations office and file a new petition to increase child support they will set a new court date and at that time you can let the judge know that he has a job, but its under the table. He will then be required to send in...

27 Jan 07

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OMG I HATE child support

jade01 @jade01 (803) • Australia 22 Jan 07

my husband has a child from a previouse relationship and we pay $700 a month in child support. our account was $119 behind and so child support froze my husbands bank account. What makes it worse is that the twind father is...

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fortyzwife Well my kids father (2 of them) pays 290 a month, all together. It gets deducted from his check. I spend that on my kids, i get them clothes, shoes, whatever they want with their fathers money, and pay the bills with my own. I work 3 jobs to support my kids,...

24 Jan 07

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When is your Anniversary?

blenchrys @blenchrys (6) • Philippines 13 Jan 07

My annivery this coming January 19,these year is our 5th anniversary but is so sad cause my husband is not here he is working abroad but it's ok for me cause he wont earn money for the family..

married

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fortyzwife Mine is November 11th 2005. This year i made him a love bucket, and inside wrote 365 reasons why i loved him, one for every day we had been married. I came up with over 400, but it was great seeing his face. He still hasnt gotten to them all (i wrote them on...

24 Jan 07