mjsg2468

@mjsg2468 (44)

Philippines • Age 55

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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filipina just marry foriegners for convenience; not love:

hernani @hernani (25) • Philippines 20 Jun 07

hi there!!! i just noticed that most filipina now a days marry foriegners,.. there are very young filipina which i think she is only 17-18 years old only who marries foriegners that is very old...do you think there is love between...

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mjsg2468 this is so sad. why do we have to come up with comments like this that put down our own people? no one has the right to question the intention of any person who enters into a relationship regardless of their ethnicity or nationality. it's their life...it's...

22 Jun 07

Anyone Here Trying To Get Over Someone???

Gwapako_28 @Gwapako_28 (2140) • Philippines 21 Jun 07

I guess im too emotional.I just cant believe that he can do this.Since he made me believe a lot of things and promises. I dont want to get stressed and bothered.But no matter how i tried to ignore it,and still realized that i...

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mjsg2468 i hope you are feeling better now. it will really take a while before you can finally and confidently say that you're really over him and the pain he has caused you. i know i am not in the position to give you advice but let me just give you some...

21 Jun 07

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Anyone Here Trying To Get Over Someone???

Gwapako_28 @Gwapako_28 (2140) • Philippines 21 Jun 07

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mjsg2468 wow! 4 years is such a long time to be holding on to the pain and to the one who caused it. it must really be painful. but it is not healthy either. i know it is easier said than done, but i will say it just the same...let it go, for your own sake. try as hard...

21 Jun 07

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God is sometimes unfair

catherine_manila @catherine_manila (75) • Philippines 21 Jun 07

SOmetimes I think God is unfair. HE even gives material wealth to the poeple who are abusive and bad to others. While those who lives life in the fullest and lives life fairly are still in need .I know this couple who worship God...

life

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mjsg2468 I can understand your frustration. I used to think the same way but I realize that it is not God who is unfair but life itself. You may say that God is the creator of life but remember that He also gave us free will on how we live our lives. Good and/or bad...

21 Jun 07

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Awesome Quote!!!

Rozie37 @Rozie37 (15499) • Turkmenistan 21 Jun 07

The highest reward for a person's toil is not what they get for it, but what they become by it." - John Ruskin Do you agree with this quote? Why or why not? Personally, I love it.

totally inspiring

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mjsg2468 I totally agree! it is good to be rewarded materially by the hard work that we do but it is a lot better when it is able to bring out the best in us as we accomplish the work. Having this kind of attitude also helps us look at things differentky such that work...

21 Jun 07

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How do you give Condolence to those who have lost their dear one.s

dbhattji @dbhattji (2506) • India 21 Jun 07

it is probably the most difficult task, I often find myself at a loss for words and just sit beside them holding their hands. Even words of condolence seem too superficial some times looking at the gravity of the situation. Unless...

condolence

greiving relative

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mjsg2468 I agree with you that consoling someone who has lost a loved one is very difficult. I believe you are handling it well. I guess this is one of those situations where we really do not need to say anything, our mere presence is enough to express our love. Like...

21 Jun 07

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Mylot money

gurumoorthy88 @gurumoorthy88 (245) • India 20 Jun 07

hi guys.i hav totally posted 18 messages in mylot here and my account has been credited wit 0.18$ So does that mean ill get 1 cent for one post.then ill have to make 1000 posts to get 10$.im saying all this without keeping in mind...

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mjsg2468 im just new here. i joined a few days ago. in my first 2 days here, i made about 20 posts and my earnings says i have $0.36 so i dont think they give 1 cent for every message. some people say it depends on how long your message is and how substantial it is...

20 Jun 07

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How do you know your period is regular?

ifinallyfoundmybaby @ifinallyfoundmybaby (1742) • Philippines 20 Jun 07

The fact that the word "cycle" is used to describe a menstrual period makes it seem as though it happens like clockwork every 4 weeks. but the truth is that theres is alot of variations in cycle lenth. The girls cycle period the...

menstruation

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mjsg2468 i have a 26-day cycle. count starts on my first day. it's always been like that for many years and seldom do i get delays.

20 Jun 07

Do you regularly check your bulk folder in e-mail?

cmsk2005 @cmsk2005 (1770) • United States 20 Jun 07

I always think that I wont do this anymore as this waste my time a lot. But when ever I opened my e-mail, after checking my inbox, I invariably go to the bulk folder and try to check it ASAP if something went there by mistake and...

bulk folder

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mjsg2468 i used to check my bulk mails and see if there are important mails for me that just came through my bulk folder but i realized later that it is such a waste of time going through bulk mails one by one so i just click the "empty folder" to get read of my bulk...

20 Jun 07

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broke up

donsky14 @donsky14 (5947) • Philippines 19 Jun 07

my friend's gf broke up with him yesterday because she had no feelings for him anymore and she was starting to fall for her ex bf. They've been together for 3 yrs. My friend said that he gave her the freedom to be friends with...

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mjsg2468 No one has the right to control us but ourselves. Your friend is not to blame for his girlfriend's misbehavior. If the girl truly loved your friend, she should have decided it herself not to communicate with her ex. Seems to me like the girl was never really...

19 Jun 07

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Is mylotting addictive ?

dbhattji @dbhattji (2506) • India 19 Jun 07

I find mylotting addictive in the few days that I have started. How do you manage your other activities along with it? I have to wrench myself away. I suppose I will be able to control it after a few months as I get used to it.

addictive

mylotting

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mjsg2468 i can speak for myself, and I think that it does can get addicting. I have been here only for 3 days but I find myself getting hooked on it. I guess any forums with interesting topics to discuss on and interesting people to share thoughts with can be...

19 Jun 07

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I don't trust men :(

candiec2005 @candiec2005 (828) • United States 19 Jun 07

I have trust issues. It all goes back to my upbringing. I was taught to be careful with whom I trust, especially with men. I didn't have a male figure growing up. All I kept hearing bout men especially from my mom, was that they...

men

relationships

trust

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mjsg2468 I do not think you have a trust issue with men, or if you had it in the past, I believe you have overcome it the moment you decided to be in a relationship with your current boyfriend. I think your issue is more of being afraid to get hurt which is actually...

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Please Explain "Exclusively Dating" to Me

snookumsnort @snookumsnort (313) • Philippines 19 Jun 07

What does "exclusively dating" mean? How different is it from boyfriend / girlfriend? I ask because my younger sister (28) is exclusively dating someone. She already turned him down 6 months ago but he persisted and now they...

exclusively dating

relationships

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mjsg2468 Exclusive dating means there is an agreement that they are not going to date anyone else. It is part of the courtship stage between couples. Strictly speaking, exclusive dating does not necessarily entails commitment. Commitment happens when they decide to...

19 Jun 07

Can you exercise/work out without music?

vega83 @vega83 (6342) • Bahrain 19 Jun 07

I'm sure we all do a little bit of exercising or working out, whether at home or the gym. It's a good thing.. I used to be into yoga before, and now I do a lot of cardio, but I couldn't do either without listening to my favorite...

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mjsg2468 Exercise is a matter of discipline. While music does help during workouts, we can do without it if we really are serious about getting physically fit. There are other forms of exercise that do not really require music like weight lifting, treadmill, etc.

19 Jun 07

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Nightmares and Death

deesdomain @deesdomain (64) • Philippines 12 Feb 07

Once again I will be talking about death. But this time, it's all about my death. Why? Because. Just because. I have never felt so much fear in my life, last night I woke up from a dream and found myself having a hard time...

death

nightmares

saying goodbye

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mjsg2468 When I was younger, I used to have a lot of weird dreams about death and dark places. I never really asked anyone what it meant but it brought me fears. I guess a lot of people are afraid of death, especially when there are things we want to accomplish in this...

19 Jun 07

Did you ever had the chance to say goodbye to a loved one who passed away?

mestr12 @mestr12 (226) • Philippines 19 Jun 07

A close friend of mine told me this morning that her mother suddenly passed away last night. An hour before her mother's death, the mom was talking and joking with the family and after an hour, her heart just stopped. What hurt my...

death in the family

saying goodbye

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mjsg2468 One of the saddest part of my life was when my father died and I did not even had the chance to talk to him. I was still in College then and was staying in a dormitory so I only come home during weekends. One day, my cousin came to me and told me that I needed...

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Who are breadwinners in most families?

editha @editha (5) • Philippines 22 Mar 07

Are you a breadwinner by choice? Other cultures night find this absurd but in many cultures, strong family ties makes breadwinners out of unmarried siblings.

family

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mjsg2468 I have been the sole breadwinner of the family since my father died in 1989. It's part of our culture but it can really be absurd especially when other family members (even those of the extended families) tend to depend too much to the point that they are too...

19 Jun 07