idlemind

@idlemind (13)

Bahrain

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No one wants to hear it from others

Always smiling @allknowing (153627) • India 16 May 10

We all have a tendency to run ourselves down by admitting we are skinny,we are old, we are fat, we are dark or whatever but if someone else points it out we bring the whole roof down. When we do not like to hear it from others why...

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idlemind I think it stems from the fact that all of us need a bit of reassurance...either due to our own insecurities or maybe a bit of low esteem...when i say "i am fat" to you...i would rather you to tell me..no you arent fat... just a bit rounded... :) but when u...

16 May 10

lies

idlemind @idlemind (13) • Bahrain 16 Mar 10

How do you think your life would be affected if you could never ever LIE? (not even white lies)

lie

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idlemind I agree 100%..white lies are integral part of our social lives....a survival instinct perhaps...to escape unpleasant situations. Thanks!

3 Apr 10

lies

idlemind @idlemind (13) • Bahrain 16 Mar 10

How do you think your life would be affected if you could never ever LIE? (not even white lies)

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idlemind Interesting perspective..thanks

3 Apr 10

lies

idlemind @idlemind (13) • Bahrain 16 Mar 10

How do you think your life would be affected if you could never ever LIE? (not even white lies)

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idlemind So true. thanks

3 Apr 10

Do you know what Lipsticks contain?

achilles2010 @achilles2010 (3051) • India 2 Apr 10

Do you know Lipstick contains lead and cow brain tissue. Now that you know this, would you still apply it on your lips?

lipstick

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3 people

idlemind Yes. I was in receipt of one such email that is in circulation abt the hazards of using lipstick and how the lead in the lipstick can cause cancer etc. Infact the email even had a list of brands that supposedly had a higher percentage of lead. However there is...

2 Apr 10

Intelligent women.

Always smiling @allknowing (153627) • India 1 Apr 10

Why do men prefer women who are intelligent - because opposites attract! Your comments please.

intelligent women

relationships

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idlemind I think it is a wrong perception that men go in for women who are intelligent. Generally, it is seen that men are intimidated by intelligent women....they prefer their women to dumb down their intelligence rather than put it on display...especially when they...

2 Apr 10

lies

idlemind @idlemind (13) • Bahrain 16 Mar 10

How do you think your life would be affected if you could never ever LIE? (not even white lies)

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Does life contain happy endings?

gogierm4ge @gogierm4ge (398) • United States 13 Mar 10

Does life contain happy endings? Or is it you die and nothing special happens? Is there a rebirth, ghosts, heaven, hell, etc?

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idlemind Depends on ones perception / definition of "happy ending". Generally we judge the ending as a sad or happy ending based on how we feel and not on what actually happens. Death may not be what we imagine it to be and the process of the end could be far removed...

13 Mar 10

Do you give others advice you yourself should be following?

beutfulmama6701 @beutfulmama6701 (1718) • United States 12 Mar 10

I have heard people say in the past practice what you preach. And i have mentioned that to a few people myself. The thing is i often find myself giving people advice and when giving it to them i am only saying it because i believe...

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idlemind I think it is not always possible to practice what we preach. When we dispense advise, we do it as an impartial observer but when it comes to self we have our own emotions clouding our rationality and we come up with justifications as to why our own advise for...

13 Mar 10

What is the biggest lie in LOVE???

tonysati @tonysati (49) • India 21 Feb 10

In this 21th century, everything starts with a lie and ends with a let... I think the work LOVE, i.e I LOVE YOU is also a lie. Only those people will be also to comment on this you will not think from BRAIN but whoo will...

lie

love

relation

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idlemind The Biggest Lie in love in this 21st century is that it is supposed to be unselfish. But the truth is We love someone because they make US feel good. It is because WE ARE happy to be around them and do all that we can to keep them with us. The word LOVE is...

23 Feb 10

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Do you find that no matter how much money you give someone

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 21 Feb 10

theyu are never satisfied and they always want more even if you have no more to give them.Well i have found that out and from now on no more money is my answer as that way perhaps they will look back and see what they have had and...

appreciate

going without

money

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idlemind True. The more we give the more ppl expect out of us and it is not only in just money but in everything., and the worst thing is that if we refuse..we are accused of being selfish and we are lead on a guilt trip for refusing. Not many understand the sacrifices...

22 Feb 10