mannylayne

@mannylayne (49)

Canada • Age 51

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Do you think most people have too much drama going on?

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 22 Apr 10

I do know how it feels to be brokenhearted, to be stressed and to be negative. But don't you think that sometimes we just need to keep things to ourselves because of how our negativity would also affect other people? I can't...

drama

life

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mannylayne It's only drama to a person if they perceive it that way. There are people out there that thrive on misery and would be lost if their world was perfect. They often go out of their way to create drama (more often than not it is subconcious). Somehow over the...

23 Apr 10

Crying Babies...

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 22 Apr 10

Okay, here's just a thought that has been bothering me for quite a while. You see, ever since my nephew lived with us it seems that everyone around the neighborhood also has a kid or a child in their homes. Therefore, I would...

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mannylayne As with any human issue it's the nature vs nurture debate. However, I believe that pretty much everything to do with human behavior involves both. Factors involved here would be: -child's temperment -child's personality type (though this is not a huge...

23 Apr 10

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Does anyone look for ways to make extra money?

Chrissy @Java09 (3075) • United States 7 Mar 10

I always do little things to earn extra money,both online and offline.I think doing some cleaning for others is a good way to make extra.Maybe babysit,things offline I think are more realistic ways of making some extra...

make extra money

offline jobs

online job

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mannylayne I am always looking for ways to make some extra cash online. I know I'll never be a millionaire and probably won't ever make enough to do it full time, but I am trying!! I actually purchased a product from www.themoneymakingtrail.com and it is helping me...

8 Mar 10

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How to lose some extra pounds???

tuyakiki @tuyakiki (3016) • India 11 Feb 10

Hi! I am not a obese person.But still I like to lose some weight which I am gaining now a days.I do aerobics and other exercises regularly,but it is also not working.What do you do to lose weight? Please share your...

health

losing weight

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mannylayne Eat more smaller meals (5-6 at 200-300 cals) Make sure they are all balanced (protein, carbs, good fat) Add resistance training to your work outs (boosts metabolism because muscles burn fat) Cut out sugary drinks Don't undereat!! If you work out a lot but...

11 Feb 10

Jealousy, part two

mannylayne @mannylayne (49) • Canada 8 Feb 10

Just to follow up with this. I have noticed that many of your answers are about your partner being jealous and it being a turn-on to you. But what about your own jealousy? That was more what I was referring to. I'll give you an...

jealousy

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Jealousy can be such a turn-on

mannylayne @mannylayne (49) • Canada 7 Feb 10

Do you agree that there is such a thing as healthy jealousy? I believe that if you are able to tap in to what it is that is causing the feelings of jealousy then it can be a total turn on. Don't get me wrong - some jealousy is...

jealousy

sex

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mannylayne You are right about that. There is a fine line between healthy and destructive jealousy where either you end up hurt or your partner does. It's not for everyone that's for sure! Thanks for the feedback.

8 Feb 10

waking up in the middle of the night

pree70 @pree70 (525) • India 7 Feb 10

i am faced with a strange situation. for the past so many nights, i seem to wake up around 2.am daily for no reason at all. there isn't any sound or any other disturbance due to which i am awake. I simply find that my eyes open...

sleep

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mannylayne First of all, the fact that you are letting it upset you is worsening the problem - it's probably why it's hard to fall back asleep. Second, as anything changed in your life recently? Third, are you under any kind of stress that is more than...

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Jealousy can be such a turn-on

mannylayne @mannylayne (49) • Canada 7 Feb 10

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You want me with you? then you have to respect some rules...

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 7 Feb 10

If someone wants you in his life, do you think will accept your rules? What rules have you required that he wanted to be with you all your life? Do not lie, do not deceive you, to the way they are now, love you, respect you,...

relationship

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mannylayne I believe that there should be boundaries in relationships, not rules. Boundaries can change throughout your life depending on it's progression and there's nothing wrong with having them. Your first goal is to be a healthy, happy you. One should ALWAYS put...

7 Feb 10

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Polygamy vs Polyamorous

mannylayne @mannylayne (49) • Canada 28 Jan 10

I am curious about people's opinions on this. Polygamy is religion based, Polyamourous lifestyles are not - are either of them acceptable? Why or why not?

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mannylayne Thanks for your opinion. The saying "to each their own" really needs to be embedded into society. There is far too much judgement in the world where people feel the need to hide what they do or believe in for fear of being outcast, or worse. The degree of...

7 Feb 10

First drink in the morning

dorannmwin @dorannmwin (36392) • United States 2 Feb 10

What is the first thing that you have to drink in the morning after you wake up? Why is it that you drink this first thing after you wake up? For me, I have to have a Pepsi first thing when I get out of bed in the morning. I...

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mannylayne The very first thing I drink is water. I have it by my bed and I drink it even before I get out of bed. This is for various reasons: 1. I'm dehydrated after a night without water/ 2. It actually soothes my body both physically and mentally 3. It's at...

2 Feb 10

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When it comes to writing, what are the things that take away your inspiration?

Mady2791 @Mady2791 (545) • United States 31 Jan 10

Sometimes, when we sit down to write there are factors like being tired, sleepy, worried, even hungry hahaha that can take away the creative side of you and things don't come out the way you wan it..I guess you don't put your...

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mannylayne The same things you have mentioned. In addition, external distraction, irritability, scattered thoughts, depression and anxiety.

31 Jan 10

What do you say if your mother is marrying a man you know is after her money?

free_man @free_man (7330) • United States 31 Jan 10

My husbands mother married a man that has been known to marry women for their money and we know it. Sevearl of his ex wives have died shortly after they were married. And their money went to him. He isn't anything special matter...

think he is killing her

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mannylayne Your mother is going to do what she wants - it's her path to choose. Definitely tell her how you feel about it, that you don't approve of the marraige and why but that no matter what, she's your mom and you will always be there for her. Make sure you get...

31 Jan 10

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