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pearlypearl @pearlypearl (95) • Indonesia 17 Jan 07

Hey all, take a look at my avatar. There's a picture of me and my dear mom. Do you think i look like her? We both have dimples, and believe it or not my finger and feet have the same size with hers. Many people said that i'm a...

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pearlypearl Thanks for your compliment. Yes, i'm very close to her....although we fight sometimes but i love her so much.

17 Jan 07

pearlypearl @pearlypearl (95) • Indonesia 17 Jan 07

Hey all, take a look at my avatar. There's a picture of me and my dear mom. Do you think i look like her? We both have dimples, and believe it or not my finger and feet have the same size with hers. Many people said that i'm a...

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pearlypearl Hahah.....thanks wolf.

17 Jan 07

pearlypearl @pearlypearl (95) • Indonesia 16 Jan 07

I asked my close gal pal last night (who is getting married in september), how can you be so sure in marrying your boyfriend? what makes you convinced that he's the one? And her answer was quite shocking and caught me off guard,...

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pearlypearl Yup, i will think everything trough when my day comes. The point of no returns is not an option to engaged myself in a relationship. Marriage definitely is the biggest deal in life.

17 Jan 07

pearlypearl @pearlypearl (95) • Indonesia 16 Jan 07

I'm sure you all have heard of white lies before. They said that these types of lies won't hurt anybody, but is it true? If someone ask you if she looks good in a wedding dress that she's wearing, and you don't really think so,...

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pearlypearl Luckily, i told her that she looks great and that she shouldn't be worry about a thing. I'm glad that i've told her that, if it's my wedding day, i would want my friend to do the same thing...:p

17 Jan 07

pearlypearl @pearlypearl (95) • Indonesia 17 Jan 07

Is money comes first in choosing a guy to date? a husband to marry? If you're in a selecting process of finday your significant other, is money your major consideration? is the fact that he's rich or not influence your decision...

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pearlypearl In a short term, i'm sure that you won't mind being the one who provide all the money as long as your loved ones is not working. But in the long run, would you still be ok with it? Personality, character also plays a really important part in choosing a partner...

17 Jan 07

kbourgerie @kbourgerie (8780) • United States 2 Feb 08

Sometimes when you post a discussion you may get a response that you don't agree with or that you find offensive. How do you react to this? Do you ignore it? Do you find yourself responding and defending your position or do you...

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pearlypearl Sometimes when you post a discussion you may get a response that you don't agree with or that you find offensive. How do you react to this? Do you ignore it? Do you find yourself responding and defending your position or do you tell all your other friends...

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pearlypearl @pearlypearl (95) • Indonesia 15 Jan 07

I've heard about people getting better treatment everywhere, getting free stuff and everything....but if you can choose between having a really smart brain or a really great outer looks, what would it be? (great looks doesn't...

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pearlypearl Yup, in short term that's true. But in the long run, i highly doubted that looks will generates special treatment forever. Looks fade away, when you get older you're definitely gonna need the brain. But thanks for the respond anyway.

17 Jan 07

pearlypearl @pearlypearl (95) • Indonesia 15 Jan 07

Mylot is supposed to be a place where people can discuss many topics and find friends with the same interest and communicate with them. The goal is to create a circle of friend, to find solutions for problems, and share your...

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pearlypearl Well, i've joined mylot for 1 week now and enjoy every discussions i have here. It really brighten your whole perspective in life and honestly sometimes you can find the answers for your question here..

17 Jan 07

pearlypearl @pearlypearl (95) • Indonesia 16 Jan 07

I asked my close gal pal last night (who is getting married in september), how can you be so sure in marrying your boyfriend? what makes you convinced that he's the one? And her answer was quite shocking and caught me off guard,...

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pearlypearl Wow, a very enlightning respond. Best one so far. It really opens a new perspective in marriage for me. I will take my time in finding the right time to get married. Marriage is not a destination, like love, it's also a journey/process till the end. It takes...

17 Jan 07

pearlypearl @pearlypearl (95) • Indonesia 15 Jan 07

Have you ever met someone and knew right then that he's the one you'd want to spend your life with? I believe that there's no love at first sight, it's pure crush. Love at first sight or i may reffer as crush from now on, can only...

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pearlypearl Yes, it's an attraction that will gradually may turn to love, if we explore each other, getting to know someone better. There's no love just in a straight look or glance, it's pure attraction.

16 Jan 07

pearlypearl @pearlypearl (95) • Indonesia 15 Jan 07

I've heard about people getting better treatment everywhere, getting free stuff and everything....but if you can choose between having a really smart brain or a really great outer looks, what would it be? (great looks doesn't...

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pearlypearl Looks are short term, but in the long you'll be needing the brain, correct? Thanks for sharing

16 Jan 07

pearlypearl @pearlypearl (95) • Indonesia 15 Jan 07

I've heard about people getting better treatment everywhere, getting free stuff and everything....but if you can choose between having a really smart brain or a really great outer looks, what would it be? (great looks doesn't...

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pearlypearl yupee...my point exactly. Nice respond. GBU

16 Jan 07

pearlypearl @pearlypearl (95) • Indonesia 16 Jan 07

Really, will it be that scary to meet your future mom in law? And how many of you don't mind to live with them u got married? I mind, really. I don't know why, but i've always had this problem with the mothers of my boyfriends....

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pearlypearl yupeee..someone woth exact same thought. That's right, the girl's moms are always better, nicer (I'm not just saying this because i'm a girl) but it's true, really. My mom is always been nothing but super nice to him. Is it me that's not so lovable? I can be...

16 Jan 07

pearlypearl @pearlypearl (95) • Indonesia 15 Jan 07

I've heard about people getting better treatment everywhere, getting free stuff and everything....but if you can choose between having a really smart brain or a really great outer looks, what would it be? (great looks doesn't...

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pearlypearl Yeah, it's always beyond physical. And when the aging strikes, the looks will fade away, but the brai...as long as you're still using it, stays with u forever.

16 Jan 07

pearlypearl @pearlypearl (95) • Indonesia 16 Jan 07

Really, will it be that scary to meet your future mom in law? And how many of you don't mind to live with them u got married? I mind, really. I don't know why, but i've always had this problem with the mothers of my boyfriends....

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pearlypearl Yup....u get me. I think it's necessary to get along with his family whether you'll be moving in or not. Because in eastern tradition when 2 people are getting married than you're not only marrying ur husband but also his entire family. Nice respond, best one...

16 Jan 07

pearlypearl @pearlypearl (95) • Indonesia 15 Jan 07

I've heard about people getting better treatment everywhere, getting free stuff and everything....but if you can choose between having a really smart brain or a really great outer looks, what would it be? (great looks doesn't...

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pearlypearl Yup, i think it's much more rewarding if someone appreciate what you've done or who you are, than how you looks.

16 Jan 07

pearlypearl @pearlypearl (95) • Indonesia 15 Jan 07

Have you ever met someone and knew right then that he's the one you'd want to spend your life with? I believe that there's no love at first sight, it's pure crush. Love at first sight or i may reffer as crush from now on, can only...

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pearlypearl Hmmm...thx for you respond. My point exactly. I don't think love can happened only in a glance. It takes process to be in love with someone.

16 Jan 07

pearlypearl @pearlypearl (95) • Indonesia 15 Jan 07

I've heard about people getting better treatment everywhere, getting free stuff and everything....but if you can choose between having a really smart brain or a really great outer looks, what would it be? (great looks doesn't...

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pearlypearl That's right, the brain will limit your bondaries of everything. Thx for responding. GBU

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pearlypearl @pearlypearl (95) • Indonesia 15 Jan 07

Have you ever met someone and knew right then that he's the one you'd want to spend your life with? I believe that there's no love at first sight, it's pure crush. Love at first sight or i may reffer as crush from now on, can only...

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pearlypearl Hahaha....in love? not really, i think. But thanks for the respond. I couldn't agree with u more. And it's not even alentine's day yet totnakish! haha

16 Jan 07

pearlypearl @pearlypearl (95) • Indonesia 15 Jan 07

I've heard about people getting better treatment everywhere, getting free stuff and everything....but if you can choose between having a really smart brain or a really great outer looks, what would it be? (great looks doesn't...

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pearlypearl Wow such a fascinating argument. My question was, what if you've been given the right to choose between having the brain or the body before u were even born. What would it be? A bit of both will benice though, but without the brain, the body will be useless, i...

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