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cynicalandoutspoken @cynicalandoutspoken (4725) • United States 19 Mar 09

Like any smoker hasn't heard that a hundred times from their doctor. But this time I'm pretty sure the cardiologist meant it. I was told I am the healthiest 30 year old female smoker my cardiologist has ever seen. So of...

smoking

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jtownesquire Spark: I'll rearrange the budget to account for another ticket to Jamaica. Keep up the great advice!

24 Mar 09

cynicalandoutspoken @cynicalandoutspoken (4725) • United States 26 Mar 08

Sounds like a stupid question doesn't it? At least I think it is stupid but it is a decision I may find myself making here sometime in the very near future. To save you all the gory agonizing details I will sum it up to say...

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jtownesquire Spark: Perhaps you will be able to explain to her better than I have the full ramifications of her decision. I have told her, in absolute complete honesty, how I feel about this. I prepared myself early in our relationship for the fact that she would not be...

27 Mar 08

Sparks @sparkofinsanity (20471) • Regina, Saskatchewan 21 Mar 08

Do you consider it good manners to criticize, then rationalize your criticism, of your loved ones in public, on public forums, or anywhere else for that matter, that removes the expectation of privacy between you and them? Let...

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jtownesquire I am on my way. Besides, why do I have to come home to get naked? I could get naked in the car on the way home! That might make for an awkward entrance though....depending on who is presently in the house! Yeah, I'll wait until I get there. I Love You too.

26 Mar 08

Sparks @sparkofinsanity (20471) • Regina, Saskatchewan 21 Mar 08

Do you consider it good manners to criticize, then rationalize your criticism, of your loved ones in public, on public forums, or anywhere else for that matter, that removes the expectation of privacy between you and them? Let...

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jtownesquire Sparks: You were addressing me in your comment about "points". I fail to see how that remark was intended to mean anything other than I have failed to "gain" any "points". Unless, that is, you were simply referring to your MyLot rating....which raises a...

26 Mar 08

Sparks @sparkofinsanity (20471) • Regina, Saskatchewan 21 Mar 08

Do you consider it good manners to criticize, then rationalize your criticism, of your loved ones in public, on public forums, or anywhere else for that matter, that removes the expectation of privacy between you and them? Let...

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jtownesquire Cyn: While your interjection is appreciated, it is unnecessary. It is quite clear that certain people will find any way to twist and read posts to support their beliefs. Whether that be for the good or bad. I would expect nothing better.

26 Mar 08

Sparks @sparkofinsanity (20471) • Regina, Saskatchewan 21 Mar 08

Do you consider it good manners to criticize, then rationalize your criticism, of your loved ones in public, on public forums, or anywhere else for that matter, that removes the expectation of privacy between you and them? Let...

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jtownesquire Spark: Not looking to "gain points". In fact, Bella made her remarks personal by indicating that she knows me and lost any respect, etc... As such, she has opened the door to me to also use outside personal information. Again, the parties reading these...

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Sparks @sparkofinsanity (20471) • Regina, Saskatchewan 21 Mar 08

Do you consider it good manners to criticize, then rationalize your criticism, of your loved ones in public, on public forums, or anywhere else for that matter, that removes the expectation of privacy between you and them? Let...

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jtownesquire I know I am late to this particular discussion and I do not have the time I would like to reply in the manner I would prefer to the various posts (having a life and a job and all causes these inconveniences), but I do have a moment and feel the need to add at...

26 Mar 08

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jtownesquire @jtownesquire (104) • United States 20 Mar 08

It's a simple question. Are you the person you claim to be? Do you tell people things that aren't quite true to make yourself look better? Do you outright lie? Do you claim experience or background that isn't true to...

lies

online

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jtownesquire I think your experiences are a large part of the issue. If people do lie and you ultimately convince someone that the lies are true....wouldn't it stand to reason that if you met the person/people, the resulting recognition of the lies would be even...

21 Mar 08

jtownesquire @jtownesquire (104) • United States 20 Mar 08

It's a simple question. Are you the person you claim to be? Do you tell people things that aren't quite true to make yourself look better? Do you outright lie? Do you claim experience or background that isn't true to...

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jtownesquire Absolutely.

21 Mar 08

jtownesquire @jtownesquire (104) • United States 20 Mar 08

It's a simple question. Are you the person you claim to be? Do you tell people things that aren't quite true to make yourself look better? Do you outright lie? Do you claim experience or background that isn't true to...

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jtownesquire Unfortunately, a forum such as this is not well suited to a "good" debate as it requires an constant monitoring of posts. Something, which I have no time to do. Oh, to be able to do nothing but spout my wisdom and intuitiveness online. I regret the joy and...

21 Mar 08

jtownesquire @jtownesquire (104) • United States 20 Mar 08

It's a simple question. Are you the person you claim to be? Do you tell people things that aren't quite true to make yourself look better? Do you outright lie? Do you claim experience or background that isn't true to...

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jtownesquire "Anal retentive prat with no sense of humor"...of course, how silly of me to think that was an attack. As for you defending my SO, trust me, she is more than capable of doing that for herself. But, oddly enough, I didn't attack my SO or anyone else in this...

20 Mar 08

jtownesquire @jtownesquire (104) • United States 20 Mar 08

It's a simple question. Are you the person you claim to be? Do you tell people things that aren't quite true to make yourself look better? Do you outright lie? Do you claim experience or background that isn't true to...

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jtownesquire I guess you could have taken your own advice and just skipped this post. And yet, you seem compelled to insult and then claim...no attack intended.

20 Mar 08

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bellaofchaos @bellaofchaos (11538) • United States 20 Mar 08

Ok my question is do you live with someone who's morals are so high that there is no way for anyone to succede in reaching them around that person? Do they have black and white areas only for the people around them and shades...

high morals

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jtownesquire I wonder too. Well, let us wonder no longer..... I have high standards in certin areas. I made that clear from the very beginning. There are things which are black & white. I will not and can not change my view of that simply to meet what others...

20 Mar 08

jtownesquire @jtownesquire (104) • United States 20 Mar 08

It's a simple question. Are you the person you claim to be? Do you tell people things that aren't quite true to make yourself look better? Do you outright lie? Do you claim experience or background that isn't true to...

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jtownesquire The question(s) were posed to try to find out what the point of lying online is. Why do it. Even if you are some 400 pounder. That is who you are. Why lie about it. Why tell people you work a great job if you in fact sit at home. Isn't part of taling to people...

20 Mar 08

jtownesquire @jtownesquire (104) • United States 20 Mar 08

It's a simple question. Are you the person you claim to be? Do you tell people things that aren't quite true to make yourself look better? Do you outright lie? Do you claim experience or background that isn't true to...

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jtownesquire Interesting response, but I fail to see how it addresses the questions raised.

20 Mar 08

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cynicalandoutspoken @cynicalandoutspoken (4725) • United States 19 Mar 08

That makes no sense does it? Well to me it doesn't. This isn't the first time I have had this happen. I have fallen so blindly in love with someone and everything in our own little world has been picture perfect and then some...

love

respect

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jtownesquire First of all, I don't hold myself out to be a saint. And, if you will recall, I have always held the same standards since we first met. You didn't seem to mind them then. You are the one who now feels my standards are too high. Not because I or they have...

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cynicalandoutspoken @cynicalandoutspoken (4725) • United States 19 Mar 08

That makes no sense does it? Well to me it doesn't. This isn't the first time I have had this happen. I have fallen so blindly in love with someone and everything in our own little world has been picture perfect and then some...

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jtownesquire Cyn: I will post this once and only once. I love you MORE now than I did before. I don't (and won't) love the fact that you consider your desire to flirt with people all the time a "trait" of yours. I respect you too much to engage it that type of activity....

20 Mar 08

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