jhoeydas

@jhoeydas (7)

Age 48

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Dreaming

annabel_nov @annabel_nov (85) • Philippines 22 Jul 10

i have this dreams for the past months already and i kept on dreaming of it. I dreamed that my husband left me for another woman, though, i caught my husband's philandering, but, that was before. i used to dreamed of it also, but,...

dreaming

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jhoeydas Well, they say your dreams are your greatest fear. Maybe you have to let go of the past and start dwelling in the present. If things go wrong again, then let it be as long as you know in your heart that you've done your part as a great wife and more so the...

27 Jul 10

Friend Addicted to S*X

arabgirl28 @arabgirl28 (165) • United States 27 Jul 10

I have a friend who is addicted to S*X. He had gone through 2 marriages. He is a nice looking man with a great personality. He is never satisfied with what he has. It scares me. I am fraid he will get a disease and sooner or later...

good looking man

marriage

pig

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jhoeydas Hi arabgirl. I suggest he take a vacation somewhere else, help him divert his attention to much more important things in this world. I guess, it's never bad to do it, but with the right partner and at the right place and time and above all, there must be love....

27 Jul 10

Do U believe in Long Term relationship with your Partner ???

sunnycool @sunnycool (12714) • India 26 Jul 10

Typical teens fall in love at the age of 18 and then they decide to tie the knot at the age of 20 you gotta spend the rest of your life with someone you loved which shouldn't be shocking for you.Is it that spending rest of...

living with the same person for 80 years

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12 people

jhoeydas Well strong and pure love means, falling in love over and over again with the same person. Flaws are not seen and should not be a threat to a wonderful and faithful love affair. Love can't be measured by age nor time or existence, only love determines its...

27 Jul 10

Unknown, private, nothing .... do you answer?

mommyboo @mommyboo (13174) • United States 26 Jul 10

When you get an incoming call that shows on your caller ID as unknown, private, or comes up as nothing, do you answer? Do you screen, ie let it go to your voicemail and listen to the message if there is one? My question is...

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3 people

jhoeydas If it posts an unregistered no. i normally don't answer it. especially if i'm not expecting a call. I believe that if i don't take it, and the call is important, the person will send a message informing yours truly of his/her intention. Sometimes, people...

26 Jul 10

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Controlling your emotions like anger

harryds @harryds (48) • India 16 Jul 10

According to researchers like Paul Ekman (who is the author of the great book emotions revealed) an emotion can happen in our mind within a fraction of a second. It is said that great saints and yogis controlled their...

mind emotions anger fear

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jhoeydas Emotions can, almost all of the time ruin someone's decisions- even sanity. If you'll closely look at it, it will manipulate the whole of 'you' if you will allow it. Controlling would require a lot of practice, but I don't term it as 'controlling' the emotion....

18 Jul 10

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to be or not to be a nurse...?

pentagan12 @pentagan12 (757) • Philippines 17 Jul 10

In life, there are a lot of confusing roads to choose from. It's really hard that we have to take a risk for every decision we make. Nowadays, I am really totally confused about what I would really want to do. I am a registered...

job

nurse

teacher

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jhoeydas It is natural to be confused. But confusion works for fear and destruction. It stops you from getting the real view of life. If you are not keen enough to determine your own purpose, it will lead you to the biggest camouflage of your life. You will be stuck...

18 Jul 10

why do u find yourself unique?

hushi22 @hushi22 (4927) 15 Jul 10

people say individuals are unique. hmmm...im wondering what made myself unique. what about you mylotters? do u find yourself unique? why?

unique

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jhoeydas You are not just "averagely" unique..you are extremely, totally, undoubtedly unique...every one is :) We are created with lots of similarities, could be in physical, our principles, our actions, or our aspirations et cetera. But each of us has a different life...

15 Jul 10