if you don't find your lover, whether you feel lonely?

China
May 6, 2007 8:49am CST
I have not a bf, although i have liked several men,finally I did not choose anyone of them. when i saw some loves walking hand by hand ,the feel of lonely will attack me. i don't know what will you feel about that.
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12 responses
@xiqechill (238)
• Indonesia
17 May 07
me too... sometimes i feel lonely, especially most of my friends have their mates already, but... i think right now being single is the best for me, coz of my selfishness. :D
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• China
20 May 07
I don't know what you mean about that you said your selfishness
• Indonesia
20 May 07
it means i being slefish.. hahaha... i was lazy too look up dictionary to find what's the noun for selfish :D sorry :)
@stelly (229)
• China
15 May 07
:) i think we should choose bf for loving.because i have a lot of friends i don't feel lonely.
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• China
16 May 07
I always think that you're a lovely girl
@yan_i24 (258)
• Philippines
10 May 07
Yeah I will also envy partners if I saw them walking hand in hand. But you know, we can start finding a new love, and we can wait too. We can do both actually so other people will envy on us if they see us walking hand in hand with a partner.
@yan_i24 (258)
• Philippines
10 May 07
Correct. Goodluck on your future love life! =) take care..
• China
10 May 07
Perhaps we need a bf/gf not just for the envy from the others.haha:) we want to find a person whom we can spend happy time with.GOOD LUCK.
@gasmas100 (585)
• India
10 May 07
i too often feel sad and lonely, when i see couples walking hand in hand, but i know that my time will come too...........just need to be patient.
• China
10 May 07
yes,just is a problem of time.haha:)
• India
11 May 07
yet, hoping the wait is not too long though...lol
• China
11 May 07
be confident with yourself haha:) certainly if you need true love,what you should do not only to wait,also actively to find.
@niang03 (147)
• China
20 May 07
Well bonnie...i don't feel lonely just because no bf..i have friends around me,who will accompany me whenever i need them,just go to them...maybe you should go with your friends and hanging out with them,so you don't feel lonely again..i think,what's a big deal if u saw loves walking in front of you..you don't need to be lonely,there are plenty of friends around you..they are ready to chat and spend time together:).
• China
21 May 07
Dear niang03: yes,i have many friends around me.they are lovely for me , i love them. i think we can share all the happy and unhappy things and share lots of beautiful memory.GOOD LUCK FOR YOU .
@PsychoDude (2013)
• Netherlands
6 May 07
I know what you mean, when I wasn't together with someone I had that feeling as well, especially in spring and summer when you suddenly see people together everywhere. You just feel like you're missing out at times like that.
• China
7 May 07
everything will be well, i hope what i thought will not last long time.
@mr_ilham (1608)
• Indonesia
21 May 07
may be yes may be not depend on us can make happy or not thank you http://mrezanailham.blogspot.com
@magica (3707)
• Bulgaria
6 May 07
Sometimes it happens. Not so much a loneliness, more often this is a worry /i allways worry too much indeed/. Sometimes without any reason to do it.
• China
7 May 07
it sounds that some of us have the same feelings.even if they have a lover. maybe all those feelings juse are from the lives the we live.
@bindishah (2062)
• India
10 May 07
I have a bf right now. but there wasa time when i didnt have - and i would see other people being with someoen and i would want that. i wouldnt feel lonely but I would get the feeling that i want to be with someone. I guess it is just a natural response - after all we all want someone to love.
• China
10 May 07
you're right "we all want someone to love".maybe that will make our life meaningful.
@Divzs18 (441)
• India
10 May 07
I know what u mean by this... But every thing happens at the right time. Some gets it late and some gets them early. Every one has their soul mate which is made in the heaven... U'll surely get ur partner and the one u'll get will be the best one for u...so just wait till the right time comes...
• China
11 May 07
Expecting the day come,LOL:)
@mystery5 (350)
• India
6 May 07
I can understand how you feel. But then, think of the people who have reached their mid-thirties and still not found their match! I know a couple of people like that and they are really desperate to find someone who they can spend their life with. If you expect to find the 'best' guy, and fear that you might have to make too many adjustments, then it is unlikely that you'll find a match soon. You have to accept a person as a human being first- no one's perfect, and you have to live with their imperfections and love them for it
• China
7 May 07
thank you for your response,what you said was so right. no one is perfect, even if there is one who is perfect we think,which just is a subjective thinking.maybe the one i can spend my life with is just beside me ,but i am absorbed in looking for the 'perfect' one,and don't found him. probably most of people like me have the same experience.
@petitpapa (194)
• China
13 May 07
i have not a bf now, but i have never felt lonely.i just wait that the arrival of my prince charming who is destined.maybe it will never be ture but i still believe in destined.
• China
16 May 07
only you keep a good attitude like that you have now,your wich will come true in a near future.
@hexu640 (139)
• China
13 May 07
yes.i have this feel.i am very lonely when my bf not beside me.i think i have nothing to do. watching TV is boring,play game and visit website as the same.
• China
16 May 07
hope you have a happy life and a good bf.