nicola531

@nicola531 (43)

Italy • Age 42

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How to propose a girl??

Navoptimus @Navoptimus (172) • India 1 Mar 12

I love a girl very much, since high school. But I don't know how to tell her the same. I fear I might do something wrong, that might make her hate me or something. Can anyone help me? Or suggest me something?

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nicola531 Just try to understand if when you are with her you (both of you) can feel that kind of interaction that makes your relationship special. If so it will not be so diffucult to move further and everything will be special!

3 Mar 12

Why do you think it's important to save rather than spend?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 8 Jan 12

I think a lot of the time we think saving is boring. And we are more likely to see what we want quicker if we buy things faster. But if we save money it can really be of help to us if we have an emergency come up. It can't help us...

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nicola531 Saving is important to be the richest of the cemetery :) Kidding... it is important because you never know what life brings to you! Anyhow I like saving because I like to see my bank account growing in amount. Am I nuts? :)

27 Feb 12

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Afraid of confessing

leoifrah @leoifrah (31) • Hong Kong 27 Feb 12

I like this girl for over a year already but I never had the chance to tell her...I feel conflicted to tell her and its our last year so...

love

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nicola531 you've never had I chance to tell her probably because you've never found to make the situation happend.... You've got one possibility and your entire life to tell yourself that you've should have done it.. Even one on a million is good enough to risk (and...

27 Feb 12

I love you

haqueen @haqueen (236) • United States 27 Feb 12

This are the most strange words that i have failed to understand.. i think its the aspect of love that human has failed to explain.. when i think of some thing i love for real and from dip in my heart.. i just think of God....

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nicola531 Love doesn't ask any explanations or forcing behavior. Don't worry if you don't love human beings, probably they love you the way you are and that's the most important thing. you'll find your way, just be gentle with other people and you'll have done...

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Money burns a hole in my hand

Yanzalong @yanzalong (18984) • Indonesia 27 Feb 12

When I got a lot of money on me, it usually goes out of my hand very quickly. There are always things to buy. My wife has a lot of long list to buy, kids come to me and nag at me that they haven't changed their school bags for a...

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spent money

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nicola531 Actually I'm single so I don't have those real problems. Anyhow I agree that money goes away quickly. The more you get the more they go away!! it is crazy. And I don't know in your country, but in mine prices are increasing tremendously especially petrol....

27 Feb 12

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Being Lucky, and being the opposite in LIFE...

chiyochan @chiyosan (30184) • Philippines 10 Apr 11

Do you think people are born to be that "someone". Say, a person is born to be a President. It is their destiny.. or is it by their choices, own free will, or own doing and that their LIFE and how it would turn out to be... is not...

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nicola531 just one thing: don't limit your dreams. Other people are doing it for you.. let them doing it. you just cross the barriers and go straight till you want! the engine of you dreams it is in you, remember it. remember it.

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I ask this girl out and well just read it ~_~ im really depressed

viney17 @viney17 (688) • Philippines 4 Jan 12

So i like this girl, we are really close. I am really shy but i got the courage to confess to her. I confessed to her, i mean in person, not online or through texting. Then i asked her if she would like to go out with me, i told...

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nicola531 Ever tried. Ever failed. Try again. Fail again. Fail better.

26 Feb 12

How to say hello to ex?

picture59 @picture59 (64) • Malaysia 13 Feb 12

We had been separated for almost 3 years and lost contact. Someone was once so closed and yet became a stranger, I wish we could be friends again, just friend, who can sit and talk or grab lunch. However, my friends always told me...

keep it touch with ex

lost contact

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nicola531 The point is: can we stop loving someone? or Can we turn someone whose we loved so deeply in just one friend? have we got that strength? I'm not sure I so strong. Probably if I can't have someone because something went wrong it's better not seeing him/her...

26 Feb 12

why does love topics gets a high number of comments?

daniel_chang @daniel_chang (75) • Philippines 14 Feb 12

I was just wondering every time i see the top discussed topics in mylot, love topics are always in the list. Maybe not the highest and also not the lowest, it's just there. What is in love that people feel or becomes intriguing to...

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nicola531 because it is a primary need. we can't fool ourselves. we can't escape love. it is our natural drugs and we need it.

26 Feb 12

Girls feel shy to propose ~ why always guys~

victorkrish @victorkrish (1614) • Malaysia 22 Feb 12

My dear friends, Why girls are feel shy to propose even they fall in love?? Is that must guys propose first? Any comment wanna share here?

love

propose

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nicola531 The nature, our world is done this way. You are the man and the "hunter". The courage is yours and the attention should be yours too. If you pay attention the tell you the want you, but not with the words, but with the body. Anyhow for me the best way to...

26 Feb 12

What do you think are the ways to show your husband how you care? :)

eneria04 @eneria04 (115) • Philippines 21 Feb 12

I'm only 24 years old and my soon-to-be husband is already 30 years. I'm afraid I won't be able to give things he wanted for a wife. Do you have any idea about this? This is really bothers me.

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husband

wife

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nicola531 Just the fact that you're looking a way to make him happy it makes you a very good soon-to-be wife. Don't worry you'll be a good wife because you have care of him and if he is not a fool he knows that every time I'll need something you'll be there and I...

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What is your OWN point of view about SUCCESS?

Metatronik @Metatronik (6199) • Pasay, Philippines 26 Feb 12

If you were to asked how do you measure SUCCESS then what would be your answer in your own words? Do you think it has something to do with the amount of money that you have or being a rich person in order for you to be called...

rich person

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successful

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nicola531 Successful people are not always happy, especially if they change their success with their life. In physiology there is one theory called "the substitution of the purpose" which tells that sometimes the means substitutes the aim. For instance if you want to...

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Which is better? Meeting your life partner at a young age or at a later age??

cyclopz @cyclopz (251) • Sydney, Australia 26 Feb 12

Well something came to my mind when i saw two couples with their baby in a stroller, just looking at them i could say that they are both minors(maybe in their mid teens arouno 16 years old). They have known each other at a young...

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nicola531 In my opinion too young it is not good because you'll loose him/her for sure. Espacially between 15 and 25 where life changes very fast. So if you find "your half" it would be a pity like often happens. Probably around 25-35 it should be the best because...

26 Feb 12

While eating fork should be in which hand

bhanushali1 @bhanushali1 (42) • India 24 Feb 12

I am right handed and i think its seems to make more sense to use the right had with fork and knife with left, the way you don't have to be switching while you eat. Being right handed, what you think is the right way to eat ?????...

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nicola531 Left the fork and right the knife. I'm left-handed and it is the only thing we do this way. I suppose Galateo book says so but I'm not sure. I had to learn to use the mouse with the right hand too!!!

26 Feb 12

How do you handle STRESS?

Metatronik @Metatronik (6199) • Pasay, Philippines 26 Feb 12

If you were to ask how do you handle stress that what would be your answer? Because in my case I just answered it in simple like drinking tea, coffee or energy drink. At first I just really thought that I have to be articulate...

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nicola531 Breath, think, wait and focus on one task a time! That's the theory, for sure it is difficult to apply, especially the last point in a work context where you have tons of task to complete. What I do in real life is to stand the stress till I can, afterward...

26 Feb 12

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Social Drinking

dlawrence1208 @dlawrence1208 (25) • United States 26 Feb 12

My usual drink on Saturday nights is Captain Morgan Long Island Iced Tea (with extra captain added) and Pepsi. Although I love it alot, I felt the need to try something different. Some might think this to be a little unorthodox,...

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nicola531 Americano, best choice! Hemingway choice!

26 Feb 12

Do you think there is DIFFERENCE between SMART and INTELLIGENT?

Metatronik @Metatronik (6199) • Pasay, Philippines 26 Feb 12

1. What is your own point of view for being smart and intelligent? 2. Do you think those people who are smart or intelligent can have emotional maturity and can think logically more often in real life situation? 3. Do you also...

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nicola531 In my opinion smart and intelligent go with the same pace. Anyhow a smart person, as far as I understand has one more gear which make him/her brilliant and think-different person. An intelligent person may not be smart while the contrary can happen.

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Counting the Pennies!

TheIrishClog @TheIrishClog (985) • Ireland 25 Feb 12

We have two tins at home, one for coppers and one for coins. Coppers are .01, .02 and .05, the rest are .10, .20, .50, 1.00 and 2.00 euro coins. All our change goes into these tins for the most part, and every year it pays...

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nicola531 Yes I actually do the same but as an exercise now. I'm starting giving up smoking so since we I'm able to smoke less I put the corresponding cash in my jar (5 cigarettes against 16 in average so it is 11 cigarettes coin to put into the jar). I'm doing it...

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Is the hamburger in Burger King better than McDonald's?

youless @youless (112103) • Guangzhou, China 25 Feb 12

Today my son and I went to have the lunch and then watched a movie after that. Burger King is nearby McDonald's. Since there are few Burger King but more than McDonald's here, so I'd like to try something new. And the sales in...

burger king

hamburger

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nicola531 Yes, in my opinion the hamburger is better in BK because is fresher, but the fries are better the ones of Mc. i suppose that BK has bigger hambugers

25 Feb 12

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