momlali

@momlali (3)

South Africa • Age 69

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When someone calls you FAT is it an insult?

n30wing @n30wing (4767) • Philippines 21 Feb 09

Some friends of mine they want to talk down to me just because of the way I look just because I am fat. But isn't it quite stupid to insult me that way? I mean, insulting me with the obvious. I have a fiancee who loves me for who...

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momlali I don't really think these people are friends to start with. Friendship is based on love and therefore true friends are very careful not to hurt your feelings. But don't dwell on this because though they happen not to have weight issues - like some us of do -...

22 Feb 09

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To what extent will you tolerate a friend?

shamzy18 @shamzy18 (2315) 5 Feb 09

Are you the kind of person that will be so nice to a friend even though they treat you like S*** ? Or would you not tolerate this at all? I'm the kind of person that will tell a friend the way they are acting is inappropriate....

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momlali One needs to be very open and frank with a friend. A friendhip based on lies and deceit is not frienship at all. Also depending on what the friend has done to you - you are also entitled to calling off the frienship because there are things that people do that...

7 Feb 09

Sometimes I Ask God....

sheenarobins @sheenarobins (547) • Philippines 17 Oct 08

I know I don't have the right to question Him. Just sometimes, I wonder why other peoples lives tend to be easy. They have someone to support them, they get what they want easily. I ask Him why I'm such a passionate person that it...

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momlali Oh yes, we are allowed to question God because He is Abba Father.Ours is not a master/servant relationship but a father/son/daughter relationship. The very way we question our earthly parents about things we don't understand, our Father who is in heaven...

20 Oct 08

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