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emma1987 @emma1987 (107) • China 7 Apr 09

If you love a person very much.One he said he want to leave you.And you begged again and again ,but it was not worked.Will you kill yourself at last? How could a man's heart be so cold? Why dont him trust you? I want to be...

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kayefedilo21 the guy is a jerk, if he can't love you anymore, don't blame yourself, especially if you had given him everything that you can. you don't have to kill yourself for someone who isn't worth it, as painful as it it. you;ll get past all this

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jennajen26 @jennajen26 (79) • Canada 7 Apr 09

a few years ago i was struck by a truck, while on my bike. i was 27 weeks pregnant. it was just turning spring, and i was an avid bike rider, and i was feeling REALLY good so i decided to start bike riding again.. my belly...

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kayefedilo21 ouch! oh my god that was horrible! thank goodness you and your baby are alright. i've never experienced anything like that. you are such a strong woman, going through all that pain and being able to fight for it. your fear of vehicles is normal for someone who...

8 Apr 09

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psychotaz206 @psychotaz206 (2086) • United States 1 Apr 09

i cant get nothing done around the house everytime i try to do something i hear mom come hear , mom i need you, mom this and mom that its driving me crazy because i cant get nothing done and there is stuff around my house that...

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kayefedilo21 it really is hard to get things done with kids around. i have a 1 year old daughter and she used to really bug me whenever i do work. it depends on the child's age. i do work when my daughter is asleep (she takes really long naps in the afternoon) or when...

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rachelrao @rachelrao (2) • Malaysia 31 Mar 09

In a desperate attempt to win back his wife a man has continued to plead for her forgiveness in public.He pledges to kneel for a whole day or until he passes out or as long as it takes...

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kayefedilo21 "sorry" is enough for me to forgive my husband. i will not require him to go on bended knee and ask for my forgiveness until passes out. though it may sound romantic to some, it's not fair to have someone do that. you are only adding shame to whatever your...

31 Mar 09

Djbrat @Djbrat (333) • United States 31 Mar 09

I'm in a new relationship and feel a little neglected. Been married twice before and this relationship is unknown territory so to speak. I don't really know the best way to communicate with him. Should I just come out and say...

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kayefedilo21 i think the best way is to approach your partner and let them know how you feel. i used to be the silent type as well but found that it doesnt really help at all. we are the only ones who know what we think and feel and not all people can read our minds. so if...

31 Mar 09

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kayefedilo21 @kayefedilo21 (22) • Philippines 31 Mar 09

her cancer is pretty bad, it has already spread through her brain and liver. i lie izzie, i wish her character would live longer. once she's gone, i don't think grey's anatomy just won't be the same.

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kayefedilo21 @kayefedilo21 (22) • Philippines 13 Mar 09

My husband and I both have jobs, and we both receive our salaries weekly. I work at home doing transcriptions and data entry and I earn double the amount that my husband gets from his job. He used to be fine with it but then as...

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kayefedilo21 i agree with you when you said money is the most popular reason why marriages split up. i try not to let it affect us but you know how men think sometimes. do you think i should keep from him the actual amount that i'm earning just so it won't hurt his ego? i...

13 Mar 09

the_dutchess @the_dutchess (2610) • Philippines 28 Feb 09

Not being exaggerated, but it's like every minute I see ads and discussions about issues on weight gain, dieting, weight loss programs and surgeries. I'm like, so what if a person gained weight? Is there really a big problem with...

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kayefedilo21 gaining weight used to really bother me because i used to be skinny. when i got married and started taking the pill (because i didn't want to have a baby yet) i started gaining weight ... really fast! and it also didn't help that i love eating. eating a lot...

13 Mar 09

kayefedilo21 @kayefedilo21 (22) • Philippines 13 Mar 09

My husband and I both have jobs, and we both receive our salaries weekly. I work at home doing transcriptions and data entry and I earn double the amount that my husband gets from his job. He used to be fine with it but then as...

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kayefedilo21 @kayefedilo21 (22) • Philippines 9 Mar 09

im normally happy when it comes to my marriage. sure we have our own set of problems but nothing that can't be solved. however, there's a sad part to being a wife and that for me is the lack of appreciation. i never claimed to be...

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kayefedilo21 i agree with you. but you know what's making the situation worse? i'm not just a mere housewife, i also bring in money into the household. i am a work at home wife and in fact i bring in more money than he gets from his work. the money that is being used for...

13 Mar 09

kayefedilo21 @kayefedilo21 (22) • Philippines 9 Mar 09

im normally happy when it comes to my marriage. sure we have our own set of problems but nothing that can't be solved. however, there's a sad part to being a wife and that for me is the lack of appreciation. i never claimed to be...

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kayefedilo21 Thank you so much for your comment and advice. I'm actually overwhelmed by all the responses that I received from starting this discussion. And I'm glad that I started this because I have gotten a lot of good advice and kind words of support and I really...

13 Mar 09

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kayefedilo21 @kayefedilo21 (22) • Philippines 9 Mar 09

im normally happy when it comes to my marriage. sure we have our own set of problems but nothing that can't be solved. however, there's a sad part to being a wife and that for me is the lack of appreciation. i never claimed to be...

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kayefedilo21 It's hard isn't all? A little appreciation is all we need but the sad reality is most of the times, we don't get it. A lot of people had told me to talk to my husband about what he has been doing to me, explain to him what I'm feeling and why I am feeling that...

13 Mar 09

kayefedilo21 @kayefedilo21 (22) • Philippines 9 Mar 09

im normally happy when it comes to my marriage. sure we have our own set of problems but nothing that can't be solved. however, there's a sad part to being a wife and that for me is the lack of appreciation. i never claimed to be...

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kayefedilo21 Thank you so much for your kind words and prayers. It's exactly what I need right now. I do hope that God opens up my husbands eyes and would start appreciating me for who I am and what I do. Like I said, I don't gifts, a simple "thank you" would be enough. I...

13 Mar 09

kayefedilo21 @kayefedilo21 (22) • Philippines 9 Mar 09

im normally happy when it comes to my marriage. sure we have our own set of problems but nothing that can't be solved. however, there's a sad part to being a wife and that for me is the lack of appreciation. i never claimed to be...

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stacyv81 @stacyv81 (5903) • United States 28 Feb 09

We as parents have all made mistakes, no doubt, and we will probably continue to, but in your mind what would be the biggest parenting no no. Something you feel you should never do as a parent....and why?

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kayefedilo21 as a mom, i only want my child to grow up the best they can be. foe me, there are sevaral parenting no no's for me which i also learned from my parents. first of all, never ever make your child feel like they have no worth, do not call them names such as...

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mrsl2008 @mrsl2008 (634) 5 Mar 09

A female by the name of Michelle Brown has been convicted today of causing the death of her child. She left 22 month old Jodie Ann in an upstairs bedroom alone for 3 hours whilst appearing at court in Coventry. On her return...

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kayefedilo21 This is so sad. I don't understand how parents could just leave their child/children alone at home without a guardian. I never leave my daughter at home, not even if I'm just going to a nearby store, and I never leave her alone even if she's asleep. i don't...

6 Mar 09

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regal_aeros @regal_aeros (2605) • Singapore 6 Mar 09

Well my mum sizes my friends up when she sees them. Meaning, from one's overall outlook to the way he / she talks and behaves, my mum would somehow categorize them into group. And mostly into, good friends vs bad friends. And...

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kayefedilo21 yeah, i actually do size people up. sometimes you can tell what kind of person there is based on your first impression, though first impressions are not always accurate. however i would say about 95% of the first impressions i had of people I sized up were...

6 Mar 09

kayefedilo21 @kayefedilo21 (22) • Philippines 4 Mar 09

A few months back, my husband and I had a really big fight about money. This weas because I lied to him about the payment for our auto loan. Bad me, I know! This was because a few months before that, I started not paying for the...

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kayefedilo21 Wow! $150? Wish I could pick up something like that in my husbands trash too! LOL! Anyway, I don't think there's anything wrong with what you did. If I was in your position I would have done the same thing. The fact that you asked your husband if he was sure...

4 Mar 09

kayefedilo21 @kayefedilo21 (22) • Philippines 4 Mar 09

A few months back, my husband and I had a really big fight about money. This weas because I lied to him about the payment for our auto loan. Bad me, I know! This was because a few months before that, I started not paying for the...

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kayefedilo21 It's nice to know that you were able to straighten it out, fortunately I'll be able to settle mine soon. You're right, it's always good to have your own money. My mom also told me that I should take money our from my paycheck also to keep for myself and not...

4 Mar 09

kayefedilo21 @kayefedilo21 (22) • Philippines 4 Mar 09

A few months back, my husband and I had a really big fight about money. This weas because I lied to him about the payment for our auto loan. Bad me, I know! This was because a few months before that, I started not paying for the...

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