jalapenos789

@jalapenos789 (47)

United States • Age 39

Joined myLot 17 years ago

Thou shalt not procrastinate

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the death of a child - why does god allow it?

plddre79 @plddre79 (161) • United States 17 May 09

children die every day - accidents, war, starvation, diease. why does god allow such suffering. you can find the answers in the bible!

death allowed

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jalapenos789 This does not only apply to children, but people in general. I think God has thrust upon us responsibility. We must accept that and take it as it is.

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Self publishing.........?

Queenperk @Queenperk (192) • United States 17 May 09

Does anyone know how to get self published for free? Or cheap?

books

self publishing

wirtitng

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jalapenos789 Try Lulu.com Not sure, but I think it's free for E-Books however if you want hardcopies, it'll cost you.

17 May 09

Anyone play the guitar?

BloodShyne @BloodShyne (792) • United States 16 May 09

I'v been playing for about a month an 1/2 both electric and acoustic(Electric guitar is my prefrence),Though I wish to learn both, my finger tips are just starting to get used to it they're peeling and caluosing which when trying...

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jalapenos789 I play guitar but I like acoustic better. I just like the natural sound it produces, not to mention it's much more mobile compared to an electric guitar.

16 May 09

Mind maps, the best way to study?

alvingb @alvingb (265) • Singapore 16 May 09

Is mind maps the best way to study and remember things? I have heard many people and infact lecturers say that the best way to study is mind mapping. is this true? are there any other ways to study and remeber informations?

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jalapenos789 It really depends on the person. Everyone has different methods and styles of studying and almost anything works, it just depends WHO. Some people are visual learners, others listeners, and some are physical learners and have to do hands on...

16 May 09

For a person you love deeply, would you be willing to move to a distant country?

joeshmo3000 @joeshmo3000 (46) • United States 16 May 09

Even if you knew that there would be little chance of seeing your friends or family again? I would. Love is a very powerful thing, and can make people do weird things. (Not that moving to another country is weird)

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jalapenos789 I wouldn't move for a loved one, even though it's very hard not too. If I did, I'd be leaving so much more behind. My family, friends, for a totally new environment. More importantly, I'd be putting my life on hold, my career. I think the most important...

16 May 09

Do you ware slippers in your home?One for house, others for bathroom?

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 16 May 09

Or maybe you ware just shoes, or socks.?My question is, how many of you remove your shoes prior to entering your home and for what reasons? Do you know that if you don t ware your shoes in the house you remove 50% from dust in...

questions

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jalapenos789 Very fluffy slippres :) Make my feet all warm. I usually keep the shoes right inside my house, right when I walk through the door. I'm strongly against wearing shoes in the house, I guess I was just raised like that. After hearing from you about the dust...

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Loaning money to a friend....

chadandtia @chadandtia (21) • United States 15 May 09

So I have this couple that I am friends with and have been for a few years. They were going through some hard times and needed to pay some bills so I loaned them money. He tells me that he is going to pay me back and then he...

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jalapenos789 Hey, I really think you should take this up to your friend. I think your friend sort of wants you to take this to him, so he/she could have a reason to start this conversation. Not sure if you said anything when they spent all their money on gym...

16 May 09

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having a graduating problem...

tawavoyz @tawavoyz (5) • Philippines 15 May 09

a had a very big problem of how to graduate... every time i have a chance to study or having my examination everything gone's worse. I forgot my things, im coming up late at school. And the last having a bad day a a house that...

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jalapenos789 It's really about yourself... Believe me, if you really tried to get to class on time, do your homework, study, confine yourself, and force yourself to sit down... Then you can do it. It's all on you. You can do it if you want to do it, and if it's...

15 May 09

Have you found ways that make forgiveness easier?

PeacefulWmn9 @PeacefulWmn9 (10420) • United States 15 May 09

They say: to err is human; to forgive is divine. When someone does you a terrible wrong, do you forgive easily, or does it come hard for you? Have you found ways that make forgiving yourself and others easier? Thank you for...

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jalapenos789 I find that when I'm at the decision at forgiving someone, it's very hard. The feeling is unbearable. It's as if someone is asking if they could rake half my heart out, and ask me after they've done it. But from past experience, I know that forgiving is not...

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Modern student without a Bag

dhawanbm @dhawanbm (3705) • India 15 May 09

It has become a trend to carry laptops to everywhere you go especially the school going children are more of using them for studies and homework too! Whereto is the young generation heading to, is the e-revolution or something...

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jalapenos789 I don't really see this as a bad thing. I do it all the time as well. It's a lot more organized then having loose papers in a binder or that sort. It also helps people who have hand-writing that's not very legible. I encourage the use of laptops, if you can...

15 May 09

Interratial dating

classicelfryoko @classicelfryoko (109) • United States 14 May 09

What do you guys think about it? Do you know people who are in a interratial relationship or have biratial children? I ask this because I am a biratial child myself. I am half black, and half filipina and a tiny bit of Irish...

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jalapenos789 I think interracial is fine, and I encourage it. We shouldn't be limited to who we date, make friends, and love. I'm half asian and half white, and I've dated outside of those two as well. People sometimes might look at you differently but it doesn't really...

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Do you like to eat sunflower seeds?

SomeCowgirl @SomeCowgirl (32189) • United States 15 May 09

I loved to get the treat of sunflower seeds, they are so delicious salted. When I was younger we would get this treat when going to the dollar store, it was one of my favorite things and it satisfied my appetite. I haven't had...

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jalapenos789 Sunflower seeds are good, I must admit... But from experience they get worse as you start eating them. They make my lip burn and tongue gets a weird feeling. I just go with the peanuts when I'm in for a snack. Head to Safeway and grab a can of honey...

15 May 09

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I 'm not good enough...

HelScream @HelScream (2822) • Philippines 14 May 09

Just come to realize that I was never good enough to be love or to be a friend with anyone. I think I am not good enough to be love by anyone. The person I love is on the verge of letting go I cant force that person to stay and...

letting go

love

saying goodbye

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jalapenos789 You already have your answer. You'll give it to her if she wishes. I don't understand why you think so deeply and so much. You already made your decision to do what she wishes because of your love for her. Leave it that way and don't think about it....

14 May 09

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my best day ever.

shreekrishna @shreekrishna (402) • India 13 May 09

today i get paid from 1 ptc site ,\ site ::: mangoclicks & i earned my first dollar on my lot in few days of joining. mylottere earnings :: $1.12 , i also found such websites which has very very low payouts &...

mangoclick is not a scam

my 2nd payment

my earnings

thanks mylot

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jalapenos789 Sounds nice, gratz. Few bucks every week doesnt hurt :)

14 May 09

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global warming - is planet eart in peril?

plddre79 @plddre79 (161) • United States 14 May 09

increasingly, media reports tell us that unless we act now, global warming may cause significant climate change with potenially dire consequences for us and our environment. should we be worried? let's hear your opinion?

global warming

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jalapenos789 Uhhh... No brainer? Yes we should be worried. This is the biggest war that we as humans are fighting. Not WW1, WW2, the Cold War, global wars. No. This is the largest global crisis the human race has ever faced. If we do not act quickly... Yes, NOW. Then...

14 May 09

how fast of the computer at last?

fwangaa @fwangaa (3057) • China 14 May 09

if you just type words to computer, the fast will never be improve by your slow typing. but there is no good software for you to write word in the computer. most of persons in the world are typing words to computers. if we talk...

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jalapenos789 Ewwww, This doesn't even appeal to me if it was possible. That'd just be strange, I mean, I can't see myself as a statue. Who knows what we could do with that technology anyways...

14 May 09

Which is your most memorable moment in your life..

johnmathew2009 @johnmathew2009 (178) • India 14 May 09

Everybody has a memorable moment in life..This is a place to share that..Please be free to share your experience here...Mine I tell is obviously whe I got the first kiss from my gilfriend...

experinces sharing

girlfriend kiss

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jalapenos789 To bad not all memorable moments are good ones, haha. As I look back, I realized it was when I left my first love. Simple thing she needed I couldn't give, heh. Been awhile. Hope you and your girl can keep it going.

14 May 09

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what is your nickname in day of defeat?

jonasman @jonasman (24) • Portugal 14 May 09

mine is cavacuz.pt what is yours?

day of defeat

videogames

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jalapenos789 Hey, I play DoD occasionally, too! My steam name is 'SirAqua' Hope to see you!

14 May 09

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What do you feel about friends intruding into your privacy?

Frederick42 @Frederick42 (2043) • Canada 14 May 09

Friendship we believe to be something very wonderful, but do you like it if your friends intrude in your privacy?

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jalapenos789 Sometimes there are just those kind of friends who are like those friends that are family. For example, have you ever had someone who could just see through you or feel an aura of happiness when you're joyful or grim when your sad? Those friends just can't...

14 May 09

Does day dreaming help?

dhawanbm @dhawanbm (3705) • India 14 May 09

Its all imagination when we do day dreaming, well daydreaming takes us off our immediate goal. But incidenttly a persons mind wanders here and there in search of answers for what he seeks in factual life. As a matter of interest...

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jalapenos789 I've gone out of this "zone" before. Not sure if it was day dreaming, but I didn't like it. My mind seemed to wander into a different dimension, and as soon as I came back in "our world" I felt this jolt of pain throughout my body. It was uncomfortable....

14 May 09

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