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goldilox @goldilox (21) 31 Jan 07

Does anyone know when Pirates of the Caribbean World's End is going to be previewing in the UK please? And has anyone seen the trailer yet?

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goldilox Thanks recycledgoth - I'm sure it'll be hillarious - I can't wait! Shame it's only late summer. x

31 Jan 07

goldilox @goldilox (21) 29 Jan 07

My favourite part of The Secret is the end, when Rhonda writes the phrase in the sand that embodies what the entire movie boils down to: FEEL GOOD. Through all the analysing, discussing and debating on the Law of Attraction, I...

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goldilox Hi Achyuta Thanks for the reply :) When a person is doing the "wrong things" it won't feel good. It may feel like escapism, it may feel like distraction, it may feel like a power trip, it may feel like revenge, but it won't "feel good" in the context...

30 Jan 07

minerc @minerc (1373) • United States 28 Jan 07

Ive seen alot on spanking. Just thought I would ask what about sending them to there room? I have watched Dr.Phil and other parenting type shows, they say No don't because they will play they learn nothing, and other's say yeah it...

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goldilox Hi Cyndhirella How old is your son? Isn't 30 minutes to 1 hour too long?

29 Jan 07

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minerc @minerc (1373) • United States 28 Jan 07

Ive seen alot on spanking. Just thought I would ask what about sending them to there room? I have watched Dr.Phil and other parenting type shows, they say No don't because they will play they learn nothing, and other's say yeah it...

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goldilox Excellent point Kristypants!! I don't send my son to his room for punishment - I find using leverage like television or playstation time is much more effective - but it's also a very good point that the child could begin to associate their bedroom with...

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nexis777 @nexis777 (133) • United States 28 Jan 07

Do you think yelling at your children is ok? Why or why not? I tend to think yelling does more harm to a child than a properly given spanking, although it may depend on the personality of the child. As a child I far preferred...

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goldilox Hi Nicolai May I ask in what way you think you're a better and more disciplined person because of being yelled at and spanked?

29 Jan 07

nexis777 @nexis777 (133) • United States 28 Jan 07

Do you think yelling at your children is ok? Why or why not? I tend to think yelling does more harm to a child than a properly given spanking, although it may depend on the personality of the child. As a child I far preferred...

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goldilox Being spanked calmly can be more psychologically damaging than being spanked in anger. Inflicting pain in anger is bad enough, but inflicting pain in a calm manner is deliberate and calculated. Seeing someone who supposedly loves you, calmly inflicting pain on...

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nexis777 @nexis777 (133) • United States 28 Jan 07

Do you think yelling at your children is ok? Why or why not? I tend to think yelling does more harm to a child than a properly given spanking, although it may depend on the personality of the child. As a child I far preferred...

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goldilox Here's how Spanking and Yelling can affect the life of the adult that child will become: I'm going to use spanking as the example, but the effects of yelling can be the same. It's important to note that not every child will be affected in this way, and some...

28 Jan 07

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nexis777 @nexis777 (133) • United States 28 Jan 07

Do you think yelling at your children is ok? Why or why not? I tend to think yelling does more harm to a child than a properly given spanking, although it may depend on the personality of the child. As a child I far preferred...

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goldilox I believe that parents who believe that spanking and yelling is an acceptable and effective way of discipline, don't have any other effective tools. I also believe they are unaware of the fact that this method of discipline will change who their child becomes...

28 Jan 07

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