jwidman3

@jwidman3 (27)

United States • Age 43

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Why do people judge you before knowing you??

hoodblock86 @hoodblock86 (84) • United States 4 Oct 10

I think that its crazy to judge someone before getting to know someone.Just because someone dont dress the same as you or do the things that you like to do dont make them a bad person and thats just how i feel.What do you think??

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jwidman3 People who make flash judgments are more concerned with themselves than with other people.

4 Oct 10

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There's no way to make others understand your point of view...sometimes...

nclaudio @nclaudio (13) • Puerto Rico 4 Oct 10

Some times I feel like my bf don't understand some situations of our relationship. It has been 7 years and at this days is a complicate case. HE always wants to have the reason. I think this is a big deal cause there is no way to...

complicate

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jwidman3 I'm sorry you're having a difficult time. Sometimes it helps to understand the differences in how men and women communicate, that can go a long way in understanding each other's point of view.

4 Oct 10

flees

cplwidman @cplwidman (5) • United States 4 Oct 10

Could anyone tell me what is a good product for getting rid of flees? I have tried everything from flee sprays to flee pills and nothing seems to work well. any-thing you could suggest would be most helpful.

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jwidman3 Someone told me that adding nutritional yeast to the dog food helps. Don't know why that would work though.

4 Oct 10

should we always believe what others say..?

chayapathys @chayapathys (2111) • India 1 Oct 10

I have been frank throughout my life and particularly in my youth I used to believe every one under the impression that they were telling the truth and what was in their mind.As I grew and in experience with men and matters I...

good luck

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jwidman3 I think you should trust a person until they prove to you that they can't be trusted. Otherwise you're not giving anyone the benefit of the doubt and people will see that you are suspicious and those that are trustworthy will be offended by your lack of...

1 Oct 10

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Do lovers see?

ubermensch @ubermensch (136) • Philippines 15 Sep 10

"But love is blind and lovers cannot see." These is a famous word being written by the famous William Shakespeare. This words can be found in his work The Merchant of Venice. The following are the lines: Jessica: Here, catch...

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jwidman3 True love sees and loves anyway.

30 Sep 10

love and trust go hand in hand

kailah @kailah (36) 30 Sep 10

Do you believe that love and trust go hand in hand? How do you feel if your special someone says he/she loves you but can't trust you? What would you feel if you've been honest, loyal and faithful and pleasing your special someone...

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jwidman3 Sometimes when a person has been hurt in a relationship by an untrustworthy person it takes them a long time to heal and a long time to find the ability to trust anyone again. You're right, love and trust are essential for a healthy relationship and when...

30 Sep 10

Communication.

tambrand1960 @tambrand1960 (26) • Trinidad And Tobago 30 Sep 10

I think that the key element in a relationship is communication. Once couples communicate with each other on a regular basis they can resolve issues before it reaches crisis stage. If any one agree or disagree, share with me.

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jwidman3 I agree, but I would add that the type of communication is important. A couple can sit down and have a civil conversation where they each carefully express themselves and they each carefully and attentively listen to the other. This type of communication...

30 Sep 10

Pevert

tambrand1960 @tambrand1960 (26) • Trinidad And Tobago 30 Sep 10

You recently found out that your best friend is sleeping with his daughter, what will you do? will you confront him or will you observe him over a period of time. I am faced with this problem, and I do not know how to deal with...

pevert

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jwidman3 Go to the police and then confront him and tell him you've reported his activity to the authorities. Tell him how you feel about what he is doing. It might also be good to see what you can do to see that his daughter gets help. She's been through a lot.

30 Sep 10

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College drop out.

laion10 @laion10 (46) • Mexico 29 Sep 10

Do you think that a person who right now is on college, but is failing despite all his efforts, should drop out?

college

school

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jwidman3 If you are trying everything that might be available to you such as tutoring, study groups and conversations with your teachers and you are still failing then perhaps taking a break is appropriate. It could be that you have too many irons in the fire and...

29 Sep 10

New parent

cplwidman @cplwidman (5) • United States 27 Sep 10

I have only been a parent for six months now and Life is changing daily does it ever slow down?

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jwidman3 Buckle up, its a wild ride. Let's enjoy every minute of it.

29 Sep 10

Do you really have to say thank you??

saphrina @saphrina (31551) • South Africa 28 Sep 10

This is probably such an awesomely stupid question. So when you are done laughing and all that goes with it, please feel free to show me how stupid this is. Whether you are married or just in a relationship, do you thank your...

love and thank you

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jwidman3 I think it is always good to show appreciation to the ones you love. You should share with them how you feel about them and the things that you appreciate about what they contribute to your life. Does their love mean anything to you? Then you should tell them....

29 Sep 10

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Do you have to go to church every Sunday to be a Christian?

kaeleya @kaeleya (80) • United States 26 Sep 10

I have had many debates on this subject to be a Christian or not to be one. I have heard that if you do go to church every Sunday you are and if you don't then you are stilling trying to be a Christian. I would love to know what...

christian

church

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jwidman3 Going to church doesn't make you a Christian any more than going to a car dealership makes you a car. Being a Christian means accepting Christ's work of salvation for you and maintaining a close relationship with Him. Part of maintaining that relationship...

29 Sep 10

Does Wisdom Come From God or Mistakes?

bestboy19 @bestboy19 (5478) • United States 27 Sep 10

Where does foolishness end and Godly wisdom begin? Can wisdom be taught or is it only through mistakes that wisdom is gained? Should a man seek his own counsel to show God what he can do when times are tough or shun the teachings...

wisdom

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jwidman3 Wisdom, as indicated by the verses you quote, must be actively sought after and actively given by God. A person can make mistakes and never learn if he never realizes his mistakes, desires to change and then seeks out the lesson that results. Also, a person...

28 Sep 10

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Willing to live in a rented house for all your life?

ktosea @ktosea (2026) • China 27 Sep 10

I got curious about the thoughts that how many people could endure to live in a rented house for all his/her life.since nowdays people are facing with more challenges and burdens,especially the price of the house is extremly high...

house

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jwidman3 Although there are definite advantages to owning a home and so forth, I think ultimate satisfaction should come from relationships not property ownership. I'd rather share a home with the man I love, whether rented or owned, than live in a mansion with someone...

28 Sep 10

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If you could live in any other period of history...

Phaedra_Scythe @Phaedra_Scythe (3325) 27 Sep 10

I like to fantasise about being an ancient warrior queen or a courtly lady in beautiful dress, but in reality, the persecution and oppression at every level and in every stage of history would have been appalling to me with my...

history

life

regression

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jwidman3 I would want to live in Judea during the time of Christ. I think it would be interesting to have first hand experience in all that happened in those days and see how I would personally respond, which "side" I would naturally fall on.

27 Sep 10

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