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Loverdyll Merrilyn @nicki123tw (37) 11 Mar 19

Let's say you're going on a date with someone you really fancy. How would you want it to go? I personally would love to have some great coffee in the morning to get it going - no date would be good if you're headed out without...

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Loverdyll Merrilyn @nicki123tw (37) 11 Mar 19

Don't we all just wish that we can have the perfect, nice and pleasant customers or employers for our jobs? Unfortunately that rarely is the case! It's always a trade-off. When you get to enjoy nice employers, you would have...

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Loverdyll Merrilyn That's great! :D Glad you never have to face those issues :)

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Loverdyll Merrilyn @nicki123tw (37) 11 Mar 19

Don't we all just wish that we can have the perfect, nice and pleasant customers or employers for our jobs? Unfortunately that rarely is the case! It's always a trade-off. When you get to enjoy nice employers, you would have...

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Loverdyll Merrilyn @Janet357 Ah yes. That sort of thing. Unreasonable expectations etc is also really bad! :(

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Loverdyll Merrilyn @nicki123tw (37) 11 Mar 19

Don't we all just wish that we can have the perfect, nice and pleasant customers or employers for our jobs? Unfortunately that rarely is the case! It's always a trade-off. When you get to enjoy nice employers, you would have...

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Loverdyll Merrilyn I remember having one... *shudders*

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Loverdyll Merrilyn @nicki123tw (37) 11 Mar 19

Don't we all just wish that we can have the perfect, nice and pleasant customers or employers for our jobs? Unfortunately that rarely is the case! It's always a trade-off. When you get to enjoy nice employers, you would have...

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Loverdyll Merrilyn Yikes! It appears that my friend was not the only one who received that sort of treatment. Yes, they don't matter - we should be confident in our own skills and that's enough :)

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Loverdyll Merrilyn @nicki123tw (37) 11 Mar 19

Maybe I'm just one of the more 'modern' or 'millenial-minded' ladies out here, but all I can associate with having a child is stress, financial burden, and less time for myself and my husband! I have told my mother from when I...

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Loverdyll Merrilyn I suppose motherly instincts would still kick in when there is a kid involved! I heard so many stories about that. But yes, I'm glad that your daughter is happy with her life as it is :) Happiness is important!

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Loverdyll Merrilyn @nicki123tw (37) 11 Mar 19

Maybe I'm just one of the more 'modern' or 'millenial-minded' ladies out here, but all I can associate with having a child is stress, financial burden, and less time for myself and my husband! I have told my mother from when I...

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Loverdyll Merrilyn I can agree that I might change my mind one day :) There's no telling! I mean, I was once one of those girls who said "I will never want to get married! Boys are gross!!!" and well, look where I am now? xD Till then, I guess XD

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Loverdyll Merrilyn @nicki123tw (37) 11 Mar 19

Maybe I'm just one of the more 'modern' or 'millenial-minded' ladies out here, but all I can associate with having a child is stress, financial burden, and less time for myself and my husband! I have told my mother from when I...

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Loverdyll Merrilyn Yeah, my old folks always tell me that I will want to have kids, because 'who's going to take care of you when you're old?' I'm definitely not having kids just to appease someone else, no way!

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Loverdyll Merrilyn @nicki123tw (37) 11 Mar 19

Maybe I'm just one of the more 'modern' or 'millenial-minded' ladies out here, but all I can associate with having a child is stress, financial burden, and less time for myself and my husband! I have told my mother from when I...

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Loverdyll Merrilyn I know people from both scenarios as well :) It's great to hear from others' perspectives! I'm also glad that there are many people who understands!

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Loverdyll Merrilyn @nicki123tw (37) 11 Mar 19

Maybe I'm just one of the more 'modern' or 'millenial-minded' ladies out here, but all I can associate with having a child is stress, financial burden, and less time for myself and my husband! I have told my mother from when I...

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Loverdyll Merrilyn Yaassss lady, exactly! If I have a child as part of my own wishes, I would be very happy - no issues there. But just the thought of having a child because I was under pressure to have one... I can't imagine being able to give the love and resources that the...

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Loverdyll Merrilyn @nicki123tw (37) 11 Mar 19

Maybe I'm just one of the more 'modern' or 'millenial-minded' ladies out here, but all I can associate with having a child is stress, financial burden, and less time for myself and my husband! I have told my mother from when I...

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Loverdyll Merrilyn I understand how it can be a great experience to some others; Some of my friends gush over babies and can't wait to have a few with their partners and I'm absolutely thrilled for them as well when they have their kids! :D I'll stick by my choice until it...

11 Mar 19

Loverdyll Merrilyn @nicki123tw (37) 11 Mar 19

Maybe I'm just one of the more 'modern' or 'millenial-minded' ladies out here, but all I can associate with having a child is stress, financial burden, and less time for myself and my husband! I have told my mother from when I...

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Loverdyll Merrilyn I can never understand how it's selfish either! Apparently, just because you are not giving your own parents/ in-laws the joy of having grandchildren, it's selfish already. I certainly beg to differ! And wow, you sure are lucky to have so many little ones to...

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Loverdyll Merrilyn @nicki123tw (37) 11 Mar 19

Maybe I'm just one of the more 'modern' or 'millenial-minded' ladies out here, but all I can associate with having a child is stress, financial burden, and less time for myself and my husband! I have told my mother from when I...

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Loverdyll Merrilyn It's so heartwarming to see so many other women supporting each others' choices! Thank you very much for your input @aanshi :)

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Loverdyll Merrilyn @nicki123tw (37) 11 Mar 19

Don't we all just wish that we can have the perfect, nice and pleasant customers or employers for our jobs? Unfortunately that rarely is the case! It's always a trade-off. When you get to enjoy nice employers, you would have...

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Loverdyll Merrilyn @janethwayne Ahh that's a relief :D Keep improving and all the best!

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Loverdyll Merrilyn @nicki123tw (37) 11 Mar 19

Maybe I'm just one of the more 'modern' or 'millenial-minded' ladies out here, but all I can associate with having a child is stress, financial burden, and less time for myself and my husband! I have told my mother from when I...

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Loverdyll Merrilyn Thank you for the support! At the same time, I really hope that you will be blessed with your own child soon as well :)

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Loverdyll Merrilyn @nicki123tw (37) 11 Mar 19

Maybe I'm just one of the more 'modern' or 'millenial-minded' ladies out here, but all I can associate with having a child is stress, financial burden, and less time for myself and my husband! I have told my mother from when I...

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Loverdyll Merrilyn @yoalldudes I do! I have actually babysat them a few times. Helping my cousins or siblings with their kids is fine - I can return the kids to their respective parents! Thankfully, they are growing up okay :)

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Loverdyll Merrilyn @nicki123tw (37) 11 Mar 19

Don't we all just wish that we can have the perfect, nice and pleasant customers or employers for our jobs? Unfortunately that rarely is the case! It's always a trade-off. When you get to enjoy nice employers, you would have...

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Loverdyll Merrilyn *rolls eyes* tell me about it! Those are the worst!

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Loverdyll Merrilyn @nicki123tw (37) 11 Mar 19

Don't we all just wish that we can have the perfect, nice and pleasant customers or employers for our jobs? Unfortunately that rarely is the case! It's always a trade-off. When you get to enjoy nice employers, you would have...

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Loverdyll Merrilyn Yiikes. That's not pleasant at all :( I hope it's a lot better for you now!

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Loverdyll Merrilyn @nicki123tw (37) 11 Mar 19

Maybe I'm just one of the more 'modern' or 'millenial-minded' ladies out here, but all I can associate with having a child is stress, financial burden, and less time for myself and my husband! I have told my mother from when I...

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Loverdyll Merrilyn You go girl!

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Loverdyll Merrilyn @nicki123tw (37) 11 Mar 19

Maybe I'm just one of the more 'modern' or 'millenial-minded' ladies out here, but all I can associate with having a child is stress, financial burden, and less time for myself and my husband! I have told my mother from when I...

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Loverdyll Merrilyn Yes, yes. We are overpopulated as it is :( Humans are doing so much harm to Mother Nature, and I'm doing every part that I can. Thank you for your comment!

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