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gailie @gailie (32) • Suriname 5 Jun 09

Is it hard for you to be disciplined? what kind of method do you use or try to 'install' in your mind, to make something become a habit?

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gailie yes indeed you are right. i think i have a problem with that. if i don't see any results quick, then i will not be motivated to continue. but...you need to continue in order to see results, see my dilemma lol :)

6 Jun 09

gailie @gailie (32) • Suriname 5 Jun 09

Is it hard for you to be disciplined? what kind of method do you use or try to 'install' in your mind, to make something become a habit?

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gailie Hey ambie, lol you know, discipline for me is almost like a foreign word or something. i read that sometimes it's good to take a 30 day trial. lol; i can't even take 2 weeks trial. not one ounce of perseverance, it's so hopeless:S

6 Jun 09

gailie @gailie (32) • Suriname 28 May 09

What movie did you see, that made you think, mad e you feel something, that lifted your spirit? mine are: K-Pax, for some reason Love Actuallyreally fun to see different people in different situations, really...

moving movies

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gailie ok kool, thanks will do. i say families that prey. i thought it was a good movie too.

5 Jun 09

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gailie @gailie (32) • Suriname 28 May 09

if you were shy once, it doesnt matter if it was in kindergarten, high school or adulthood; but if you were shy, then what did you do to come out of your shell?how did you overcome it?

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gailie Hai rampantheart, thanks for the advice, i myself am not shy anymore, or not that shy i guess. but still i like to take more chances in social settings.. this is great for anyone who is really shy. i think this is a great idea because you take your situation...

2 Jun 09

gailie @gailie (32) • Suriname 28 May 09

if you were shy once, it doesnt matter if it was in kindergarten, high school or adulthood; but if you were shy, then what did you do to come out of your shell?how did you overcome it?

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gailie Hai Grayspirit, thanks for the response. i think i should've elaborated more. shyness in itself is not an issue. i myself i'm still shy, i surely don't want to be the center of attention, but i do think its a problem when you're too afraid to even speak your...

28 May 09

gailie @gailie (32) • Suriname 28 May 09

if you were shy once, it doesnt matter if it was in kindergarten, high school or adulthood; but if you were shy, then what did you do to come out of your shell?how did you overcome it?

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gailie yes you're right, it does not hurt others. but it's good that you know that it could be an obstacle in your social life. i hope you don't see coming out of your shell as changing into someone your not. i think it's just growing as a person. i mean it's most...

28 May 09

gailie @gailie (32) • Suriname 28 May 09

What movie did you see, that made you think, mad e you feel something, that lifted your spirit? mine are: K-Pax, for some reason Love Actuallyreally fun to see different people in different situations, really...

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gailie ok, how bout one that really made you happy?

28 May 09

gailie @gailie (32) • Suriname 28 May 09

if you were shy once, it doesnt matter if it was in kindergarten, high school or adulthood; but if you were shy, then what did you do to come out of your shell?how did you overcome it?

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gailie yes i like to adapt that thinking too. it's true, for every other person that is more confident, there will be someone else who is not, and might see you as the person with more confidence.

28 May 09

gailie @gailie (32) • Suriname 28 May 09

if you were shy once, it doesnt matter if it was in kindergarten, high school or adulthood; but if you were shy, then what did you do to come out of your shell?how did you overcome it?

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gailie you were very lucky to have a friend like that, telling you you don't have to be perfect, lol maybe she doesnt even realize what a positive effect she had on you :)

28 May 09

gailie @gailie (32) • Suriname 28 May 09

What do you do or have you done to improve yourself in any way?

self development

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gailie Hai Ambie, maybe it helps if you shift your focus from the thing that this person is doing, to something that this person does that quite amazes you or that you yourself would like to do. you know, find some common ground. hope it helps :)

28 May 09

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gailie @gailie (32) • Suriname 27 May 09

What have you done today or recently, that made your world a little less complicated and made you happy? As in, what good deed did you do today? Something as simple as letting people through in a traffic jam.

good deed

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gailie Thanks rampantheart. yes i agree that when you live not only for yourself but for others as well, or show sympathy, that it makes you peaceful.

28 May 09

gailie @gailie (32) • Suriname 27 May 09

What have you done today or recently, that made your world a little less complicated and made you happy? As in, what good deed did you do today? Something as simple as letting people through in a traffic jam.

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gailie Hai Kumar, thanks for the welcome and the response. You see, the funny thing about a good deed, is that it works both ways, it not only makes you feel good, but also the receiver (the person you helped), and thanks for the tips will do :)

28 May 09

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