onewaydream

@onewaydream (27)

China • Age 40

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Your family or your Boyfriend?

svjomboy @svjomboy (873) • Philippines 11 Nov 11

Guys there are two lovers but not all the situations family favored, if your boyfriend and your parents against with him what would you do? Not only in the movie we can see the story parents choosing their son or daughter...

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onewaydream Maybe both are worst options. But if you were facing the dilemma, you should make the choose. For me, of course I will choose family. I love my family. All of the members of the family love me and give me a lot of help in my life. But it doesn't mean...

12 Nov 11

I am learning so much online

amybcraft77 @amybcraft77 (314) 4 Nov 11

Loving all I am learning online right now, I realize I have a long way more to go but will not give up. I love to research and learn new things, I keep notes too. I have found several sites online that can make you an income if...

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onewaydream If you want to earn money with internet, maybe you can register some users in so many sites. But you can never do it well if you have so many sites. I think mylot is very good. If all of us can never give up, every one can get much from it. It is only...

11 Nov 11

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earning money

mbs6003 @mbs6003 (23) • United States 11 Nov 11

I have been trying to earn money with the internet but to my dismay it is not all that easy, may be some one could direct me in the right direction

easy money

make my day with money

online cash

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onewaydream Hi, mbs6003. Maybe mylot is a good platform for you, you can learn a lot and can get extra money. But you should know the money is something extra. Of course, you can get much you want if you can insist on it. Everything can get rewards if you can do it...

11 Nov 11

how do ou enjoy your day in wet season..

deliar @deliar (608) • Indonesia 10 Nov 11

in wet season like this, how do you enjoy it? i would like to have a cup of tea, sitting in front of window, looking outside.. feel the peace in the rain... really exciting...

wet season

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onewaydream It is a good time for relaxing. In wet season, many friends don't like going out. So I can talk with them, sharing each other with the interesting things. Maybe it is a good idea. But Now I have to work and many friends start their career periods and all of us...

11 Nov 11

what is purpose in your life?

reinykwan @reinykwan (350) • Indonesia 27 Aug 11

dear all, sometimes I think about this life, what is purpose in this life? some of people said that they life to love, wealth and health, but some people said that they prepare to next life (I mean life after die) then they do all...

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onewaydream Every one has his purpose. But only a little part of us knows exactly what it is. Many of us only know a concept about it. So many people like comparing himself with others, that maybe you say "envy". If you don't bore others, this "envy" is not a bad thing....

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please help me,my bestfriend is a mistress!

churchill1980 @churchill1980 (764) • Philippines 26 Aug 11

we are friends for more than 15 years right now. we got married, have kids and our friendship still remains. she is separated with her husband but they are not annulled yet. now here comes a very much married man, they became...

mistress

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onewaydream It confuses me. She is your best friend whatever she does or what she is doing. So maybe you should always remember this. But you think that thing is not a good thing. You can tell her but you can't help her choose. She have her own life and she is an adult...

26 Aug 11

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If an electronic broken, should you fix it or dump it? How do you know?

kingparker @kingparker (9672) • United States 25 Aug 11

I just wonder, if you got your Television, like your flat screen TV broken, or not function as you want it to be, do you still want it to get fixed, or would you simply dump it to dumpster and it is cheaper to get a new one? How...

dump

electronics

fix

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onewaydream Hi. I always ask myself how to do when I face the same situation. Maybe the cost is an important factor when we decide how to deal with. The electronics changes very quickly, so maybe you can get a new but much cheaper than the cost of the repair when it...

26 Aug 11

How did your husband or partner do with your little infant?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9460) • United States 17 Aug 11

I was wondering how does or did your husband/partner do with your infant? My husband has not been around an infant since his little brother was born. Which is a very long time. He has such a hard time with our little girl. I...

husband with infant

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onewaydream I am a boy. Maybe I can't know exactly what would happened if I would take care of the litter infant alone. But, I like children. Years ago, I helped to take care of my elder cousin's daughter at some time. At that time, my grandma gave me some advises. And...

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LSS: have you experience this?

eynjel_1988 @eynjel_1988 (330) • Philippines 16 Aug 11

LSS means: Last Sound Syndrome. I think some of us or should I say most of us experienced this one. It is when there is a song or sound that keeps on repeating in our head it is like hearing the song all over again even though...

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onewaydream Yes. I like pop music. Every day I must listen to music. But I always can't sing the songs well. Just like listening. That's it. I enjoy the process. When I experience a situation like song, I will hearing the song. Or when I am very happy or feel...

16 Aug 11

Do you comply or complain?

arlerambabu @arlerambabu (1079) • India 16 Aug 11

Both complying and complaining are good if done in a reasonable and rational value. What I mean to say is that, complying and complaining are nothing but knowing your “Responsibilities and Rights” as a citizen. Till what extent...

responsibilities

rights

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onewaydream Sometimes I like complaining. And I have the same opinions. No matter you comply or complain, we should own the same feeling that I like the country, the company or our home. If I were a member of a company, I should just choose a way to solve the...

16 Aug 11

What do you think of China's attitude towards US?

scheng1 @scheng1 (24647) • Singapore 6 Aug 11

According to a news report in Reuters, China's official news agency says that China has the right to demand US to solve the debt problem, and to ensure the safety of China's assets (meaning the Treasury bonds). What do you think...

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onewaydream It is a good discussion. China is not a rich country. Maybe you will say that China develops very fast. Maybe China is the second largest economy in the world. But China have 1.3 billion people, you know. Now China is the largest holder of US Treasury...

15 Aug 11

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Do you reflect on past discussions.

megamatt @megamatt (14289) • United States 15 Aug 11

There are times where months and months down the line, I look at an old discussion and try and think how it went. I wonder what I might have done to improve it or marvel at how I might have really gotten a larger volume of...

discussions

experience

mylot

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onewaydream Yes. I like answer some topics that I am interested in. And sometimes I feel that my answer is not right. Or sometimes I can understand something that always confuses me from others' answer of the discussions. And mostly I think the answer maybe not the...

15 Aug 11

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Get married or not?

kwylima @kwylima (451) • United States 15 Aug 11

I have a boyfriend for now! Haha but I would like to know what ou think about marriage. I want go get married sowmday I just don't know when or if the person who I am in love right now is the perfect person. I had a mother...

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onewaydream I think you should ask yourself "What's the meaning of the right person?". And I want to tell you mostly the right one is not the perfect. Maybe just you love him. Many of us always like making choices. And at last, you know, the last one maybe isn't your...

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Forgive and forget

Adornado @Adornado (103) • Philippines 15 Aug 11

Do you think the key to a long lasting relationship or marriage is to forgive and forget wrong doings to one another?

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onewaydream I don't think so. Maybe I can't get the meaning of 'forgive'. In our life, we should live together with our friends, our relatives. In the common affairs of life, many things don't have any right or wrong. Maybe just do understand each other. Maybe no...

15 Aug 11

learning when to let go..

eynjel_1988 @eynjel_1988 (330) • Philippines 14 Aug 11

Hello mylotters..Did you experienced of letting go of someone that you really love? It's like you let go of that person because you don't want other person to be hurt if you didn't do such? Lat night, I had watched a tv program....

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onewaydream I love a girl but she has a boyfriend and she told me that she loved that boy. I have been very bad for a long time. And then I went of her. Most of us would like her/him to be happy. That is to say, maybe it is a good choice to go of the lover at a right...

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Request a wife who was ill.

sql_cell @sql_cell (1427) • Indonesia 13 Aug 11

If your wife is ill, and your wife tells you to look for another wife, what would you do? Whether to obey your wife? Or you will resist your wife?

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onewaydream Maybe I can't get the answer. I just to say. If she is ill, she is your wife. If she is not ill, she is your wife. If only she is yours, your are her husband. You should take care of her, make her laugh and give a happiness to her.

14 Aug 11

Modern apartment building or traditional house?

tenrajj @tenrajj (910) • Bhutan 13 Aug 11

Would you prefer to live in traditional house or in a modern apartment building? There are many advantages if being in modern apartment. Modern apartment building has very good facilities including toilets, kitchen etc and...

home

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onewaydream I am living in a traditional house. And I am used to it. So maybe I prefer to live in a traditional house. But you know, maybe some days later, I can afford a modern apartment building and maybe I am used to it. So I think it is just whether you are used...

14 Aug 11

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What would you do if your husband wasted thousands of dollars?

dlpierce @dlpierce (495) • United States 13 Aug 11

About a year ago I sold a piece of property left to me by my mother. I put some money into separate savings accounts for my husband and I to have for safe keeping if something should happen to either of us the other would be...

betrayal

lost trust

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onewaydream Men and women, you know, always have different way of thinking. If you would like to persuade him to agree with your way, it will be very difficult. He is 60 years old. He have his own judgement. You thought you did the right thing. So did him. Maybe you...

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Listening to others.

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 13 Aug 11

When we are open to hearing what others have to say, we encourage discussion. Our friends know that they are being listened to and are more inclined to hear our views when our turn comes to speak. We have created an atmosphere of...

encouragement

listening

respect

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onewaydream If we are open to discussion, it will create a good atmosphere and can share the ideas.

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in life, having support will develop a more confidence and determination..

airasheila @airasheila (5454) • Philippines 13 Aug 11

hello dear fellow mylotters, my sister and i have had a chat this afternoon regarding support and determination. that she told me, her classmates in culinary school already finished their on-the-job training and now ready to...

confidence

determination

support

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onewaydream I don't agree with it. Everyone has his own way of thinking, and maybe very different. And when you are determined to do something at the beginning, maybe it is just a concept, your parents, your good friends maybe can't understand it. So sometimes it...

14 Aug 11