himlaks

@himlaks (10)

India • Age 58

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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"Peace on Earth can still be Possible..."

mysiraylon @mysiraylon (1102) • United States 16 Feb 07

Thirsting very often where not even the best brand named mineral water can resolve it, and whatever amount or frequency of a full glass it may have won't be enough. Each time to move one step finding an answer results with a more...

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himlaks Yes, it can be possible when all people become saints and forgo material happiness. But it is difficult to convince each and every person to leave all their ambitions and goal in their life. As buddha said, "Forgo your wishes and be happy". I think this is...

17 Feb 07

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If you could change one thing about your life, what (if anything) would it be?

rosie_123 @rosie_123 (6113) 14 Feb 07

Imagine you were granted one wish, to make your life easier, simpler, and more enjoyable - please tell me what it would be? Would you wish for a better job, or more money so you could give up work completely, or perhaps you are...

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himlaks If I am granted a wish I would opt for a professional education and then go for a good job which I would enjoy doing whole heartedly.Why I am saying is that at present, I am doing a job which I don't like.I am helpless now as I couldn't continue my studies or...

15 Feb 07

Disciplining your kids.

madtownsweety @madtownsweety (418) • United States 14 Feb 07

Do you discipline your kids? What forms of discipline do you use? I had to disicpline my daughter the other day, I have a pole lamp and she was hanging on it acting like a monkey and snapped it in half. I was very angry. I took...

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himlaks You did the right thing as children should be disciplined in the young age.So don't feel guilty for punishing your daughter.Sometimes we, as parents need to be harsh on certain issues.Mould your mind to handle such situation as this is the first step in...

15 Feb 07

Please never give up hope

weemam @weemam (13372) 14 Feb 07

My youngest son was born with Cerebral Palsy almost 27 years ago, we had two older boys they were 15 and 17, We were told he wouldn't live and if he did he would probably be a vegetable, He now has his HND in computing and doing 2...

cerebral palsy

so smart

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himlaks That's wonderful to know about your miracle child.You are a great parent!!! It must be a tonic for those parents who are undergoing this type of problems. I would encourage such parents to come forward and write their problems and the miracles they had...

15 Feb 07

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Do Schools In Your Area Teach Finances

villageanne @villageanne (8553) • United States 12 Feb 07

I was volunteering at the food pantry and was amazed at the conversations about checking accounts. Many of the clients had overdrawn their checking account over the holidays. Many said they always overdraw before payday. Years...

finances

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himlaks If the developed country's condition is like this way, just image the conditon in under developed countries, where primary education is itself lacking.When they don't know to read their name how will they manage to balance their check.So along with their...

13 Feb 07

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Did your parents make mistakes when raising you?

awonderfullife @awonderfullife (2893) • United States 12 Feb 07

It seems many people blame their parents for things that have gone wrong in their life. Or they'll say they want to raise their kids differently than they were raised. Of course no parents are perfect, but do you parent your...

family

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himlaks It is true that we, as parents do many mistakes while raising our first child.Once we realize that mistake it is wise to avoid when you raise the second child.I have noticed that unconsciously we carry the same mistakes which our parents did to us in the...

13 Feb 07

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India - Where 'Life Is Beautiful' !

lifeisbeautiful @lifeisbeautiful (461) • India 11 Feb 07

I apologise that this is going to be a long post from me. I also apologise, that this might not look like a 'topic of discussion' as such, and most of you might not find anything useful in it. It is just that today is a holiday,...

india

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himlaks That's interesting to know about India, which was a very underdeveloped country long ago.But now you can find drastic changes among the middle class people who are trying to reach the upper class through their hardship.As you said the weaker community people...

12 Feb 07

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do you think that women now a days are much smarter than guys?

shugar014 @shugar014 (27) • Philippines 20 Dec 06

for my own opinion..not really,Even though i'm a woman.i dont agree on that.I also didnt say that guys are much smarter that the ladies but i think it all depends on the knowledge of each individual.But what i have notice is that...

woman man

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himlaks I think if you have knowledge and the smartness to lead a life it doesn't matter whether you are a man or woman.Ah!! there are certain exemptions too. In certain countries or certain communities women are considered as weaker section and thus denied even the...

12 Feb 07

How do you keep yourself attractive both physically & mentally to other people ?

akumei1269 @akumei1269 (1749) • India 11 Feb 07

To my dismay I have felt that I am not interesting to other people . This feeling is reinforced when I find my private message button blank(no new message coming). I think , so far mylot is concerned my discussions are boring...

smartness

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himlaks When people lose confidence all negative feelings starts pouring in and make us more depressive.So the first point is don't lose confidence.Secondly, keep a big smile on your face while meeting people. Don't take your life so seriously,lead a very casual way...

12 Feb 07

Why does a person give you their cell phone number but never respond?

kgwat70 @kgwat70 (13387) • United States 8 Feb 07

I am curious to know why someone would give you their cell phone number but whenever you call they do not answer, they do not return your call, and do not text message you or anything. I have this friend who keeps asking me to...

call backs

cell phone number

phone numbers

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himlaks Maybe too shy to talk or maybe some sort of psyche who enjoys receiving calls. The other reason, maybe, she is a very busy person who is trying her level best to keep contact by giving her no. but unable to attend the phone due to her busy lifestyle.

9 Feb 07

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1 person