ibcandy2

@ibcandy2 (40)

United States • Age 50

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I am hurt with the way my friend make jokes with me!!!

Bebs08 @Bebs08 (10681) • United States 14 Jul 08

Did you experience to be hurt by a friend's joke? I end up crying because I was upset,hurt and mad at the way he made jokes with me. He left an offline message asking for apology. I;m still upset of what he did. Sometimes, too...

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ibcandy2 This has happened to me so many times that I lost count. How did I deal with it? I have a super smart mouth and I use it when necessary. People will treat you however you let them treat you. If they know that they can make jokes about you and you dont say...

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Do You Snore And Is It Normal?

Daddy Neil @neildc (17238) • Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines 14 Jul 08

I am not sure if snoring is really normal for people. Some people say that if you snore, you may have been from a very tiring work. Some says you maybe sick inside? I myself not sure if I snore at night but my wife says I...

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ibcandy2 I do snore. I snore loud enough to wake the neighbors actually and it is pretty embarrassing but I snore because of medical reasons. I have adnoids which are supposed to go away when you are a baby but mine never did and I would need to have surgery to rectify...

15 Jul 08

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Should I stay or go?

ibcandy2 @ibcandy2 (40) • United States 14 Jul 08

I need some advice. I think I know what to do already but I am not 100% sure. ok. I have been dating this guy for almost 3 years now and he is a good guy. He doesnt drink or smoke and he is excellent with my son. The problem is...

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ibcandy2 I know. It is a bad sign written in plain english that I didnt want to read but I knew it was there. I read the sign now and I know it is time for me to leave. You try to give people chances and time to make adjustments and when you see small changes being...

15 Jul 08

Should I stay or go?

ibcandy2 @ibcandy2 (40) • United States 14 Jul 08

I need some advice. I think I know what to do already but I am not 100% sure. ok. I have been dating this guy for almost 3 years now and he is a good guy. He doesnt drink or smoke and he is excellent with my son. The problem is...

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ibcandy2 You are right. I do need to move out. Honestly, I should have moved out a long time ago but I wanted my son to have a dad and I thought I was in love. I do love him but I am not in love with him, I am just attached. I know if I leave, I am not going back. It...

15 Jul 08

Should I stay or go?

ibcandy2 @ibcandy2 (40) • United States 14 Jul 08

I need some advice. I think I know what to do already but I am not 100% sure. ok. I have been dating this guy for almost 3 years now and he is a good guy. He doesnt drink or smoke and he is excellent with my son. The problem is...

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ibcandy2 I think that you are 100% right. There are slim pickings out there so I think I am just going to be in pursuit of myself and my son for a while....I am tired of people taking advantage of my kindness.......

15 Jul 08

Should I stay or go?

ibcandy2 @ibcandy2 (40) • United States 14 Jul 08

I need some advice. I think I know what to do already but I am not 100% sure. ok. I have been dating this guy for almost 3 years now and he is a good guy. He doesnt drink or smoke and he is excellent with my son. The problem is...

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ibcandy2 What is so funny is that I like sports. I even play basketball and work for a sports channel but that isnt the only time that I want to be able to spend with him. I shouldnt be living with someone who is gone when I get home from work and I dont see them until...

15 Jul 08

Should I stay or go?

ibcandy2 @ibcandy2 (40) • United States 14 Jul 08

I need some advice. I think I know what to do already but I am not 100% sure. ok. I have been dating this guy for almost 3 years now and he is a good guy. He doesnt drink or smoke and he is excellent with my son. The problem is...

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ibcandy2 Thank you so much. Who would have thought that wanting to spend a little time with your significant other would lead to the dissolve of a relationship???!!!???

15 Jul 08

Should I stay or go?

ibcandy2 @ibcandy2 (40) • United States 14 Jul 08

I need some advice. I think I know what to do already but I am not 100% sure. ok. I have been dating this guy for almost 3 years now and he is a good guy. He doesnt drink or smoke and he is excellent with my son. The problem is...

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ibcandy2 He should be used to having a family. He has never lived alone whether it be with a girlfriend, or his daughters mother or with his family. He had just gotten out of a relationship a few months before we got together. I guess I just dont understand that if he...

15 Jul 08

Should I stay or go?

ibcandy2 @ibcandy2 (40) • United States 14 Jul 08

I need some advice. I think I know what to do already but I am not 100% sure. ok. I have been dating this guy for almost 3 years now and he is a good guy. He doesnt drink or smoke and he is excellent with my son. The problem is...

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ibcandy2 I agree that leaving him forever is the smart thing to do. If I didnt have my son and all these financial ties with him, I think I would have left a long time ago. It is very painful to live with someone who says that they love you but everything comes before...

15 Jul 08

Should I stay or go?

ibcandy2 @ibcandy2 (40) • United States 14 Jul 08

I need some advice. I think I know what to do already but I am not 100% sure. ok. I have been dating this guy for almost 3 years now and he is a good guy. He doesnt drink or smoke and he is excellent with my son. The problem is...

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ibcandy2 I know that it isnt going to change. We spoke last night and I told him that he put me in a compromising position because I love him but he is the exact type of person that I never wanted to date. This morning I think I decided that I dont even love...

15 Jul 08

Should I stay or go?

ibcandy2 @ibcandy2 (40) • United States 14 Jul 08

I need some advice. I think I know what to do already but I am not 100% sure. ok. I have been dating this guy for almost 3 years now and he is a good guy. He doesnt drink or smoke and he is excellent with my son. The problem is...

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ibcandy2 It sounds simple that is for sure. One of my friends told me that I am not in love, that I am just attached. Honestly, I have always been the one if I see drama then I will leave but I made some stupid financial decisions while with him and I know I couldnt...

15 Jul 08

Should I stay or go?

ibcandy2 @ibcandy2 (40) • United States 14 Jul 08

I need some advice. I think I know what to do already but I am not 100% sure. ok. I have been dating this guy for almost 3 years now and he is a good guy. He doesnt drink or smoke and he is excellent with my son. The problem is...

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ibcandy2 You are both right. I do know what I need to do. I just feel like I am stuck right now because we have a lot of financial ties together that I know I wouldnt be able to handle on my own, or atleast right now anyway. I feel so stupid. I am just such a giving...

15 Jul 08

Should I stay or go?

ibcandy2 @ibcandy2 (40) • United States 14 Jul 08

I need some advice. I think I know what to do already but I am not 100% sure. ok. I have been dating this guy for almost 3 years now and he is a good guy. He doesnt drink or smoke and he is excellent with my son. The problem is...

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ibcandy2 I have a bad feeling too. I mean he has turned into the exact kind of man that I have always tried to avoid. What is funny is that he has a 5 year old daughter but he barely spends time with her. She comes over every other weekend and he sees her maybe an hour...

15 Jul 08

Should I stay or go?

ibcandy2 @ibcandy2 (40) • United States 14 Jul 08

I need some advice. I think I know what to do already but I am not 100% sure. ok. I have been dating this guy for almost 3 years now and he is a good guy. He doesnt drink or smoke and he is excellent with my son. The problem is...

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Should Mobiles Phones be BANNED from Colleges???

mtsandeep @mtsandeep (1586) • India 13 Jul 08

I am in my final year Automobile Engineering. Last week my mobile was taken away from me by our college authorities. I got it back after 1 week. Mobile phones are banned in our college. [b]Should mobile...

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ibcandy2 As a college student and a parent, i think it is crazy to ban cell phones at school especially colleges. Last time I checked, If you are in college than you should be an adult and should be able to do whatever you want to do. I know that there was a concern...

14 Jul 08

After marriage, do guys still can go out with friends?

yenwie84 @yenwie84 (1344) • Malaysia 14 Jul 08

I think some of the guys out there are facing this problem. One of my friends whose wife is very pampered always restrict my friend from seeing his friends,even just normal guys' gatherings. His wife always check on him and just...

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ibcandy2 I cant stand when people get married, they think that they "own" their spouse. That isnt how it works. I feel like if the person was hanging out with friends before the marriage and she was cool with it, he should be able to still hang out and she be cool with...

14 Jul 08

money or happy family,which is more imporant in life? please share

successlog @successlog (3172) • China 12 Jul 08

every one know money is almost omnipotent in our life.But when it is compared with a happy family we have, which is more precious? we should be honest and serious to answer this question,not playing at it. Thanks for all my...

every one know money is almost omnipotent in our l

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ibcandy2 Wow....this is a tough one. Honestly, I think a happy family is more important because money comes and goes. I mean dont get me wrong, money makes me very happy personally but just because I have it doesnt mean that I am happy with life. It just means that I...

14 Jul 08

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Why is it that I am only always wrong ?

ketybhagat @ketybhagat (4123) • India 11 Jul 08

Its soo frustrating. Everythime I try telling my son to do something, the father and son will gang up on me and tell me I am wrong. If I tell hm to study, he will tell me its his life and his father will tell me in front of him...

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ibcandy2 I really do hope that I dont upset you when I say this but your husband is bogus. There is no way that he should be undermining your authority expecially not in front of your child. If he has a problem he should pull you to the side and talk to you about it...

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should i still feel like this?

graceandowen @graceandowen (1637) 13 Jul 08

my father left when i was 3 years old and we have been back intouch for about 2 years now, i still get really upset tho that he left and i think to myself im being pathetic, im nearly 25 have a familly of my own and yet i stil...

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ibcandy2 I hate to tell you this but I dont think you will ever get over it. When you experience a tramatic situation, you never forget it. Sometimes, when time passes, it starts to get easier to put those feelings on the back burner but your case is different. You...

14 Jul 08

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