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fler @feodda (579) • Philippines 14 Nov 09

My ex just call me this day. He is asking me about us. What had happen to our relationship before and Why I leave him? I told him that I send him a letter for our break up stating all what I want to tell him. It is because of a...

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ladyella hi there! i can't help but wonder what's going on with your ex, chasing you that way when he's already married. well for me, it'd really be safe for now to just to stay away from him and ignore his attempts at communicating with you. although it wouldn't hurt...

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marguicha @marguicha (230389) • Chile 25 Oct 09

Let´s share our secrets. Most of them surely are just common sense. For me it´s important to be as relaxed as I can. That´s why vacations are a very important part of my life. I love sitting on the sand in a beach, watching a...

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ladyella hi there! it is really important for me to get enough sleep because if i don't, i seem to be more prone to different kinds of sickness. i also eat on time and i cut out on meat and make it a point to eat more fish and vegetables. i believe in the saving power...

26 Oct 09

fler @feodda (579) • Philippines 24 Oct 09

For me, on the First date the guy should be the one to pay for the bills. Unless for many dates you have with him, I should offer to pay for the bills. It not fair to let him pay all the time. It should be an equal treatment.

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dating

first dates

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ladyella hi feodda! well, it is really customary for a man to pay on a first date because it is usually them who did the inviting, right? but if you are already a couple who's going steady, girls should share the bill sometimes. i do that with my boyfriend because we...

26 Oct 09

getbrowser @getbrowser (1708) • China 25 Oct 09

There was a time when intelligence quotient(IQ) was considered the leading determinant of success. At that time, people who had a high IQ were more likely to succeed. However, more and more people hold the idea that our...

emotional intelligence

iq

succeed

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ladyella hi there! i believe that both are equally important and it'd be far better if we can balance these two. but have you heard of the multiple intelligences? there are 7 and that's quite the new approach to intelligence now. intelligence covers a wide spectrum and...

26 Oct 09

SandrainSpain @Sandra1952 (6047) • Spain 26 Oct 09

Does it bother you as well when responders end their post with 'Happy Mylotting?' To me, it's a jarring note at the end of the response. People who make long, interesting responses never seem to do it, so it makes me wonder...

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ladyella it's a funny thing because i started using that on some of my comments when i read it from someone who commented on my post. lol. i do not know why but maybe i'm using it because i believed it was some kind of a trend in here in mylot so i did it too....

26 Oct 09

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getbrowser @getbrowser (1708) • China 26 Oct 09

Yesterday, my parents had a fierce arguement just for some trivial matters. Whenever I meet such bad situations, I tend to go to my room so that they can have some privacy. Yes, what I want is to leave them some space to let...

parents quarrel in front of kids

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ladyella i was too young when my parents broke up so i do not have much memories about their quarrels. but i have seen my mom and her boyfriend quarrel and i was between them. i was dumbfounded and i wasn't able to do anything except just stare at both of them. i...

26 Oct 09

ladyella @ladyella (145) • Philippines 24 Oct 09

cooking has always been attributed to women and the kitchen has always been a place that women can call their territory. but it's really nice to hear that there are men who really know how to cook and do this out of love for the...

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ladyella @ladyella (145) • Philippines 24 Oct 09

i'm not much of a crybaby but there are certain films that really make me cry and i just can't stop myself. i feel so drawn by the lines that my tears keep falling. my siblings have always teased me about this but i thought that...

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ladyella @ladyella (145) • Philippines 24 Oct 09

In the Philippines, most colleges are requiring their students to wear a school uniform. aside from this, they are also implementing a strict dress code for wash days. personally, i really don't like this policy because it...

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ladyella hear, hear! ^^ i'm just hoping that university administrators would look into this and maybe start a poll in school so that all students can have a chance to take part in the decision. anyway, thank you for responding. ^^

24 Oct 09

ladyella @ladyella (145) • Philippines 24 Oct 09

In the Philippines, most colleges are requiring their students to wear a school uniform. aside from this, they are also implementing a strict dress code for wash days. personally, i really don't like this policy because it...

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ladyella thank you! that was flattering huh. lol. of course, i am thankful that i am in college but i'm just not agreeing to the policy on school uniforms and dress codes. i want each student to find himself or herself in a crowd and wearing the same dress would not be...

24 Oct 09

ryheanne @ryheanne (222) • South Korea 9 Oct 09

Many students hate quizzes, exams especially un-announce and recitations. I also hate that when I was still a student, I also hate assignments in Math, and Math projects. As a joke says, when answering a journal ( I forgot the...

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ladyella i hate it when students have to do REPORTING in class. you know, the one where topics for the whole course are assigned to each student and they are asked to do the discussion in place of the teacher. i know that it's one way of engaging each one to speak up...

24 Oct 09

ladyella @ladyella (145) • Philippines 24 Oct 09

In the Philippines, most colleges are requiring their students to wear a school uniform. aside from this, they are also implementing a strict dress code for wash days. personally, i really don't like this policy because it...

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danemz @danemz (9) 23 Oct 09

education is one thing that nobody could ever steal it from us. it is one of the most important thing that everybody wants to have, for it is through it that we can secure our future. and for us to live a better life..but as a...

education

student

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ladyella from 1-10? my stress level would be 5. ^^ i'm really a very relaxed person and i do not take things hardly because it is not necessary. i take things slow and i do not push myself into doing things that's why i am keeping my stress level low. yes, i am a...

24 Oct 09

christina1989 @christina1989 (462) • China 23 Oct 09

marrige is one of the most important things in one's life .but what time would be a best time for marry?I think it will be 26 to 28...how do you think?

marry

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ladyella well, personally, i believe that the best age to marry is between 23-25 for women and 25-27 for men. i believe in the principle of starting early because life is short and i personally would like to spend my life with my husband and kids. i still want to be...

24 Oct 09

indahfth @indahfth (11161) • Indonesia 24 Oct 09

What should I do? My husband told me be frank, that my husband did not love me anymore. he remained there with me because he had responsibilities as a husband. I felt odd about this situation. whether I should leave my husband?

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ladyella oh, i know how you're feeling and i pray that you'll patch things up with him again. why don't you ask him for the reason why he believes that he has fallen out of love? as his wife, you have the right to know. maybe in knowing the truth, you'll realize a lot...

24 Oct 09

ladyella @ladyella (145) • Philippines 17 Oct 09

Have you read the story on the carrot, the egg and the coffee bean? it is very inspiring and i 'd like to share it with you. ^^ it's about a daughter who went to her mother, complaining about all the problems in her life and...

carrot

coffee bean

egg

inspirational stories

life

overcoming adversities

problems

trials

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ladyella ohh.. i hope that you don't stay as an egg your whole life. life would be more wonderful and beautiful if you shed those hard shells and opt to become the real you while adapting to situations easily and learning from every trial. ^^

24 Oct 09

ladyella @ladyella (145) • Philippines 17 Oct 09

Have you read the story on the carrot, the egg and the coffee bean? it is very inspiring and i 'd like to share it with you. ^^ it's about a daughter who went to her mother, complaining about all the problems in her life and...

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ladyella a half-done coffee bean, you mean? lol. that's alright. just continue looking at life and problems that way and you'll eventually find yourself habituating and adapting to every situation. it's really a piece of cake, you know, if you change the way you see...

24 Oct 09

ladyella @ladyella (145) • Philippines 17 Oct 09

Have you read the story on the carrot, the egg and the coffee bean? it is very inspiring and i 'd like to share it with you. ^^ it's about a daughter who went to her mother, complaining about all the problems in her life and...

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ladyella thank you! i'm glad you read it and i hope that you'll always remember its message as you live your life. cheers!

24 Oct 09

ladyella @ladyella (145) • Philippines 17 Oct 09

Have you read the story on the carrot, the egg and the coffee bean? it is very inspiring and i 'd like to share it with you. ^^ it's about a daughter who went to her mother, complaining about all the problems in her life and...

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ladyella i agree. but being a coffee bean is the best way of dealing with adversities. if you are a firm coffee bean, you'll always be like that no matter what adversities you are facing. it's really not about the kind of adversity but more of how you see it. cheers to...

24 Oct 09

ladyella @ladyella (145) • Philippines 17 Oct 09

Have you read the story on the carrot, the egg and the coffee bean? it is very inspiring and i 'd like to share it with you. ^^ it's about a daughter who went to her mother, complaining about all the problems in her life and...

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ladyella thank you! ^^ it's a nice story, isn't it? i'm glad that you found joy and learned from it as much as i had. i hope that you sail through life in the mindset that you are in righ now and i just know that you'll live a good life. enjoy!

24 Oct 09

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