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guttoo @guttoo (17) • Canada 24 Apr 12

The best way to stay in a healthy relationship is to let go. Are you ready to let go of your partner to explore other relationships? It is, obviously, unhealthy to bind your partner and yourself to each other for an entire...

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guttoo Hey hey hey! U r getting personal. FYI, I am a woman, and I am in a committed married relationship, and my husband has no need to explore outside... Hahahaha... This is just a discussion board and not about citing anything personal. It seems that u are having...

30 Apr 12

guttoo @guttoo (17) • Canada 24 Apr 12

The best way to stay in a healthy relationship is to let go. Are you ready to let go of your partner to explore other relationships? It is, obviously, unhealthy to bind your partner and yourself to each other for an entire...

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guttoo Yes, this is one way of testing the real feelings. "If you love something, let it go. If it comes back, it's yours, if it doesn't, it never was". However, even if a man/woman is involved in two/three simultaneous relationships, and is honest to a great...

25 Apr 12

guttoo @guttoo (17) • Canada 24 Apr 12

The best way to stay in a healthy relationship is to let go. Are you ready to let go of your partner to explore other relationships? It is, obviously, unhealthy to bind your partner and yourself to each other for an entire...

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guttoo What happens when you have walked a certain length of time with a partner and you have both grown up apart? You are still committed in a relationship legally, but you find someone you are attracted to and fall in love? Love is not in our hands, it is a...

25 Apr 12

guttoo @guttoo (17) • Canada 20 Apr 12

Do you think you are happy? Or successful? Or both? Do you think your success is your measurement of happiness? Or is it inversely proportionate to happiness? I do not think success is directly related to happiness, and...

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guttoo Yes, you are right. Sometimes it takes so much effort to be successful that you lose your family time and your own peace of mind to pursue that. So we give up trying to achieve our level of success at some point. However, I feel, that having a considerable...

25 Apr 12

guttoo @guttoo (17) • Canada 24 Apr 12

The best way to stay in a healthy relationship is to let go. Are you ready to let go of your partner to explore other relationships? It is, obviously, unhealthy to bind your partner and yourself to each other for an entire...

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guttoo @guttoo (17) • Canada 21 Apr 12

When one is free from all earthy and material things, society doesn't matter to him/her, gives up one's career, passions, money, obsessions... to search beyond eternity and within oneself, can survive with just the basic needs......

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guttoo I tasted a time I got true freedom, freedom from the bondage of being a mother, a wife, a daughter, a professional, even being a human... u can read it here: "The Day I got lost" in kaberic.wordpress.com :)

24 Apr 12

guttoo @guttoo (17) • Canada 21 Apr 12

When one is free from all earthy and material things, society doesn't matter to him/her, gives up one's career, passions, money, obsessions... to search beyond eternity and within oneself, can survive with just the basic needs......

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guttoo Living within the society, if one abandons such mundane material things and lives a simple life with high thinking, often the peers think the person is 'cracked' and doctors would insist you have some kind of "depression' or "mid-life crisis', etc. However,...

21 Apr 12

guttoo @guttoo (17) • Canada 21 Apr 12

When one is free from all earthy and material things, society doesn't matter to him/her, gives up one's career, passions, money, obsessions... to search beyond eternity and within oneself, can survive with just the basic needs......

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guttoo Mid-life crisis is a phase in when the world views you as a successful person, but you begin to lose direction and purpose in life. Coupled with some external factors like increased debt or maybe loss of someone special, it leads you to start doubting your own...

21 Apr 12

guttoo @guttoo (17) • Canada 21 Apr 12

When one is free from all earthy and material things, society doesn't matter to him/her, gives up one's career, passions, money, obsessions... to search beyond eternity and within oneself, can survive with just the basic needs......

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CzarinaM19 @CzarinaM19 (115) • Philippines 19 Apr 12

I have these things that I ought to do before I turn into a certain age. I've always wanted to try Bunjee Jumping, cliff diving, surfing and lots of TRAVEL. Stuff I can do while I still have the stamina. I feel like life is too...

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guttoo All the very best to you to achieve your wish list! I envy YOU, that you still have so many things to do... I suggest, go slow, since it's a long life and you may not want to reach a stage like me, where you've done everything and won't have any wishes left......

20 Apr 12

guttoo @guttoo (17) • Canada 20 Apr 12

Do you think you are happy? Or successful? Or both? Do you think your success is your measurement of happiness? Or is it inversely proportionate to happiness? I do not think success is directly related to happiness, and...

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XxBaByBlaZexX @XxBaByBlaZexX (42) • United States 20 Apr 12

If you could get the chance to go back in time to one specific moment or descision and take that descision back or change that moment would you do that knowing your present life could be altared completly?

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guttoo This set me thinking. Yes, there was this particular defined moment in my life which changed my life completely. I was madly in love with a guy and built my dreams around him. I was at an age when u throw caution to the wind and think your life will be...

20 Apr 12

CzarinaM19 @CzarinaM19 (115) • Philippines 19 Apr 12

I have these things that I ought to do before I turn into a certain age. I've always wanted to try Bunjee Jumping, cliff diving, surfing and lots of TRAVEL. Stuff I can do while I still have the stamina. I feel like life is too...

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guttoo This is an interesting question and has set me thinking. I am 45 and had actually "Been there, done that" in most cases. Of course, I didn't do bungee-jumping or deep-sea diving, but I have done white-water rafting, rock climbing, trekking, camping and other...

20 Apr 12

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Muelitz @Muelitz (1592) • Canada 17 Apr 12

I am happily married with 3 beautiful kids. I have a permanent job in the Government and a lot of people say I am lucky. I recently was invited to a social networking web site called LinkedIn. I joined and was able to find some of...

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guttoo Hi, I can understand how you feel. We all go through this feeling sometimes in life. Actually, in reality, someone will always be more successful than another and someone will be less successful than another. You are right. When you know where you want to...

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HomeBase @HomeBase (1153) • United States 16 Apr 12

Years ago, a good friend of mine was totally in love with a guy, and he was in love with her too. Over the years they have grown apart. Also, over the years, she has put on a lot of weight, and does not look at all like she did...

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guttoo Of course they can find love. Love is not about the physical appearance, it's about knowing each other, looking at each others' eyes and body language and predicting that person's moods. It's not about how fat or thin you are, it's about knowing each other...

17 Apr 12

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