ivyrainy

@ivyrainy (29)

China • Age 42

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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How COMMITTED are you to your own ideas and values?

Denmarkguy @Denmarkguy (1845) • United States 27 Apr 07

Many of us have a pretty good sense of what we want, and where we are going in life. We have ambitions, desires, wishes, goals, personal values and so forth. We may have a vision of the sort of career we want, what kind of...

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ivyrainy This is really a good question. We have to compromise to the reality many times in the world. We can't do everything as we want, we can't get everything as we want right? This is the reality,the god told us.so we have to work harder and harder in order to get...

27 Apr 07

I am Going Crazy!!! Friends who ask too much of you....

princeworthy @princeworthy (1909) • United States 26 Apr 07

You may have noticed that I am sporadically on mylot now. The reason is I have this friend and she is always asking me to do things for her. It has gotten worse and I am going crazy! I have tried saying no but she will just ask...

favors

friend

help

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ivyrainy Try to tell her what you are thinking now, and if she is your good friend indeed, I think she will understand.Everyone has his own life, even the family members need their own spaces. It's not strange or difficult to understand ,so please try to talk with...

26 Apr 07

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What can you say about this?

nurhoney @nurhoney (1123) • Philippines 25 Apr 07

Most people say that you cant say your COMPLETE as a woman if you haven't been through the all the stages in pregnancy and give birth to a baby. I have heard from people saying that the only way that a woman can pay back(not...

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mother

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ivyrainy It is quite true in some cases,but it's not true in any case. As my experience,i know a woman who is too poor to arise a baby. But she still gave birth to the baby.After she born the baby,she left the baby away as she can't arise him. I think the most...

25 Apr 07

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Are you Afraid to be Different?

nancygibson @nancygibson (3736) • France 25 Apr 07

Do you worry if you like clothes that are not in fashion, or want to do things that the rest of the crowd don't want to do, or do you rejoice in your individuality, being proud of the little things that make you unique? How far do...

be an individuual

dont be a sheep

follow the crowd

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ivyrainy I would like to be myself.I won't follow fashion if i think it's not the right type for me. I think everyone should has his individuality,it's important for us human beings in the world. Because no one can be precisely the same.

25 Apr 07

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If you see someone begging for money on the street how do you react?

whywiki @whywiki (6066) • Canada 23 Apr 07

I admit that when I see them and I am in a bad mood I will cross the street to avoid them. Other times I politely tell them I have no spare change. Some times I ignore them and pretend I didn't hear them. Other times I will spare...

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ivyrainy I will do the same thing with you. Sometimes the begger are just detest,they get along with you for a long time just in order to get money even you said you have no spare change. This is really a bad thing!

24 Apr 07

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Cats are the most amazing creatures..............

rosie_123 @rosie_123 (6113) 23 Apr 07

As most of you will know, I am a big cat lover, and many of my friends here will have been following my story of my kitten Lily, and her fight for survival after a horrendous accident. Well this post is not about Lily at all -...

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ivyrainy This is really a incredible story! I can hardly believe it! But it is true right?! The cat is so excellent. I never adopted any animal before, and i don't like keeping animals in house either, because i think it is dirty to keep them in house. But i may try it...

23 Apr 07

Is chinese going to be like English??!

Augustta @Augustta (1850) • Poland 19 Apr 07

A friend of mine which don't make never something for free said that chinese is one of the must learn langueges! At first i thought he was joking but he was damn serious. I know him. He is one of the people who never do...

chinese and english

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ivyrainy Hey come on friends! Chinese is not that difficult to learn. There are many Europeans who are good at Chinese right?! Once you try it, you can do it. Please believe in your talents. And,is Chinese going to be like English? This is a good question. China is a...

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Working Mom, Do we have to be guilty of not being with our kids often?

pinks0da @pinks0da (328) • Philippines 18 Apr 07

I am a working mom and my work is making me extra busy, go to work early and come home late at night. At first I thought this was just okay, I conditioned myself that I am doing this for the future of my family and my 2 kids. As...

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ivyrainy Please don't feel guilty. You are a good mon, I think. All the things you do are just to give the best life to your children. I think they will understand when they become older. And , as you have noticed this already, you can try to spend more time with your...

19 Apr 07

Are you honest with others even if it will hurt them?

crazynurse @crazynurse (7482) • United States 17 Apr 07

I was sitting here thinking about the ramifications of total honesty. Do you realize how often it hurts the other person if you are totally honest with them? Are you always honest...even if will hurt the other party? For instance,...

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ivyrainy I am not always honest especially in this case. If i think it will hurt and it isn't very important, i won't tell him the truth. As the example you said,i won't say it is not good on them. This is not important,why should i say the truth to hurt them? Why...

18 Apr 07

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Is this guy hot or what?

theponch @theponch (198) • United States 17 Apr 07

Makes you wonder what a woman does look for in a man. The attractiveness? The way a man behaves? the way he might treat his partner? The contributions he makes to a family? The person he makes you feel like? The consistency is his...

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ivyrainy I think he is hot. my boyfriend is tall, handsome and careful. He really understands how to care about people and how to make people happy. He is also confident and hard-working. He doesn't have any bad hobbies. So I love him very much.

17 Apr 07

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Where do you come from?

easy888 @easy888 (10405) • Australia 3 Mar 07

Just like to know where did you guys come from?? What do you think your hometown? Are you thinking of moving to other cities,why?? And what is you ideal city to live in? I am in Sydney, with alot of beaches and sunshine,it...

life

sydney

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ivyrainy Sydney!what a good city! How i hope i could go there one day!I' m from China, and i wish to go many places and travel alot when i was young,the city which i want to visit the most is Hong Kong,but till now i still don't have any chance to go there.I wish i can...

11 Apr 07

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How would you react to a friend like this?

tammyr @tammyr (5946) • Etowah, Tennessee 8 Apr 07

I had a friend, I'll call him David (‘cause that is his name!). David fell of the cliffs near our home and broke his back. I was not there but figure he was drunk. I was helping him out by doing his errands for him. I was doing...

feelings

friends

stealing lying

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ivyrainy I do support you. All you have done are right.A friend like Mimi is not a friend indeed.And I won't make friends with someone like her.

9 Apr 07

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What brand of cellphone are you using?

wjc0123 @wjc0123 (69) • China 10 Feb 07

What brand of cellphone are you using? NOKIA, SONY, TOSHIBA or other brand? My cellphone is NOKIA-QD, a smartphone. I think the smartphone is as useful as PDA today. Do you think so?

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ivyrainy A good topic! I am thinking about buying a new cellphone these days. I decided to buy NOKIA. I like NOKIA N73 and E65 very much, but they are too experience for me to buy. I'm waiting them to go down prices so I can buy one.

9 Apr 07

Tips you can give to ease labor pain...

AVirtualAssistant @AVirtualAssistant (57) • Philippines 5 Apr 07

It's my 9th month on my third baby. My youngest is already 4 and a half year old. So, it's been that long since my last delivery. I still can remember the pain i've gone through which was horrible. I never knew where all that pain...

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ivyrainy I am a young girl and I have never experienced this.I see people labor in TV and it was very terrible.Is is really so horrible and pain to labor? I scare.

6 Apr 07