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nicolai @nicolai (288) • Philippines 3 Feb 07

children are very playful at times and we often lost our patience and do something that hurt them...but we all know that you did not mean,,how do you cope in this situation a s a parent?

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Sissygrl @Sissygrl (10912) • Canada 3 Feb 07

How do you deal with people smoking around your children? I live in a house but with three levels, each level is an apartment. The lady that lives above me usually does not smoke inside as when we all moved in the owners told us...

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Sissygrl Thank you, i think that is what i shall do. Wait and see :)

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Sissygrl @Sissygrl (10912) • Canada 3 Feb 07

How do you deal with people smoking around your children? I live in a house but with three levels, each level is an apartment. The lady that lives above me usually does not smoke inside as when we all moved in the owners told us...

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chaygylmommy @chaygylmommy (2470) • United States 29 Jan 07

my son is a very pickey eater. i don't mind that he doesn't want to eat certain veggies since i don't like all veggies; however, he doesn't want ANY! all he wants to eat is starchy foods like potatoes (fried or baked) and...

hiding vegetables in food

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crazynurse I had several friends whose children were the same as you describe. I guess I was very fortunate, all four of my children always loved vegetables. Lets see, some things that I did (again, not to disquise, just to increaase the amount of vegetables served): I...

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nexis777 @nexis777 (134) • United States 28 Jan 07

Were you spanked as a kid? And how many of those spankings do you actually remember? I remember maybe a handful of mine, but I know I was spanked a lot more than that... Anyone have opinions on why (if this is the case with you)...

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SUNFLWRLUVR YEP, I SURE GOT MY SHARE OF SPANKINGS, AND I KNOW THAT I AM GREATFUL FOR THEM, CAUSE I WAS A SPOILED BRAT, AND WE ALL KNOW THE FIRST STEP IS TO ADMIT THE PROBLEM...LOL., I MEAN I DID LEARN TO DO RIGHT OR AT LEAST DO IT SMART, I GOT POPPED IN THE MOUTH QUIT A...

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nexis777 @nexis777 (134) • United States 28 Jan 07

Were you spanked as a kid? And how many of those spankings do you actually remember? I remember maybe a handful of mine, but I know I was spanked a lot more than that... Anyone have opinions on why (if this is the case with you)...

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Stephanie5 I was spanked as a child. I was also beaten. I was taken away by child protective services when I was about 8 years old and when they took me I had over 50 bruises. I was beaten with a wooden spoon, a yard stick, a peice of trim, a paddle, and finally a belt....

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nexis777 @nexis777 (134) • United States 28 Jan 07

Do you think yelling at your children is ok? Why or why not? I tend to think yelling does more harm to a child than a properly given spanking, although it may depend on the personality of the child. As a child I far preferred...

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ChicaPerica I agree with you Nexis. I was one of those where everytime I did something wrong as a child, yelling would always make me feel inferior and more of a disappointment.I think words are more dangerous than physical discipline. I would hate to hear my mother yell...

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nexis777 @nexis777 (134) • United States 28 Jan 07

Do you think yelling at your children is ok? Why or why not? I tend to think yelling does more harm to a child than a properly given spanking, although it may depend on the personality of the child. As a child I far preferred...

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mashimaro It is not right to yell your children, or yelling a person infront to your kids, because they will adopt this when they grow. it is bad for them, this is not a good example..because if they can see this to their parents they will think that yelling is good.

28 Jan 07

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nexis777 @nexis777 (134) • United States 28 Jan 07

Do you think yelling at your children is ok? Why or why not? I tend to think yelling does more harm to a child than a properly given spanking, although it may depend on the personality of the child. As a child I far preferred...

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jesi06 I AS WELL THINK THAT A SPANKING IS BETTER. MY MOTHER WOULD YELL AND SCREAM AT ME WHICH MADE ME FEEL LIKE LESS OF A PERSON. THE SPANKINGS I WOULD RECEIVE SEEMED TO GO AWAY FASTER THAN THE EMOTIONAL PAIN OF THE YELLING. ONE THING THAT REALLY ANGERS ME, IS WHEN I...

28 Jan 07

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nexis777 @nexis777 (134) • United States 28 Jan 07

Do you think yelling at your children is ok? Why or why not? I tend to think yelling does more harm to a child than a properly given spanking, although it may depend on the personality of the child. As a child I far preferred...

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Brooke3 No, I don't think it's okay. It's one thing to discipline your child and instruct them but it has to be done calmly. I tend to think of yelling as a sign of anger and you can't discipline anyone if you are angry, you are just acting on agression. I think that...

28 Jan 07

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nexis777 @nexis777 (134) • United States 28 Jan 07

Do you think yelling at your children is ok? Why or why not? I tend to think yelling does more harm to a child than a properly given spanking, although it may depend on the personality of the child. As a child I far preferred...

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carlaabt My son is almost 1 year old. I have not yelled at him. I think there are very few circumstances were yellling is needed. And I agree with a lot of the other posters, that the reason you need to yell is to get their attention because they are doing something...

28 Jan 07

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nexis777 @nexis777 (134) • United States 28 Jan 07

Do you think yelling at your children is ok? Why or why not? I tend to think yelling does more harm to a child than a properly given spanking, although it may depend on the personality of the child. As a child I far preferred...

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WebMann I personally tend to yell out of angry and trying to get through to child while your angry isn't great parenting. I don't claim to be better than any one this is my opinion and when my son was going through his teens I yelled many times out frustration at just...

28 Jan 07

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nexis777 @nexis777 (134) • United States 28 Jan 07

Do you think yelling at your children is ok? Why or why not? I tend to think yelling does more harm to a child than a properly given spanking, although it may depend on the personality of the child. As a child I far preferred...

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kataztrophy Yelling at anyone won't always get you the best results. Yelling will just let someone know that you are angry, but you must articulate your feeling without losing your temper to let people understand WHY you are angry.

28 Jan 07

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nexis777 @nexis777 (134) • United States 28 Jan 07

Do you think yelling at your children is ok? Why or why not? I tend to think yelling does more harm to a child than a properly given spanking, although it may depend on the personality of the child. As a child I far preferred...

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webduck Keeping calm when you want to yell is probably the hardest thing a parent has to do. If you are yelling, kids probably don't hear what you say as much as the tone you are saying it in. The only time I can say it might be good to yell at a child is when they...

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nexis777 @nexis777 (134) • United States 28 Jan 07

Do you think yelling at your children is ok? Why or why not? I tend to think yelling does more harm to a child than a properly given spanking, although it may depend on the personality of the child. As a child I far preferred...

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kiran_raj I do agree with u.. yelling jus harms the child rather tell them in a calm tone but make them realise that wat they have done actually dissappointed...Iam sure that they would understand...

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nexis777 @nexis777 (134) • United States 28 Jan 07

Do you think yelling at your children is ok? Why or why not? I tend to think yelling does more harm to a child than a properly given spanking, although it may depend on the personality of the child. As a child I far preferred...

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XxAngelxX I was spanked as a child too. Although it didn't happen very often and when it did, I knew I had definitely done something wrong. I try not to spank my children, although they've all had them. I try to go by the rule that they learn from us and if we are...

28 Jan 07

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nexis777 @nexis777 (134) • United States 28 Jan 07

Do you think yelling at your children is ok? Why or why not? I tend to think yelling does more harm to a child than a properly given spanking, although it may depend on the personality of the child. As a child I far preferred...

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Sir_bobby88 I think it is one of the worst thing you could do to discipline your children yea .... i mean children hates nagging nowadays ... you should find another way to communicate with them and discipline them in a way which they will respect you yea

28 Jan 07

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nexis777 @nexis777 (134) • United States 28 Jan 07

Do you think yelling at your children is ok? Why or why not? I tend to think yelling does more harm to a child than a properly given spanking, although it may depend on the personality of the child. As a child I far preferred...

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Ravenladyj "I think yelling, like spanking, teaches children how to handle themselves when they get into situations of conflict or disagreement. It teaches them to use the same non-constructive tools to battle for their way" I disagree wholeheartedly! I've spanked my...

28 Jan 07

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nexis777 @nexis777 (134) • United States 28 Jan 07

Do you think yelling at your children is ok? Why or why not? I tend to think yelling does more harm to a child than a properly given spanking, although it may depend on the personality of the child. As a child I far preferred...

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sbeauty Yelling at children causes more adverse effects than it helps anything. Think about yourself. How do you feel when you're yelled at, and how do you react? Children have less-developed coping mechanisms than you do, so they are unable to handle being yelled...

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nexis777 @nexis777 (134) • United States 28 Jan 07

Do you think yelling at your children is ok? Why or why not? I tend to think yelling does more harm to a child than a properly given spanking, although it may depend on the personality of the child. As a child I far preferred...

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marief2rnurse Yelling is never okay. Yelling at your kid won't let them listen to you. You'll only scare them and shut them down. That's why it's advised to calm down first before dealing with your kids when you're really upset.

28 Jan 07

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