gardengrrl

@gardengrrl (1445)

United States • Age 66

Joined myLot 19 years ago

The color of our skin, no longer makes us kin, as any who look have seen, the color that matters now is green.

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Sad news at the Cat House

ElicBxn @ElicBxn (64127) • United States 18 Jun 09

The roomie's almost 16 yr old cat has come to the end of the trail. He really hasn't eaten for 3 days and he stopped drinking yesterday. Now please keep me and her and Nino in your thoughts as I take him for his last ride in...

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gardengrrl I am so sorry for your loss! Our Jakey-Jake left us last Labor Day at the ripe old age of 17. It is like losing a member of the family. I will keep a light on in my heart for all three of you! HUGS!

20 Jun 09

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The difference between unresolved hurt feelings and holding a grudge...

wheel416 @wheel416 (1019) • Canada 11 Feb 09

I have a problem and I would like to know what the rest of you think about it and as I think it is something we all struggle with at some point. In general I try to be a very kind and loving person. I try to listen...

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gardengrrl I think the difference between the two is easily detected: hurt feelings reflect personal pain, while a grudge is driven by the anger over being hurt. If you see a person and think, darn, why did they hurt me like this, and how do I get past it, you're trying...

12 Feb 09

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what part(s) of the bible do you find useful in everday life?

fightingistheonlyway @fightingistheonlyway (2658) • Canada 19 Aug 08

any specific things that people could point out for me? i need some help as i cant seem to find anything.

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gardengrrl Apologies because I can't name the specific chapter or verse, but love thy neighbor as yourself is a good one. Really, the Ten Commandments are pretty good guidelines, too, if you overlook the archaic language. I realize I don't control what others do, but I...

19 Aug 08

Legal Drinking age should be 18?

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 19 Aug 08

Thank you News 4 in the D.C. area.I just saw a news report that a group of college presidents believe that lowering the legal drinking age will decrease binge drinking. They say the way it is now, there is a underground culture of...

drunk driving

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gardengrrl hello, fellow Giants fan! I caught a little bit of a TV news story on the subject, which named a number of colleges and universities as supporters of this movement. In addition to the points you've made so well, the story said that many schools are tired of...

19 Aug 08

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How Do You Choose Discussion Tags in MyLot?

petebaja @petebaja (516) • Mexico 12 Mar 08

I love to start discussions here in MyLot. Sometimes I just like to vent. But sometimes I really need answers. I know I can find it here. In the couple of months I've been here I must have earned a master's degree. Any topic is...

discussions

internet

my lot

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gardengrrl Click on "add/edit your interests", choose the category your new interest fits into best (movies, music, things I have done with my life, etc.), click the red "add" button, a dropdown list of all existing interests in that category will open. At the bottom of...

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My Partner is F*#*#ing Me and I Don't Know What to do?

petebaja @petebaja (516) • Mexico 12 Mar 08

I started this real estate business a while back and took in a partner. I had the sales experience, contacts, clients, etc. He had the money to expand the business. So it was a fair and equitable split - 50/50. Just a few...

business

make extra money

partners

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gardengrrl Heather's right, Pete, you gotta check it out thoroughly before you say anything to anyone. Remove this whole affair from the emotional back to the business realm. There shouldn't be any problem getting paid for work successfully completed. Don't know how...

23 Mar 08

Do you eat to feed your nerves?

Stephannie @stephcjh (38473) • United States 23 Mar 08

I have a bad habit of eating to feed my nerves and I do not know what to do about it. My husband and I work seven days a week right now to make ends meet. I do all of the financial things also. I am always worried about not being...

eating to feed your nerves

financial worries makes you eat

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gardengrrl Hi, Steph! You poor thing, emotionally driven eating is my downfall, too! I'm struggling with it, there's a couple of ideas I'm trying to utilize to change this. First line of defense is in the grocery store. Ice cream is my worst weakness, so I just don't...

23 Mar 08

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Mylot Username !

bluecrystal1982 @bluecrystal1982 (235) • Philippines 23 Mar 08

Hey, I just wonder how were you able to come up with your Mylot username. I am relatively new here and I would just like to know if did you have a hard time choosing your username. Well for me, yes I can say that I have quite a...

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gardengrrl Hi, bluecrystal1982! Sporty but fragile - that's very cool! I got my username from the drunks who used to hang out behind my first-floor apartment in the city. They would drink, talk, and (eventually) pee. I had a large container garden out there, so I would...

23 Mar 08

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My Brother is in the hospital -- dying at this very moment!

ladyluna @ladyluna (7004) • United States 22 Oct 07

Hello All, It is with a very heavy heart that I start this discussion. If I'm not my usual self, I beg your indulgence. My brother is 45 years young. Yet, he's not expected to live more than two weeks, probably less. He is...

goodbyes

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gardengrrl Hi, ladyluna, I just stumbled across this discussion today. I'm so sorry for your loss! How very like you it is to try and use your family's pain to prevent the suffering of others! I hope time has begun to work its insidious magic and ease your grief. There...

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Eli is all down hill from here

yanxchick @yanxchick (250) • United States 2 Dec 07

Well, I don't really want to believe it. In the Giants wins he has looked really good, but when they lose, he is downright awful. They got lucky to win against Detriot and just minutes against Chicago he has already thrown a pick....

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gardengrrl I didn't see your discussion earlier or I would have been right with you, wondering if "Easy E" was ever gonna grow up. He sure shut us up in the end, didn't he?

13 Mar 08

rescued animals

silke918 @silke918 (30) • United States 12 Mar 08

Tell me your rescue story! I never thought that I would be a dog owner until we went to the animal shelter that day. My boyfriend found a dog that he just loved and there in the cage with her was Joey, a terrier mix. I just had to...

dogs

pets

recued animals

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gardengrrl Oh, my..... which one? There's Sophie, the defective runt Basset Hound that I overheard a pet store mgr say they "could get rid of if it doesn't sell at $50, we got credit for it already"... or Larry, the big, rambunctious puppy headed for the pound...

12 Mar 08

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Rock & Roll? Hall of Fame?

ParaTed2k @ParaTed2k (22940) • Sheboygan, Wisconsin 10 Mar 08

Madonna is going to be inducted. Now, if it was called the "Music Hall of Fame", or "American Pop Culture Hall of Fame", then (even though I can't stand any of the music Madonna has ever made), I'd say she not only deserves to be...

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gardengrrl Funny you mention this, I was thinking just the other day that they need to change the name of the place. I'm all about recognizing talented musicians of any genre, but do we have to put them all in OUR hall of fame? I accept including forefathers like the...

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