jassybok

@jassybok (21)

Malaysia • Age 64

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Your prayer that has been answered

iceblizzard @iceblizzard (749) • Philippines 5 Sep 08

Is there a moment in your life that you prayed and it has been answered? Please post it so other will know, and it will strengthen out our faith in God.

faith

god

prayers

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jassybok Everyday I pray to seek forgiveness from God, pray that God will help me in everyday life. I pray that God me good health, good friends and good job. NON OF PRAYERS BEING answered.

6 Sep 08

can a marriage work after someone cheated?

Jenny40 @Jenny40 (30) 5 Sep 08

Now here's a question for anyone who's married or indeed in a long lasting relationship. If you found out your partner had cheated and they were totally sorry, and said it was a mistake etc., etc....and promised it would never...

relationships

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jassybok Once you discovered that you have been cheated, the feelings wont be the same again. Although your partner will seek forgiveness from you, you may be in doubt, or on in other words you may still remember what he/she have done previously. As for me once you are...

6 Sep 08

Are you tailored to suit your job?

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 5 Sep 08

One wonders whether there is such thing as job satisfaction. Very few seem to have found the job they want or like. People are dissatisfied, they have very little choice, usually taking what is available as a matter...

job satisfaction

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jassybok I am not satisfied with my current job. But what should I do?? Quit??? I got no choice. Life have to go on.

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My son being bullied by 13 students !!!

jassybok @jassybok (21) • Malaysia 26 Aug 08

My son is staying in a hostel in one of the top boarding school in my country. He called me early morning. " Mama, please come and take me . I am being bullied by my hostel mates. Please come as soon as possible. They punch and...

school bullies

at what age did you become less concerned with makeup?

freefogging @freefogging (356) • United States 25 Aug 08

When I was in my teens and early 20's I piled on the makeup. I wouldn't go anywhere without makeup on and my husband hadn't seen me without make up. Then into my 30's until now (I'm 42) I could care less about makeup,My husband...

ageing

makeup

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jassybok When I am in my teens and twenties, my makeup is very heavy. I look gorgeous!! That was the comments I received from my colleagues. After having my two kids, I have no time, even to put up a lip gloss. I realised my husband is looking at me with one eyes only....

26 Aug 08

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I am a fool watching movies

jassybok @jassybok (21) • Malaysia 26 Aug 08

I like to watch movies/TV during my free time. But nowadays I feel that the stories in the movies fool me a lot. Some stories in the movie is just like cartoons. (Then might as well you watch cartoons.) The way the stories are...

movies

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How do you think of islamic women?

Flouya @Flouya (283) • India 20 Aug 08

As far as i know, in islamic country ,the man can marry four women at the same time. However, i learned that islamic women seem have no complain on it. I have met a Iranian girl,she said that's Allah's will. I am confused,why...

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jassybok Many people have the wrong perception with the muslims especially muslim's marriage. As for my opinion culture and religion is two different things. Not all muslim in this world are like that. No matter what religion you embrace there is the good and the bad...

20 Aug 08

Is it true that passion fades after marraige?

mycharm88 @mycharm88 (2288) • Philippines 15 Aug 08

For my married friends here, please share your views on this... I talked with my friend yesterday and she told me that "believe me, passion fades after you get married"...she explains that you will really get to know the real...

love

marraige

passion

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jassybok Yes.. All your true colours will be revealed.. You know exactly what and who your partner is. Staying in one roof may either be a good one or either wise. Good if your partner accept who you are or he/she get bored and just walk off.

15 Aug 08

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Do you save on what you eat?

yenwie84 @yenwie84 (1344) • Malaysia 13 Aug 08

Do you save money by limiting on what you eat daily? I saw one of the staffs at my workplace,she always eat instant noodle in cup during lunch time. I ever asked her the reason. She told me that she wanted to save money on food....

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jassybok Eating noodle everyday is not a good habit anyway. You can control your budget but not to the extent that you have stop or cut like that. We work to earn a living. We have to live with at least a balance diet. Not noodles everyday. Eat your favourite food with...

14 Aug 08

AGE doesn't matter?

pinkista @pinkista (892) • Philippines 13 Aug 08

Do you believe that age doesn't matter? Is it okay for you to have a relationship with the oppositive gender younger or older than you? Or did you find it awkward when you saw these people sweet to each other, hanging out...

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jassybok Yap!! Age doesnt matter. Age is only a figure. But what matters is that when the lady is much older than her partner. When the lady reach the age of menopause and the man still leads an active life style. For man life starts at forty and woman ??? Have to...

14 Aug 08

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Why do not I like to kiss my wife?

snebxu66 @snebxu66 (379) • China 14 Aug 08

Before marriage or 2 years after marriage, I very much like to kiss my wife, but now I really do not like that, not because I do not love my wife nor my wife's mouth smell bad, she is the kind of cleanliness. Why that? Does...

kiss

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jassybok Sneb, I am facing similar case like you. Before marriage I like to kiss my huband. But now after years of marriage I am not in a mood to do that. Reason??? I dont know. Maybe its just natural that we dont like to do that stuff any more. May be yes.. Or may be...

14 Aug 08

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Opening Packages

valeria1 @valeria1 (2721) • United States 13 Aug 08

How is your patience when comes to open packages of anything? I lived in USA for a long time to know that they have the hardest and most complicated way to open something. Sometimes you are in the middle of cooking and you are...

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jassybok I am not a patient person. i just rip off with what ever I have in my hands. Or anything or tools that I can see next to me that i can use to rip it off...

14 Aug 08

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Am I a born Loser ???? !!!

jassybok @jassybok (21) • Malaysia 14 Aug 08

When I recall back what I have done in life, all is in a mess. Sometimes when I wake up in the middle of the night I feel that I am worthless. And sometimes I don't know who I am. I start working at the age of young. With 10 years...

born loser

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Place that I have worked

jassybok @jassybok (21) • Malaysia 12 Aug 08

Over 9 years I have been working with this organisation. I have had enough of it. Its up to my nerves. I feel demotivated, stress and my career gone. I can't tolerate the office politics anymore. Maybe someone may just say that...

office politics

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jassybok Thanks for sharing Sudalunts. I have quit my job. I rather find other jobs rather than I got stressed and later may get an heart attack...The world is round. One day he may get it and feel the same way as I felt.

14 Aug 08

Place that I have worked

jassybok @jassybok (21) • Malaysia 12 Aug 08

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How do you react when somone copies your mylot discussion and post in other site

smilyn @smilyn (2967) • United States 12 Aug 08

Today I recieved a message from one of my mylot friends and I was astonished to read it. He had sent me a link to yet another site wherein one of the mylot user has just copied my own discussion and reposted it. He has just...

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jassybok Well Smilyn, thats normal in real life situation. Dont be too upset. I had worst than that too. My proposal was copied and submitted for the same project that I applied. At first you'll get angry that your effort being used by someone. Just bear in mind. Life...

12 Aug 08

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I've been a wife for two years now. Give your suggestions how to be a good one.

hayashane27 @hayashane27 (153) • Philippines 12 Aug 08

Being a wife is not an easy task, it's more than that. It entails a lot of duties and responsibilities. I am not a perfect wife but i'm striving to be one each day, if not good enough for my husband. Since nobody is perfect. To...

good

suggestions

wife

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jassybok Yes , being a wife is not an easy task. And to be a good wife is not that easy too. I think lets take this way. Just do what we have to do. The main thing is that you just have to perform your responsibility as a wife. The rest of it let natures take its...

12 Aug 08

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Do you believe in Tarot Card Readings?

phillygirl606 @phillygirl606 (1112) • United States 11 Aug 08

So yea when I was a teenager I use to get my palm read and my cards read, but I haven't in a really long time. Well this lady was nice enough to read my mom's cards for free, not once but 3 times last week. She basically told my...

readings

tarot cards

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jassybok I have the experienced too of getting my palms read and my card read and things like that. Sometime it comes out true enough and sometimes it didnt turn out as what you have been told by the tarot card reader. A year ago a Tarot card reader told me that my...

12 Aug 08

what makes you irritated?

kaezy_kulet @kaezy_kulet (2465) • Philippines 10 Aug 08

are you always irritated in a specific thing? what is it? why did this thing irritates you? I am irritated with mess and noise..it is hard to clean a house you know especially if you have a big house..and a big lot..cleaning is...

irritated

mess

noise

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jassybok Irritated??? I really get irritated when someone or my neighbours parked their cars in front of my entrance gate. I really feel "STRESSED" when I was just about to start my car to work and found that my way is blocked. I have to hon several times and only then...

11 Aug 08

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