minckler104

@minckler104 (28)

United States • Age 39

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Would it bother you to marry your bf if you were unemployed

venshida @venshida (4836) • United States 30 Jun 09

My BF being asking me to marry him for years, and I thought about doing it seriously the last month or so. My problem is I am unemployed have a mortgage etc, and I prefer to marry him if I was at least working part time. I have...

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minckler104 If he wants to marry you employed or unemployed, then I don't think you should care. I just recently lost my job also, and my husband has been out of work on half pay for a few months for getting into a bad accident.. but things will work out! and things will...

2 Jul 09

Stay or Leave?.......

Queenperk @Queenperk (192) • United States 1 Jul 09

If you were in a relationship with someone and they had a few kids by different people and each person bought drama to your relationship for whatever reasons would you look at that as a challenge? regardless of how you feel about...

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minckler104 I think someone should really think about it before getting into a relationship like that. Obviously, you know there is going to be drama and issues with the other women. But if you really love this person, then I don't think you should let it bother you. If...

2 Jul 09

Do you mind taking a bath or shower together with your spouse?

thhoon72 @thhoon72 (1009) • Singapore 2 Jul 09

Hello there, just wondering what do you guys think about taking a bath or shower together with your spouse? I mean really bath and shower....and nothing else....=)) I sometimes do take a shower or bath with my spouse, maybe once...

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minckler104 My husband and I have done this a lot. We enjoy it..washing each other...but it always leads to more than just a shower/bath! haha.. :-P If you don't do it, I highly recommend you try it!! :)

2 Jul 09

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view about online relationship.

tuliorowena @tuliorowena (350) • Philippines 2 Jul 09

With the help of the internet, we are easily acquainted with many people across the globe. And by doing so, most of us can't help but to invest emotions to the person whom we got along with on the internet. But do you think you...

online relationships

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minckler104 I've tried this before..meeting someone online and then trying to have a long distance relationship...doesn't work! We met online.. chatted for a few months..then decided to meet up. We did, and unded up dating for over 2 years.. but he just got too...

2 Jul 09

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what is the code word you use to tell your lover lets get it on?

momtrying2makeit @momtrying2makeit (3270) • United States 30 Jun 09

I wanted to see if other mylotters have a code word or saying that they use to tell there loved one that they want to make love? For me and my boyfriend sometimes we say do you want to do it? Or there have been times...

code words

having love making

making love

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minckler104 My husband and I use "Do you wanna do it"... or "She's sleeping".. (referring to our daughter..) lol.. I think thats commonly used when you have kids! Or he knows when I wanna do it when I'm getting in the shower late at night..thats my sign without even...

2 Jul 09

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Are there men out there that are attracted to women like me?

dismalgrin @dismalgrin (2604) • United States 16 Jun 09

Ha, my sister and I were arguing the other day because she says that I'm fat and ugly. I told her that you can't measure a person's worth by what size of jeans that they wear. She is a stick, just so you know. I think she wears a...

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minckler104 I think people are beautiful on the inside.. not on the out. It doesn't matter what size you are. When I first got with my husband, I was a size 3/4.. now after being with him for 3 years and having only 1 kid.. I'm a size 8. Sometimes he will make comments to...

2 Jul 09

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A family affair... would you tell?

pbrockington @pbrockington (500) • United States 18 Jun 09

So I am the oldest cousin. I often offer some of my younger cousins my opion in different life sutiation when they ask. Today I spoke with one of my younger cousin whom has no idea how she come off to guys. Well she explain to me...

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minckler104 I wouldn't. Unless you actually caught someone physcially cheating.. I would not get involved any way in a marriage. I understand why she would want to, but honestly, its probably the best thing for her not to! If she told her, Her cousin could turn on her and...

2 Jul 09

Is it okey to like somebody even if you have a boyfriend/girlfriend?

puzzleover @puzzleover (20) • Philippines 21 Jun 09

Is it alright to have a crush or like with another person although you are in a relationship?!? I know lots of people do have crushes, likes, and even love even if they are committed. Is it a wrong idea or not?

crush

likes

relationship

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minckler104 I don't think that its wrong to have a crush or to like someone else while you are in another relationship. It's natural. But I don't think its right to be in love with someone else while in a relationship. That's not fare to the other person. If you have...

2 Jul 09

Do you share bout you love stories with your parents?

Sangkala @Sangkala (238) • Indonesia 28 Jun 09

Do you share and tell your parents when you fall in love with someone? or when you have a bad time with your girl/boyfriend? or just tell them about how you and your lover spend time together.. well i don't, not a word till now.....

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minckler104 Yes, I do. My mother is like my best friend..So, I tell her everything. I've been married for 2 years now.. and she knows all the bad times and all the good times that we've had.. most of them anyways. I think ever since I've opened up to my mom about this a...

2 Jul 09

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Manly or Not Manly at all?.............Ladies Please Help!

Queenperk @Queenperk (192) • United States 2 Jul 09

In today's society there are a few good men who get their eyebrows done along with mani and pedi............. My girlfriend BF is always in the nail shop before she is......lol I honestly think that's a problem but i'm not...

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minckler104 Okay..If I was your friend, I would def. ask him WHY he does this..to see what his opinion is on it. He def. sounds like he cares more about himself then anyone..which isn't good if shes looking for a committed relationship. It's really not manly at all.. not...

2 Jul 09

HOW MANY GFs/BFs HAVE YOU BEEN WITH?

cainam @cainam (493) • Philippines 30 Jun 09

my boyfriend had around 70 past girlfriends before me, most of my friend had 3, but my boyfriend now is my first one who i hope will also be the last one.. it's normal nowadays to have been with more than one boyfriends before...

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minckler104 haha.. this is a funny subject.. I honestly don't know if I could sit down and think of all the relationships/flings that I've had in my entire life.. If I had to take a guess, I would guess probably around 100.. AT LEAST! Now don't get me wrong, I didn't...

2 Jul 09

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what if the buyer ask for refund

vingyan06 @vingyan06 (2486) • Malaysia 1 Jul 09

I list an item at ebay and I am so happy that someone bid win the item. I have received the payment from the buyer, and happily wanted to do the packaging and the item is ready to be sent to my buyer. What happen now is she...

selling

shopping

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minckler104 I think that is all up to you.. unless you specifically state that you do not take refunds in your auction page. When someone bids on an item, they are agreeing to a "legal agreement" between the buyer and the seller..and the reason she is giving you is not a...

1 Jul 09

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I have a 14 month old little girl..

darcmay @darcmay (36) • United States 25 Jun 09

and I was wondering what kinds of things I should be doing to stimulate her brain. Shes very active, she walks and knows a small vocabulary already. I have friends with children but none are at her level yet, even if they are the...

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minckler104 I also have a 14 month old daughter. She is very intelligent for her age. I use the baby Einstein DVDs…Vtech Vsmile baby…I read to her multiple times every day.. and this may sound crazy but…, I also think that by me bringing her out around the community all...

30 Jun 09