joysantos

@joysantos (131)

Philippines • Age 38

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Rebound Relationships

joysantos @joysantos (131) • Philippines 12 Nov 10

I have a friend who is a victim of this. She fell in love with a guy who recently broke up with his girlfriend for 4 years. They dated and eventually became partners. But as the relationship progresses, the guy still yearns for...

love

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3 people

How do you deal with stress?

joysantos @joysantos (131) • Philippines 11 Nov 10

After 8 hours in the office, dealing with a lot of people. Doing office works. When you got home you feel tired. The next day, you had a deadline to meet. Often times we are stressed out with the situation. I often get stress out...

stress

5 responses

How often do you get unsolicited advices?

joysantos @joysantos (131) • Philippines 11 Nov 10

Often times, we encounter people who loves to give advices even though we are not asking for them. Sometimes they happen to be helpful. How often do you get unsolicited ideas and advices?

advices

4 responses

How will you deal with a pessimist person?

joysantos @joysantos (131) • Philippines 11 Nov 10

I've been sometimes like this. Instead of thinking of positive outcomes, I am thinking of the negative ones. But often time I am an optimist person. I've been encountering some people who are often times pessimist. And no matter...

optimist

people

pessimist

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2 people

Will you still marry your partner after knowing he only have a year to live?

joysantos @joysantos (131) • Philippines 11 Nov 10

I've been amazed with a friend of my co-worker here. She married her boyfriend even after he was diagnosed with the Big C. Amazing love story of unconditional love. How about you, will you do the same?

life

love

unconditional

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1 person

A Love Triangle

joysantos @joysantos (131) • Philippines 11 Nov 10

You love him. He loves you. But he also love someone else. How will you deal with it? And what if it is the other way around. He loves you. You love him. And you also love someone else?

love

triangle

4 responses

Anyone who wants to have a European cruise?

joysantos @joysantos (131) • Philippines 10 Nov 10

I've been dreaming of this travel ever since. I want to travel a lot. And for my honeymoon, I really want to have a European cruise with my future husband. But too sad that I can't because of our tight finances. But if i do get...

tour

6 responses

Soft music makes me calm

joysantos @joysantos (131) • Philippines 10 Nov 10

How about you? do you find it comforting when listening to music?

music

6 responses

Will you sacrifice the friendship because you fell in love with your friend?

joysantos @joysantos (131) • Philippines 10 Nov 10

This scenario often happens to those who are friends for years. The guy fell in love with the girl and vice versa. But sometimes, feelings are left unspoken because of the fear that it might destroy the friendship. If you're put...

friendship

love

sacrifice

4 responses

Will you sacrifice your heart for your best friend?

joysantos @joysantos (131) • Philippines 10 Nov 10

What if you fell in love with a guy/girl. And upon seeing your best friend, she/he told you that she/he's in love. And pointed the same guy you're in love with. the guy knows both of you and is friends with both of you too. Will...

friends

love

relationship

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1 person

What will you buy with you Christmas bonus?

joysantos @joysantos (131) • Philippines 10 Nov 10

Christmas season is fast approaching. And we, who are employed are so excited for our Christmas bonuses, I am planning to save it for our house renovations and gifts. How about you, what will you buy with your bonus?

bonus

christmas

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1 person

How helpful facebook is for you?

joysantos @joysantos (131) • Philippines 10 Nov 10

Facebook has helped many people communicate with their old friends. I am very much thankful for it helped me communicate with my friends and long lost acquaintances. How about you? How did Facebook helped you?

facebook

friends

3 responses

First Love never dies, fact or not?

joysantos @joysantos (131) • Philippines 9 Nov 10

This is a sequel with one of the discussions I made. I just want to know your reactions with this belief. Is it really possible to love your first ever love even though your not together anymore? Will the love remain?

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1 person

Love that's not meant to be

joysantos @joysantos (131) • Philippines 9 Nov 10

How will you deal with your ex who constantly send you messages even if you two are now committed with someone else? I've got a friend who's ex is constantly sending her messages, who goes to their house and all.

love

5 responses

Unconditional Love

joysantos @joysantos (131) • Philippines 9 Nov 10

I was touched with this movie. It amazed me how unconditional love can make someones world go round. Loving someone not necessarily means you need to be always reminded that they love you too. Most of the time, actions speak...

love

5 responses

Success in a career or Love?

joysantos @joysantos (131) • Philippines 9 Nov 10

What if your just a step away from what you want with your career, like you will be promoted as EVP, you have a very loving boyfriend, a stable career. Suddenly, you found out that you're also pregnant. And it says in your...

career

love

5 responses

What is your greatest achievement in life?

joysantos @joysantos (131) • Philippines 8 Nov 10

I've been given a chance to finish my studies while working. I've considered having my college degree and landing a good job my greatest achievement in life. I've been able to help my parents in the process.

achievement

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1 person

Love is a give and take relationship.

joysantos @joysantos (131) • Philippines 8 Nov 10

I always believe that in order for a relationship to succeed, it must be a give and take cycle. But as the years pass by, I believe that you will not always wait for what you've given to be given back if you really love a person....

love

relationship

sacrifice

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1 person

Twilight Saga

joysantos @joysantos (131) • Philippines 7 Nov 10

I've first watch Twilight before reading the book. And upon reading it, I've noticed that it is much descriptive in books than in movies. Do you think it is much better to read books than watch the movies?

twilight saga

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1 person