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letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 22 Dec 09

I often wonder about this, if I was given a chance to change one thing, and absolutely one thing in life, what would that be? Fortunately I have had a good life (and yeah am having still, Touch wood!) with no regrets, but when...

chance

change

life

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letsearn9 Hi Cobrateacher I am sorry you had an abusive childhood, but like you said looking at the positive side you turned out to be a strong and wonderful person who adores her family. And I am sure they love you to pieces. It is very important to focus on the...

22 Dec 09

letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 22 Dec 09

I often wonder about this, if I was given a chance to change one thing, and absolutely one thing in life, what would that be? Fortunately I have had a good life (and yeah am having still, Touch wood!) with no regrets, but when...

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letsearn9 Hi Yes, true indeed. As someone mentioned earlier, if you change something it would cause a butterfly effect. Good luck. And happy holidays.

22 Dec 09

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letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 22 Dec 09

I often wonder about this, if I was given a chance to change one thing, and absolutely one thing in life, what would that be? Fortunately I have had a good life (and yeah am having still, Touch wood!) with no regrets, but when...

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letsearn9 Hi I agree. What you think as 'put your foot in your mouth' might have seemed like a different thing to others. It all depends on who is the other person and their view too. So don't worry. Whatever happens, happens for a reason, and there's no harm in...

22 Dec 09

letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 22 Dec 09

I often wonder about this, if I was given a chance to change one thing, and absolutely one thing in life, what would that be? Fortunately I have had a good life (and yeah am having still, Touch wood!) with no regrets, but when...

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letsearn9 Hi That is one serious thing to want to change. I am sorry you were not able to get a degree. I am sure it's tough without one (actually even with a degree it's hard), and that too in this kind of job market, I wish you good luck and hope you find...

22 Dec 09

letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 22 Dec 09

I often wonder about this, if I was given a chance to change one thing, and absolutely one thing in life, what would that be? Fortunately I have had a good life (and yeah am having still, Touch wood!) with no regrets, but when...

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letsearn9 Hi Noveclai Let me tell you, there is nothing wrong with you. It's just that life isn't always fair. I am sure your Mr Right is already on his way to you. If you are patient enough, you will meet him soon. Always hope for the best. Good luck to you and...

22 Dec 09

letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 22 Dec 09

I often wonder about this, if I was given a chance to change one thing, and absolutely one thing in life, what would that be? Fortunately I have had a good life (and yeah am having still, Touch wood!) with no regrets, but when...

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letsearn9 Hi Jodylee I agree with you. And I sure can understand the 'butterfly effect'. Being so farther down the lane of life, it's hard to imagine your life in any other way. I am glad you have no regrets. Let's give thanks for our good lives and pray for those...

22 Dec 09

letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 18 Nov 09

Why is it that you can forgive your enemy for the hurt they caused you, but you can not forgive your friend for the same? I think it is because when the person is already an enemy, you expect them to hurt you anytime or all...

friend and foe

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letsearn9 So true. Thanks for your reply.

18 Nov 09

letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 18 Nov 09

Why is it that you can forgive your enemy for the hurt they caused you, but you can not forgive your friend for the same? I think it is because when the person is already an enemy, you expect them to hurt you anytime or all...

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letsearn9 Your response reminds me of this saying 'Faults are thick when love is thin'. It is always difficult to forgive when your love for your friend is already lesser than what it was. Thanks for your reply.

18 Nov 09

letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 18 Nov 09

Why is it that you can forgive your enemy for the hurt they caused you, but you can not forgive your friend for the same? I think it is because when the person is already an enemy, you expect them to hurt you anytime or all...

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letsearn9 I agree, we are more bewildered and hurt than anything else. Like you said, 'but the friend?' None of us should really suffer such pain. Thanks for your reply.

18 Nov 09

letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 18 Nov 09

Why is it that you can forgive your enemy for the hurt they caused you, but you can not forgive your friend for the same? I think it is because when the person is already an enemy, you expect them to hurt you anytime or all...

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letsearn9 Sorry to hear that. But well, if you thought you should teach him a lesson, he must have done something bad to deserve it. I hope you are O.K with it now. Good luck. Thanks for your reply.

18 Nov 09

letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 18 Nov 09

Why is it that you can forgive your enemy for the hurt they caused you, but you can not forgive your friend for the same? I think it is because when the person is already an enemy, you expect them to hurt you anytime or all...

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letsearn9 Very well said, 'ravend'. I believe that taking the easy way out is..yeah easy. But then you lose a dear friend. If we believe that he/she is worth it, we should take the second path. Thanks for your reply.

18 Nov 09

letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 18 Nov 09

Why is it that you can forgive your enemy for the hurt they caused you, but you can not forgive your friend for the same? I think it is because when the person is already an enemy, you expect them to hurt you anytime or all...

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letsearn9 I absolutely agree. Trust is a very important detail in any relation. But as you said, change happens. Thank you for your reply. Have a good day.

18 Nov 09

letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 18 Nov 09

Is it hard for you to change your opinion about a person after your first impression/opinion about them? All of us are familiar with the saying 'First impressions are the best impressions' How many of you think this is true?...

first impressions

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letsearn9 Yes, totally agreed. As they say, only time will time. And I believe it applies to relationships too. Thanks for your reply. Have a good day.

18 Nov 09

mrnischalgurung @mrnischalgurung (424) • India 24 Oct 09

i tried putting my photograph as the display so photo at mylot but could not so please help

mylot

photo

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letsearn9 oops!! Sorry, I forgot that one. Thanks for adding it to my response :)

24 Oct 09

letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 22 Oct 09

I do believe in it but I have never experienced it. I have seen few people get so comfortable with each other within 5 minutes after their introductions, as if they knew each other forever. And the next time I meet them, ohhhh...

love

love at first sight

love forever

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letsearn9 Hi Irene Yes, there is that chance always. I feel that we will never know if we don't take that chance. Thanks for sharing your opinion.

23 Oct 09

letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 22 Oct 09

I do believe in it but I have never experienced it. I have seen few people get so comfortable with each other within 5 minutes after their introductions, as if they knew each other forever. And the next time I meet them, ohhhh...

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letsearn9 Hi trilliansramblings You did experience it then. That's a wonderful thing. I believe even if it doesn't last forever, once you experience it you will never be able to forget it in your life. Thank you for sharing your experience and opinion.

23 Oct 09

letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 22 Oct 09

I do believe in it but I have never experienced it. I have seen few people get so comfortable with each other within 5 minutes after their introductions, as if they knew each other forever. And the next time I meet them, ohhhh...

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letsearn9 That's true. Hope you will experience it some day. And that day, don't forget to post a comment here in myLot :)

22 Oct 09

letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 22 Oct 09

I do believe in it but I have never experienced it. I have seen few people get so comfortable with each other within 5 minutes after their introductions, as if they knew each other forever. And the next time I meet them, ohhhh...

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letsearn9 Hi Maplegeo I do agree that true love is not decided by external beauty but why should the relation last for a minimum of 1 year? If you spend enough time with each other, you will know most of the things you should know within few months. Well, that's my...

22 Oct 09

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