hestylim

@hestylim (1209)

Indonesia • Age 40

Joined myLot 17 years ago

Love, love, love and love

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Have you ever lost a best friend?

andrewbarclave @andrewbarclave (485) • Ireland 24 Apr 13

I have lost a couple at this stage and I find it's easier as I get older. I just figure if they aren't bothered chatting or whatever, then it just isn't worth it. I remember the first time this happened was with my very first...

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hestylim Hi Andrew, Yes, of course. I lost my best friends as I grow up. We just grew apart I think and things are different already. They just stopped talking to me and I think that it is not right for me to keep on dragging their tail. I have better things to do...

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Will you stay in a company with high salary but doesn't have a good management?

kijikiken @kijikiken (81) • Philippines 8 Apr 13

How can you work well in a company if your not happy with what you are doing anymore? I've worked as a secretary in a real estate company before. My salary is good but the problem is my Boss. He's from a country which cannot speak...

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hestylim Yes, you have made the right decision. At least, that's according to me. I never stayed in a job if that doesn't make me happy anymore. I struggled to find the better place for me to earn -- this means I wake up happily to go to work, and going home happily.....

8 Apr 13

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a new online currency called "bitcoin"?

kingparker @kingparker (9672) • United States 1 Apr 13

Hey everyone, did you ever heard about this new currency specifically for online use, I guess for online shopping and other purpose. It is a digital money, and as long as people permit it, and recognize it, it should be widely use...

bitcoin

currency

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hestylim I think it might be like Linden dollar on Second life.. Maybe it is used to generalized internet currency for online work or something..

2 Apr 13

Have you tried Centworkers?

edumate @rollylolly (2843) • India 19 Mar 13

This site is a micro-job site like Microworkers. You are paid via paypal when you reach $5. If you refer someone you get 0.10 cent and $1.50 when your referral reaches $100. If you are already there please share your experiences.

centworkers

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hestylim I just created account there.. Thanks for the info... I had microworkers account before, but I don't really like it.. but I will take a look at this site and see if I am going to like it.

20 Mar 13

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I Just Hate It, When People Don't Keep Their Word

TLilly12 @TLilly12 (1229) • United States 15 Mar 13

This guy had invite me, to go and visit some one that is sick, and he said he was going to be here at 12:00 noon, it is now 1:42 there is not need, in me calling him because he never, answers his cell phone, do you ever have to...

i just hate it

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hestylim Yeah, this is bad. Hmm, I once dealt with someone who let me wait for him for hours... = What I always do was cancelled the plan one side... Well, it's not my fault already. I waited not for minutes, but...

16 Mar 13

Earning as a writer at IWA

edumate @rollylolly (2843) • India 13 Mar 13

Recently I was recommended by a friend to join “I Want Articles”. I wasn't sure what the site would offer me as I was already working with many other sites. I registered free with her link and started exploring the site. It is...

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hestylim Hi rollylolly, Thank you for the info! I am trying it out now. By the way, how long have you been on that site?

15 Mar 13

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NO Smokes !!!!

mariaperalta @mariaperalta (19073) • Mexico 15 Mar 13

OMG a friend was going crazy because he had no cigarettes. Is that habit, that bad? I have never really smoked. Maybe one or 2 when I was a kid. But this guy smokes 2 packs per day. And as soon as the pack...

cigaretts

habit

smoke

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hestylim Because smoking is addictive for some people. I know people who act the way your friend acts. It is hard for them to stop, though in my opinion, smoking isn't fun at all.. :D

15 Mar 13

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haist... sometimes my mother is so annoying

missjahn @missjahn (4572) • Philippines 9 Mar 13

gosh, it is twelve midnight in here. and kindly know what is my mother doing at this very hour. she is having a laundry! what?! yes, washing clothes manually as she washed the soapy clothes in the faucet. grrrrrrr... all of us...

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hestylim I know that type of person. My late grandma was one of it. She still worked, even when she was 80 to 90.. She couldn't just sit idly and she would not listen to anyone who asked her to stop. Sometimes, it annoyed us. She would wash dish, even when we told...

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Finding it hard to earn extra money

TheDemonicAngel @TheDemonicAngel (699) • United States 8 Mar 13

So I have been working online for about 3 - 4 years now; I have joined sites that pay and joined sites that turned rogue; but none of the paying sites really gave me anything to really say "wow" about. The biggest payment I have...

extra

frustration

money

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hestylim Yeah.. I find it hard to earn extra too.. the best way is to find freelancer job, on freelancer sites. But that also needs time. It is not easy as well. But some people earn very well through sites like that..

8 Mar 13

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She's drying her hair in the Hand dryer! =P

chiyochan @chiyosan (30185) • Philippines 12 Feb 13

This neither a rant nor a rave, just sharing what i witnessed a while ago in the office. I went to a comfort room before i go to a meeting, then i saw this woman having troubles drying her hair in the hand dryer. =) i thought that...

dryer

hair drying

hand drying

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hestylim Actually.. I saw a lot of people washing her hair on the washing bin and then dry it on the hand dryer. Some people also dry their eating utensils using hand dryer. Lol... I saw those things in my former working place. But I never did it. I found it very...

17 Feb 13

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Signed my first publishing contract this week!

koopharper @koopharper (7597) • Canada 7 Feb 13

Been AWOL for awhile, in case the gang here has been wondering where I've been at. Just busy with life. Call centre stress has me feel to withdraw from humanity sometimes too. I signed a contract with Ink n Beans Press this...

novel

publishing contract

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hestylim Wow! Congrats! :) I just published my E-book via smashwords. I hope it sells well too.. ^.^ It is my very first Ebook. I wish I will get some publishing contract too.. :D

7 Feb 13

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Money is esay to spent

jricky1 @jricky1 (6796) • China 5 Feb 13

I realize one thing is that money is quite easy to spent and it's also not easy to earn enough for you.So this made me realize that i should not wasted it and spent wisely.What do you guys think?

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hestylim Yes, you are right.. Money is hard to earn but it is so easy to spend.. ^.^ When you know how hard to earn money, you will start using it wisely.

5 Feb 13

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okay so basically

arielpaige @arielpaige (257) • United States 27 Jan 13

I've always kept an open mind, but I feel my mind is opening and expanding more and more as each day passes. I feel like I just keep changing; I'm molding myself into the person I want to be; the person I'm supposed to be; the...

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hestylim I don't think it is weird. I think it is completely normal. :) Love yourself is a must, because none will do it better than you do. Loving yourself and becoming someone you want to be is a gift, I can say. Because not everyone can do that kind of thing....

28 Jan 13

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Would you marry a bad woman?

valorieesquilona @valorieesquilona (442) • Philippines 24 Jan 13

We produced a play production written by a Filipino contemporary playwright. The play is about a bi**h who was raped by her father and traded by her mother to the wh*re house. I played the role of the main character and in order...

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hestylim I think, there are some men that will marry them. If the man loves her enough, he would want to drag her from that dark place. Love is unpredictable and sometimes it is so not logical...

25 Jan 13

Intimidated

edvc77 @edvc77 (2140) • Philippines 12 Jan 13

Some people are just intimidating. They would look at you from head to toe and look at every action you've done and they would have some bad facial expressions or at times won't react and listen to you while you are talking. And...

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hestylim Yeah, I experienced being intimidated by people. What I do when I got intimidated, just let it be. I will pull away and do nothing to them. I just ignored them, mostly. People say that I am stupid to react that way and I should have stand out for myself.....

12 Jan 13

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Facebook gives me a shock

nikkygupta @nikkygupta (48) • India 11 Jan 13

Today i am very upset because my fb account has disabled due to some postings. I believe i have not posted anything for a long time. I just answer my massages and like what seems good to me. I have not made any stupid comment....

facebook

friends

online

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hestylim Well, it happens to me several times, too. I posted status on groups and then there was notification appeared saying that misused the feature and I got banned for couple of days from posting. I don't really understand what happened because it didn't last...

11 Jan 13

Turtle walks so slow...life will be slow if they are your pets.

Shavkat @Shavkat (141969) • Philippines 5 Jan 13

It is nice to have turtle as pet, but in my house it is not possible. My parents are traditional, they believed that if you have pet like this; your life will be slow too. They are emphasizing the slow pace of walk of this...

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hestylim Hahaha.... I have turtle as pet and I don't think that it makes my life goes slow. It goes fast, sometimes I don't even realize that time has fly.. ^.^ I think slow or fast your life will be is depend on you... :)

5 Jan 13

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Why Put Everyone In A Box??

Jennifer @LovingMyBabies (85780) • Valdosta, Georgia 20 Dec 12

Okay, I cannot stand when people say all of this or that are the same... Not all women like to shop! I don't! Not all men like sports! My husband HATES them with a passion! Not all over weight people eat too much! Not all...

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hestylim wow, you sound so angry. I got your point.. I hate people who like to judge others, too. Sometimes people are just too busybody and what you can do is ignore them. Like what you said, they don't know you, yes. So, just ignore them. You don't...

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Poetry: The Importance of Something Mundane?

SinfulRose @SinfulRose (3519) • Davao, Philippines 17 Dec 12

[i]I was browsing around this morning for my old account in GaiaOnline. I was looking for something else yet I saw another thing. This free style poetry that I've written years ago. Now that I've read it, I could hardly believe...

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hestylim Your poem is good.. I like it. :) Keep doing what you do.. Future is uncertain, yes. But, you should face it anyway. I feel the things you express on this poem. So, the one and only thing we can do is be the best we can in every second of our lives.. :)

17 Dec 12

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What is baby blue? Is it a kind of psychological illness?

riani2009 @riani2009 (581) • Indonesia 8 Sep 09

Once I have ever heard this term but I am not quiet understand. One of my friend doesn't really like to take care her baby because she looks stress with her baby. Moreover, her husband is not getting along well with her. So, she...

baby blue

care a baby

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hestylim I don't know about it. I am wondering about this thing too so I did some research about it but I don't really get complete understanding about it because I just do online researching. It said that baby blue can be vary depends on a mother's mental...

2 Dec 12