Welcome to our home!

The best way to make your guests comfortable at your home is to give the adequate attention they need during the duration of their visit. there is nothing more uncomfortable than to visit somebody who could not give the time to at least entertain the visitor. Feel them like they are much welcome into your home and not a nuisance just disturbing you. You know what, we have the same attitude towards socializing outside. I am not really into it and I feel awkward visiting others most especially those who are not yet close to me. Have a nice day entertaining your many guests. I hope to visit you one of these days so be prepared.

I feel for you there. I prefer not being in big groups of people or even when I'm trying to learn something and the teacher feels that putting people into a group to discuss answers and outcomes...can't stand that. Just tell me your opinion and teach. Anyway, sometimes I do surprise myself and open up to people that have similar opinions and interests that I do and enjoy myself. I've just gotten used to knowing I am who I am and if someone feels I'm boring its their problem. Now my husband is a big time extravert, so we compliment each other. He too will invite people over and I just be myself and try to be as kind and friendly as possible. That's pretty much all you can expect yourself to do. Good luck to you.

I offer them a drink and some homemade cookies or muffins. If my guest is like me, then I start the conversation by asking them a question. How is your family? This usually helps to discuss other topics and what is new in their life. If they love flowers, then we will go outside and sit on a bench and talk about our new flowers and plants we would like to grow in the future. Its important to enjoy the conversation, as time is to short now, so I don't like to have a bad day.

First and foremost try to bring in a positive attitude in your thoughts.Try to find out why you feel uncomfortabe among others.Start realizing the fact that you are also a part of the society that you tend to feel uncomfortabe in.Question yourself as to why you feel you messing up others time.To be very specific be optimistic and think psitive,your positive attitude and extrovert nature will even make an unwanted visitor feel at home.All men needs recreation and social ocassions are a way to recreate yourself,it does not bother or disturb anyone.Try to take the social situations as they come without thinking to much about it;This would make you accept the different situations easily.Try to find joy in these ocassions and you will find it easy to welcome all types of guests.

I'm like you, I'm a bit uncomfortable in social situations and even visiting the homes of family and close friends I'm a little uncomfortable. I however love entertaining at my home. As for how I welcome people to my home I guess I just do my best to be myself, pleasent and cheerful, and pray alot.

I love coffee for many reasons and one being you can always sit and share a cup of coffee when nothing else seems to work.