mmonica

@mmonica (36)

India • Age 42

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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Man released after 15 yrs in prison DNA test proof

beckyomg1 @beckyomg1 (6756) • United States 4 Feb 07

Ok a few weeks ago i had this discussion.THe DA did let them exume the body of the deceased mand. The other man was finally released because they did do the dna test for the man that killed himself and it matched the dna found on...

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mmonica Injustice happens everywhere! There are so many innocents who die in prison. They never get justice. I would say, this guy is one of the lucky chaps to get out and be with his family. Just think about those people who couldn't succeed in getting justice till...

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My Friend Wants To Commit Suicide. Shall I Act?

Geoas @ashjoe76 (1422) • India 4 Feb 07

I thought it was just for fun, but my friend talks all the time about committing suicide, the different methods that can be used for it, and so on. She even writes a lot of poems about death. I am not sure whether she means it,...

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mmonica Never leave her alone. Try to distract her whenever she starts to talk about death. Find her other interests and involve her in it. Make her enjoy life and understand that life is to live. Her poetic skill can be used for writing about the beauty of life. It...

5 Feb 07

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Should babies sleep in the bed with parents?

babykay @babykay (2131) • Ireland 4 Feb 07

My 7 month old baby boy sleeps with me in the bed. He is breastfed and it is very handy the way if he wants a feed in the middle of the night, I just have to give him the breast, no hassle. However, I know some people strongly...

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mmonica One good thing in letting your baby sleep in bed with you is, he'll feel very secure. He feels his mother, he feels good. Baby will develop an attachment to his/her parents. I feel that it is the best thing to let you baby sleep with you. He will grow much...

5 Feb 07

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talking to yourself..?!

srlxmi @srlxmi (253) • India 4 Feb 07

have you caught yourself talking to yourself..?or anybody else told you that you're crazy because you're talking to yourself...?hey sometimes the best person to talk to is your self...;)there were lot of times when i caught myself...

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mmonica I talk a lot to myself. You are right.. The best person to talk to is yourself. You can talk whatever crap you want to. When i'm in some dilemma, I consult my inner self first. I raise my own questions, and I give the solution to myself like some advisor. And...

5 Feb 07

How do you choose which discussions to respond to?

vega83 @vega83 (6340) • Bahrain 4 Feb 07

well i've been here over a week now, and i still don't get it. i've seen so many discussions, that have nothing special about them that have so many responses and are in the 'popular discussions' category, so i decided to check...

discussions

how to choose

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mmonica I choose discussions which are interests me. I do find discussions with lot of response aren't so interesting. It's not about just earning money but, there should also be some quality discussion. I really find hard to respond to any discussion as I find no...

4 Feb 07

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Is this Domestic Abuse? Please help me decide

slickcut @slickcut (8140) • United States 4 Feb 07

Hi, i have a friend that I feel is abused ,but not pysically,she is a sad woman but claims to love her husband,she is a friend of mine and I don,t think she realizes this...I say not physically because her husband don,t hit her...

is this abuse of some kind spousel abuse you tel

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mmonica I think you should tell her the real situation.. that she is being abused. Probably, she has no idea that she is being abused. She has to be brought to light, and you, as a good friend, can boost her confidence to take a proper decision. May be, once she...

4 Feb 07

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Colour of cats?

rasenderakete @rasenderakete (295) • Germany 2 Feb 07

My cats are black and white. What kind of colour has your cats?

cats

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mmonica My cats are also black and white. But the patterns are different. One looks like a pirate.. with black patch on one eye. The other one is white with gray stripes. The third one is also black and white.

3 Feb 07

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eyeglasses or contact lens?

pink_passion @pink_passion (279) • Philippines 2 Feb 07

eyeglasses...its safer and you can easily take off whenever you want

contact lens

eyeglasses

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mmonica contact lenses are much more comfortable than eye glasses, except for a little extra work while wearing or removing. Well.. it doesn't matter much as comfort always takes the priority..

3 Feb 07

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do you like net cafe or your own home net?

sungat @sungat (1015) • Pakistan 2 Feb 07

i like home net therefore there is no tension of money.

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mmonica Home net is the best! you can relax and browse as and when you like.

3 Feb 07

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how do you find people wearing eyeglasses?

pink_passion @pink_passion (279) • Philippines 2 Feb 07

they look genius and respectable to me

eyeglasses

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mmonica I agree. They do look genius and respectable. This is applicable only to those who wear thin glasses. The type of frame they choose also matters a lot. But, if the glasses are too thick, then it doesn't look good. Perhaps they have to switch over to contact...

2 Feb 07

Who likes my avatar??

pebbles_cubbie @pebbles_cubbie (3789) • United States 29 Jan 07

i found this and thought it was the cutest thing in the world. tell me if you like it or not..thanks

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mmonica really tooo cute!!

1 Feb 07

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Does your cat follow you around everywhere?

hitzphillygirl @hitzphillygirl (1235) • United States 1 Feb 07

Riley is such a little shadow. He always has to be around one member of my family. If I go upstairs, he follows me right up, and right back down. He's always in sight, so I guess that's a good thing to keep him out of trouble.

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mmonica my cat keeps following me. He likes to play a lot and likes to sleep on my lap.

1 Feb 07

Does Anyone Give Their Cat a Bath?

lauriefnp @lauriefnp (5109) • United States 1 Feb 07

My cat is an indoor cat, and he keeps himself clean. I have tried to use the waterless cleaner on him to "freshen him up", but he doesn't go for it. I can't imagine being able to give a cat a real bath. Has anyone had to bathe...

bathing cats

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mmonica I've given my outdoor cats a good bath. But ofcourse you need two people for it. one to hold and one to wash. You cant drag it too long. You have to finish the washing very quickly and efficiently ;-) My cat is too sweet! He wont resist when I try to wash...

1 Feb 07

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diabetes ??????????????

shishir1980 @shishir1980 (57) • India 1 Feb 07

hello friends... i want to discuss a family problem with you... i am 26 year old male from india... my mother is having diabetes and she just cant stop eating the sweet things? what can i do stop her from eating that... she...

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mmonica It does happen that many people get tempted only when they are restricted. Dont try to restrict her but try explaining her. May be you can ask her to do yoga regularly. It will help in the long run.. both to reduce weight and diabetes as well.

1 Feb 07

A venting

margieanneart @margieanneart (26423) • United States 1 Feb 07

You don't have to respond if you don't want to. I just need to vent. Now I find out my husband is diabetic, on top of his job loss. $$$ meds? Sometimes I am very unhappy with this health system in USA. And, I am sick of MyLot...

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mmonica Probably doing yoga can help. Because I've seen my boyfriend's father. He had high sugar.. then he started doing regular yoga. Now he's perfectly fine and he even takes sweets. But more than anything he makes sure that he does regular yoga. It aint gonna cost...

1 Feb 07

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what is ur hair color

harivinod @harivinod (781) • India 11 Jan 07

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mmonica My hair is black.. but not pitch black! ;-)

1 Feb 07

How often do you wash your hair?

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 1 Feb 07

My cousin and I are having a "heated" discussion over all types of soaps, but shampoo and deoderant mostly. He has stopped using soap and deoderant all together and surprisingly he don't smell!!! And his hair is GORGOUS!!...

deoderant

how often to wash your hair

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mmonica I wash my hair every 2-3 days. It gets very greasy after 2 days and becomes really hard to manage. I dont really suggest u wash your hair everyday as it will result in hair fall in the long run. And ofcourse I cant stay without taking bath everyday using...

1 Feb 07

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which is beauty black hair with flower( or )other color hair with flowers?

Manly001 @Manly001 (707) • India 1 Feb 07

hair

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mmonica Black hair with flower looks beautiful than any other colours. The colour of the flower is pronounced on black hair and it adds lot of beauty to it.

1 Feb 07

If a man has gray hair, are you not attracted to him?

embattledsparkle @embattledsparkle (1072) • United States 31 Jan 07

Here in the United States, there is this commerical that I think is really stupid. It shows men and one of them they made grey (his entire self). Throughout the commerical it has similar scenes and it says something like.... Is...

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mmonica More than looks women need love. And men who can give it will win her heart!

1 Feb 07